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Old 03-27-2017, 01:19 PM
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Very disappointed in the attitude of pool attendants. Grandkids went with me to Manatee. pool attendant complained about spring break and how glad he would be to have these kids all go home. With that attitude he should not even be employed in my opinion. The kids were not doing anything prohibited either although i am sure they will be condemned because they are kids. Sad given the supposed family nature of thus place. Oh well not the first time
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Old 03-27-2017, 01:32 PM
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Very disappointed in the attitude of pool attendants. Grandkids went with me to Manatee. pool attendant complained about spring break and how glad he would be to have these kids all go home. With that attitude he should not even be employed in my opinion. The kids were not doing anything prohibited either although i am sure they will be condemned because they are kids. Sad given the supposed family nature of thus place. Oh well not the first time
Sounds like this attendant needs to work at an adult pool, not a family pool.
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Old 03-27-2017, 01:40 PM
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Very disappointed in the attitude of pool attendants. Grandkids went with me to Manatee. pool attendant complained about spring break and how glad he would be to have these kids all go home. With that attitude he should not even be employed in my opinion. The kids were not doing anything prohibited either although i am sure they will be condemned because they are kids. Sad given the supposed family nature of thus place. Oh well not the first time
Thus place is our place, made up of you and me. I would have gotten into a discussion with this guy. Why did he feel that way, was he having a bad day, etc.?
Of course it is easier to come here and complain......
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Thus place is our place, made up of you and me. I would have gotten into a discussion with this guy. Why did he feel that way, was he having a bad day, etc.?
Of course it is easier to come here and complain......
Problem is this: Even if 9 out of 10 times you manage to have a productive discussion, there will be times that you get into a confrontation, in this case right in front of your grandchildren. Is it worth it? I think I might have just said "Yep, there's a lot of kids here at this FAMILY pool", walk away and then enjoy my swim
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Old 03-27-2017, 02:34 PM
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Problem is this: Even if 9 out of 10 times you manage to have a productive discussion, there will be times that you get into a confrontation, in this case right in front of your grandchildren. Is it worth it? I think I might have just said "Yep, there's a lot of kids here at this FAMILY pool", walk away and then enjoy my swim


Maybe the pool attendant had just heard this report:

How much urine is in a swimming pool? Study finds disturbing answer - CBS News

I wonder if Barefoot knows about this?

There may be "p" in Sumter after all.


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I've never seen a pool attendant, which pools have them?
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I've never seen a pool attendant, which pools have them?


Since it was a family pool, the OP is probably referring to the desk attendant or Rec center manager who periodically checks the pool.


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I have never seen anybody check a pool, family or otherwise. None of my family have ever been asked for guest passes
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Why were you so offended? If that encounter distressed you so much be glad you weren't in my family. You never would have made it ten minutes. The guy probably had one to many "Marco Polo's" and was having a bad day.
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A little discussion with the guy's boss might be helpful...
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I have never seen anybody check a pool, family or otherwise. None of my family have ever been asked for guest passes
I have seen them check and deny entry to the pool.
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For those of us used to living in an adult community 12 months a year, the crowds that come during spring break can be daunting. My 4-year-old granddaughter has been visiting for the past few weeks and while the pool was a bit busy now and then, the past few days at the family pool have been insane!! The pool is crazy busy, kids are running, screaming, jumping everywhere, the lounge chairs and tables are rearranged and never returned to their neat positions around the pool. I can understand the frustration from the rec center attendant; however, he should have kept his opinion to himself.
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I just came back from a visit with our beautiful, wonderful, angelic, challenging, grandchildren. I will warn everyone within several miles when their visit is imminent. We love them with all our heart no doubt but we love our Villages life also. Maybe the man at the pool had just been abused by a little darling like my wife's 4 year old granddaughter. It's possible that he mistook you for someone he could vent to a little after all he is human and has limits that may have been crossed. Who knows. Sorry you got upset, this sounds unusual.

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I've never seen a pool attendant, which pools have them?
I see the pool attendants at least 3 times a week in the summer months! Lynnhaven pool...Belvedere pool and Tall Trees pool...

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Old 03-28-2017, 07:14 AM
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I see the pool attendants at least 3 times a week in the summer months! Lynnhaven pool...Belvedere pool and Tall Trees pool...

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When I read 'pool attendant', I'm thinking of a lifeguard or someone on duty that remains at the pool. I go to the Tamarind Grove neighborhood pool and yes, about 75% of the time a rec center employee comes through and asks for ID's of anyone who is not in the pool. However, I never considered this person as a pool attendant. I guess if they linger long enough, they could convey a negative attitude with their comments, but most of the time, they come and go so quickly I don't even notice they're around.
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