TOTV Meet and Greet can we revive this?

Closed Thread
Thread Tools
  #91  
Old 05-14-2018, 05:47 PM
graciegirl's Avatar
graciegirl graciegirl is offline
Sage
Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 40,196
Thanks: 5,029
Thanked 5,796 Times in 2,007 Posts
Send a message via AIM to graciegirl
Default

No matter that there are so many users of Talk of the Villages, only twice have we had 40 people at the Crispers meeting.. Most of the time there is about a dozen. The Rec centers allow you to use the room if you have a certain amount of people. If you drop to a few, you lose use of the room.

More do come when the administrators of the site send a reminder, which happened twice. It is often the same people every time with two or three newbies and there was never any pot stirrer's or any eyebrow raising comments.

There was never anything close to a heated discussion either. Kathie was in charge for a long time and then several of us took turns and then Ellen was the hostess for several years. It ended when Crispers was shut down in May of 2017. We would meet on the patio if it was comfortable weather, at three on the third Friday and maybe a third would get food, most of the rest would order cold drinks. The host had people sign in and people could sign their real name or their screen name so we have a record of who attended. Only once in my attendance did the previous administrator attend a meeting and the in laws of the current owner attended several times.


I gathered people from TOTV for snacks and dessert at our home three times. We had about 40 each time. About ten years ago many of us would meet "under the clock" at Lake Sumter Landing for evening TOTV get togethers. We had some fun times and Sam Hass organized a "freeze on the dance floor" where all of us from TOTV stopped in a frozen position for several minutes, not expected by the other dancers. We had a ghost hunt one year that ended up on a creepy road just outside TV where a couple girls swore they saw a sheet draped figure. Sam Hass had a bunch of the women to her house several times. Many loved posters on TOTV have passed away. We have some really great memories of good times, and a good reason to keep them going.
__________________
It is better to laugh than to cry.

Last edited by graciegirl; 05-14-2018 at 06:15 PM.
  #92  
Old 05-14-2018, 06:14 PM
Bogie Shooter Bogie Shooter is offline
Sage
Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 19,667
Thanks: 13
Thanked 6,031 Times in 2,681 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by ColdNoMore View Post
I wonder how one starts... an "official" club?

Given that there are what, over 2,700 of them...it shouldn't be that difficult.

However, I can't seem to find the answer anywhere in this link.

http://districtgov.org/images/Facili...d-Approved.pdf



Here's an application to rent a room, that leads one to think (first box)... that maybe even 'individuals can rent' rooms.

Yep, apparently there is a cost for the rooms.

http://districtgov.org/images/Facili...pplication.pdf
How to start a club......
Start here. Village Community Development Districts
__________________
The further a society drifts from truth the more it will hate those who speak it. George Orwell.
“Only truth and transparency can guarantee freedom”, John McCain
  #93  
Old 05-14-2018, 06:24 PM
graciegirl's Avatar
graciegirl graciegirl is offline
Sage
Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 40,196
Thanks: 5,029
Thanked 5,796 Times in 2,007 Posts
Send a message via AIM to graciegirl
Default TOTV Freeze

youtube freeze the villages, florida. - Bing video
__________________
It is better to laugh than to cry.
  #94  
Old 05-14-2018, 06:59 PM
tomwed tomwed is offline
Sage
Join Date: Aug 2012
Posts: 9,983
Thanks: 4
Thanked 163 Times in 158 Posts
Default

If there is nothing planned, like open shuffle board or bocci can a bunch of people show up, play games, sit under the pavilion assuming everyone has an id and takes their trash home. Does that break any rules?
  #95  
Old 05-14-2018, 07:04 PM
villagetinker's Avatar
villagetinker villagetinker is offline
Sage
Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: Village of Pinellas
Posts: 10,950
Thanks: 3
Thanked 8,006 Times in 2,910 Posts
Default

As several people pointed out the meetings were on Friday, my bad. As I will NOT be able to attend Friday meetings, starting in August, do we have a volunteer to create the "club"?
__________________
Pennsylvania, for 60+ years, most recently, Allentown, now TV.
  #96  
Old 05-14-2018, 07:49 PM
K.C.Boyd K.C.Boyd is offline
Member
Join Date: Nov 2013
Posts: 49
Thanks: 0
Thanked 8 Times in 2 Posts
Default

