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Old 10-09-2014, 03:54 PM
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Because he was pulling weeds and checking landscaping in an unmarked car! And who knows how old he is? She didn't say. Bonny looks pretty young to me in her avatar.

I get her point easily. Anybody can look like they live here, rich or poor, white or black. Just takes a trip to Goodwill. I still think it was an over reaction.
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Old 10-09-2014, 03:55 PM
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For god's sake, call the cops and let them sort it out.
That's what we pay them for.
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Old 10-09-2014, 03:56 PM
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Exactly right BobnBev.
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Old 10-09-2014, 04:18 PM
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Exactly what I'm talking about.
I would have pooh poohed this a couple of years ago and then we here in The Villages had a lot of break ins and 17 burglars were arrested.

In fact I took on a couple of posters back then saying I thought they were over reacting. I was wrong. I often am.

I am not paranoid but after having listened to the sheriff's department as to how to keep your home safe, I have changed a few views. If any of you want to have a person from the sheriff's office come to your home and tell you how to make it safer, I don't think you will regret it.
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Old 10-09-2014, 04:38 PM
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it doesn't matter if there black white yellow or brown, call the POLICE if you think there could be a problem...

stop them before they take over...
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Old 10-09-2014, 05:25 PM
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I don't think it was an over reaction, but that's just my opinion. Just for arguments sake say it was an over reaction, no harm done. The landscaper got his feelings hurt. Next time, wear a uniform and have some markings on your vehicle. On the other hand suppose he was going to do a burglary. better safe than sorry.
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Old 10-09-2014, 07:53 PM
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Yesterday there was a mugshot on the online news of a young man of 21 who was arrested for stealing a large amount of things from a home in Lady Lake. He had beautiful features and could have been a male model, his face was young and beautiful and I thought how shamed his mother must be. I could not understand how a young, healthy and very handsome young man couldn't just work to take care of what he needs in life.

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Interesting implications ... what do someone's degree of looks have to do with his level of honesty and integrity? Dark hearts reside in some beautiful / handsome criminals and bad guys. Should the mom of an ugly grizzly guy have any less reason to be ashamed? Just a thought.

Gracie please know that I don't disagree with any of your points regarding what I would do if someone drove up in an unmarked car and started pulling my or a neighbor's weeds. My oldest son is the neighborhood police officer here in Columbus and I'm the block watch person. If I see something I say something fast!
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Old 10-09-2014, 08:03 PM
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Interesting implications ... what do someone's degree of looks have to do with his level of honesty and integrity? Dark hearts reside in some beautiful / handsome criminals and bad guys. Should the mom of an ugly grizzly guy have any less reason to be ashamed? Just a thought.

Gracie please know that I don't disagree with any of your points regarding what I would do if someone drove up in an unmarked car and started pulling my or a neighbor's weeds. My oldest son is the neighborhood police officer here in Columbus and I'm the block watch person. If I see something I say something fast!
Janice. It doesn't mean anything. When I saw his young face, it makes me so sad that he has chosen to do the wrong thing. I am a person who paints faces and some faces are just beautiful and some are interesting and some are old and some are young. We have a grandson who is just one year older than him and I just love to look at his clear eyes and thick brows.

It means nothing Janice, just an old person's musings.
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Gracie....It's cool.. Hope I meet you some day..
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Well, I am personally satisfied that with the endorsement of MarkinMd, who has had much more experience than any of us on here, and the knowledge that I also have seen that our own Police Dept. here in the Villages want us to call them to do the checking, and to practice early reporting of ANYTHING suspicious, that the right thing was done. I have not been here as long as some of you, when we moved here 4 yrs ago, you never saw any reports of crimes, or even accidents. Obviously some reports were probably filtered, but it is only common sense that as our population increases, more and more crime will happen, and these will be the "good old days." If we are not all willing to do as the police say, we might just one day have a very bad outcome.
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Old 10-09-2014, 09:51 PM
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I'm sorry but I'm missing your point.
If your husband looks like he's old enough to live here and dresses like everyone else that lives here, why would someone call the police?

Back in the day one of my closest friends was a chiropractor. He told me that in his profession there is a popular saying that goes:
“If you hear hoof beats don’t look for a zebra.”
I asked him to explain because as I just suggested I can be slow witted at times.

There are far more horses then there are zebras. So it’s probably a horses hoof beat.
The point was someone was pulling weeds ! Their truck wasn't marked and they didn't have a uniform on. That is my hubby. No marked truck and no uniform and he was in someone's yard pulling weeds !!! That's basically what the post was about !
And I don't get your point about hoof beats and a zebra. Just sayin'. LOL
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Well, I am personally satisfied that with the endorsement of MarkinMd, who has had much more experience than any of us on here, and the knowledge that I also have seen that our own Police Dept. here in the Villages want us to call them to do the checking, and to practice early reporting of ANYTHING suspicious, that the right thing was done. I have not been here as long as some of you, when we moved here 4 yrs ago, you never saw any reports of crimes, or even accidents. Obviously some reports were probably filtered, but it is only common sense that as our population increases, more and more crime will happen, and these will be the "good old days." If we are not all willing to do as the police say, we might just one day have a very bad outcome.
I guess the point of this entire thread is ... what is the definition of suspicious behavior?.
To some people, it might be an old car driving slowly down a street
To others, it might be two young guys we don't recognize carrying TVs and jewellery boxes out of a house.
The cops say they don't mind being called, so perhaps we shouldn't worry if we bombard them with calls.

Last year in our Village, one of the neighbors was concerned when he spotted people he didn't know parking cars and walking through a couple of back yards.
It made him very nervous. He said he called the police a couple of times but they never came.

That's my sole experience.
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Old 10-10-2014, 08:30 AM
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A while back the woman that lived across the street from me was having an affair with a cop, and his car was parked on the street at odd times of the day and night. I LOVED it! All of a sudden everyone was on their best behavior, driving slowly down the street, keeping the noise down at parties, etc.

On my TV street there is this one couple that peeks out the blinds at anything and everything. They aren't very social, but they sure are interested. As a matter of fact, while we were gone two of my friends drove over to our house in their golf cart, got out and walked around and peeked in the windows because they hadn't see the house yet. My neighbor came over and stood at the edge of the yard, obviously watching them. He never introduced himself or said anything, just stood there. There isn't anything suspicious going down on my street without those two keeping watch and being able to make a full report. Maybe every street needs that one nosy neighbor.
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Old 10-10-2014, 08:32 AM
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It wasn't me, I swear,lol.
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Old 10-10-2014, 08:56 AM
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And if you were black and were very aware of the real issues of driving while black, walking while black, shopping while black, you also would be very aware that even without any conscious discriminatory intent our culture and the person who called the cop had just a bit of extra alertness and extra suspicion when it was a black person who was picking some weeds. If you don't understand that view of how it happens too often and impacts the black experience in America you are not listening. It has been Oprah and Condoleezza not just those you don't know like this landscaper. No one is color blind in our society, not those on the left either. And for anyone to state that this man's color did not play a role in the aroused suspicion of the neighbor is ignoring reality.
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