I don't post but follow all that do so would to meet you all Can you post where and when Thanks Kathy
  #97  
Old 05-15-2018, 05:54 AM
graciegirl's Avatar
graciegirl graciegirl is offline
Sage
Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 40,196
Thanks: 5,029
Thanked 5,796 Times in 2,007 Posts
Send a message via AIM to graciegirl
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by villagetinker View Post
As several people pointed out the meetings were on Friday, my bad. As I will NOT be able to attend Friday meetings, starting in August, do we have a volunteer to create the "club"?
I don't see why we can't have them on Sunday and the outdoor picnic area in a rec center is another good idea. Villagetinker, I feel many of us would like for you to be at the helm. The only problem on Sunday afternoon is conflict with sports on TV. Everyone could just bring their own drinks. Sometimes keeping it simple, without food, is better. We could try it and see. Habaneros on Sunday is also very much worth a try.
__________________
It is better to laugh than to cry.

Last edited by graciegirl; 05-15-2018 at 06:08 AM.
  #98  
Old 05-15-2018, 07:26 AM
NotGolfer NotGolfer is offline
Sage
Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: The Villages
Posts: 3,972
Thanks: 2,798
Thanked 1,016 Times in 423 Posts
Default

I've not participated in the past...the one thing I'd see with having it outside could be weather. We're heading into the rainy season (which also means heat/humidity). THAT said---can affect people too. I don't think I'd come if held under a pavilion, outside. What Gracie says about clubs in a rec center is true. Limited time and we'd be in charge of re-setting the room (but we're adults and that could be done). With any event, not everyone will be pleased so just whomever wants to plan it do so and the rest will fall into place.
  #99  
Old 05-15-2018, 07:35 AM
Bogie Shooter Bogie Shooter is offline
Sage
Join Date: Sep 2008
Posts: 19,667
Thanks: 13
Thanked 6,031 Times in 2,681 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by graciegirl View Post
I don't see why we can't have them on Sunday and the outdoor picnic area in a rec center is another good idea. Villagetinker, I feel many of us would like for you to be at the helm. The only problem on Sunday afternoon is conflict with sports on TV. Everyone could just bring their own drinks. Sometimes keeping it simple, without food, is better. We could try it and see. Habaneros on Sunday is also very much worth a try.
Here are the rules for the pavilions.

http://districtgov.org/images/Rules-...-Pavilions.pdf
__________________
The further a society drifts from truth the more it will hate those who speak it. George Orwell.
“Only truth and transparency can guarantee freedom”, John McCain
  #100  
Old 05-15-2018, 08:07 AM
redwitch's Avatar
redwitch redwitch is offline
Sage
Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 9,099
Thanks: 3
Thanked 80 Times in 37 Posts
Send a message via Yahoo to redwitch
Default

When it was first started in 1907 or ‘08, Sharon (VillagesKid) organized it. I think Barefoot and Donna found Crispers for us. For the first few years, it was rare to have less than thirty and usually more like forty. I took over for Sharon and then Kathie started running it. Then whoever volunteered for the next month (actually the best method) and when that quit working, Ellen. Towards the end, few people were ordering anything.

For some reason, few wanted to meet at a rec center. The main reason was folks wanted to get together outdoors when weather permitted, indoors when not. Forming a club is relatively easy. There was one other major issue — for some reason, TOTV appeared to be some sort of threat to the Developer (refused to allow ads in The Sun, no fliers allowed at town squares, etc.). Even so, a rec center as a club would probably be the best route. The only question is which rec center? Everyone would want it close to them. Kind of difficult with TV’s size today.
__________________
Army/embassy brat - traveled too much to mention
Moved here from SF Bay Area (East Bay)

"There are only two ways to live your life: One is as though nothing is a miracle; the other is as though everything is a miracle." Albert Einstein
  #101  
Old 05-15-2018, 08:14 AM
Taltarzac725's Avatar
Taltarzac725 Taltarzac725 is offline
Sage
Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 51,612
Thanks: 10,946
Thanked 4,014 Times in 2,423 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by redwitch View Post
When it was first started in 1907 or ‘08, Sharon (VillagesKid) organized it. I think Barefoot and Donna found Crispers for us. For the first few years, it was rare to have less than thirty and usually more like forty. I took over for Sharon and then Kathie started running it. Then whoever volunteered for the next month (actually the best method) and when that quit working, Ellen. Towards the end, few people were ordering anything.

For some reason, few wanted to meet at a rec center. The main reason was folks wanted to get together outdoors when weather permitted, indoors when not. Forming a club is relatively easy. There was one other major issue — for some reason, TOTV appeared to be some sort of threat to the Developer (refused to allow ads in The Sun, no fliers allowed at town squares, etc.). Even so, a rec center as a club would probably be the best route. The only question is which rec center? Everyone would want it close to them. Kind of difficult with TV’s size today.
Do we need to be associated per se with TOTV to start a club? We could be the lobster lovers and haters, or something like that.
  #102  
Old 05-15-2018, 08:33 AM
CWGUY CWGUY is offline
Sage
Join Date: Aug 2012
Posts: 3,879
Thanks: 4,279
Thanked 1,662 Times in 728 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Taltarzac725 View Post
Do we need to be associated per se with TOTV to start a club? We could be the lobster lovers and haters, or something like that.
Post #92..... There is a link to find the answer to your question.
  #103  
Old 05-15-2018, 09:04 AM
tomwed tomwed is offline
Sage
Join Date: Aug 2012
Posts: 9,983
Thanks: 4
Thanked 163 Times in 158 Posts
Default

I stopped at Sterling Height Rec center. I asked the attendant if you needed to be in an official club to use the outdoor games or pavilion. I told him it was a bunch of villagers who chat on TOTV. He said if there are no leagues scheduled then the group could use the outdoor games and pavilion. I would ask that someone go to another rec center and ask the same question. Forming a club may be simple but someone has to take responsibility for the group. In all likelihood I will not attend, I have offline and online friends. I wanted to put this out there as a suggestion. As for food, I think one kind of fresh fruit in a bowl for 4 is tasty, easy and inexpensive with no waste and not much garbage. Bring your own utensils and a drink. I've been to events like this and your own chair may be more comfortable then a picnic bench. As everyone knows the bathrooms are next to the pavilion.
  #104  
Old 05-15-2018, 09:07 AM
graciegirl's Avatar
graciegirl graciegirl is offline
Sage
Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 40,196
Thanks: 5,029
Thanked 5,796 Times in 2,007 Posts
Send a message via AIM to graciegirl
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by tomwed View Post
I stopped at Sterling Height Rec center. I asked the attendant if you needed to be in an official club to use the outdoor games or pavilion. I told him it was a bunch of villagers who chat on TOTV. He said if there are no leagues scheduled then the group could use the outdoor games and pavilion. I would ask that someone go to another rec center and ask the same question. Forming a club may be simple but someone has to take responsibility for the group. In all likelihood I will not attend, I have offline and online friends. I wanted to put this out there as a suggestion. As for food, I think one kind of fresh fruit in a bowl for 4 is tasty, easy and inexpensive with no waste and not much garbage. Bring your own utensils and a drink. I've been to events like this and your own chair may be more comfortable then a picnic bench. As everyone knows the bathrooms are next to the pavilion.
Tom. According to BogieShooter's post, the same procedure to use a room is needed to use the picnic area or "pavilion" as it is called. You must have a responsible volunteer sign for it.

The get together usually is about two hours.
__________________
It is better to laugh than to cry.
  #105  
Old 05-15-2018, 09:54 AM
tomwed tomwed is offline
Sage
Join Date: Aug 2012
Posts: 9,983
Thanks: 4
Thanked 163 Times in 158 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by graciegirl View Post
Tom. According to BogieShooter's post, the same procedure to use a room is needed to use the picnic area or "pavilion" as it is called. You must have a responsible volunteer sign for it.

The get together usually is about two hours.
I spoke to the attendant at Sterling Heights. They don't always get things right. Which is why I suggested asking a different club house attendant in a rec center the same questions I asked in my post.

Then again Bogie himself may be an attendant and I never looked into it before. I was in a neighborhood club, with signatures and a checking account so this was never an issue.

Last edited by tomwed; 05-15-2018 at 10:11 AM.
Closed Thread

Tags
meet, orders, totv, greet, monthly


You are viewing a new design of the TOTV site. Click here to revert to the old version.

All times are GMT -5. The time now is 10:03 PM.