[redwitch]

Susan, I checked out the site but I think it goes beyond the scope of what Sam had in mind and there are several groups in TV that offer many of these services already.

[renielarson]

This will be more effective if kept simple. Just a simple holler and a simple "Helping Hand". Nothing more.

There's already a new Helping Hands thread Tony started. However, it has some glitches because it has no "reply" button. Once fixed, I think anyone who is willing to lend a "Helping Hand" should send a post so we can see who is willing and available. I would hope that posters would also list what services he/she/they are willing to help with. The posts will be our list of TOTVers who want to lend a "Helping Hand".

Then, when anyone needs a "Helping Hand", he/she/they can privately PM anyone on that list.

Sound good?

[Barefoot]

Originally Posted by benj

I think the simpler the better. Just like it started if you need a hand just hollar and anyone on totv who can help can pm them.
how about GOOD NEIGHBORS or GOOD HANDS. What ever its called people will need to know where to post to get results. Benj

I agree with Benj. I like the idea of keeping it simple. If we had a forum called "TOTV Helping Hands", people could post asking for assistance. I'm sure they'd get lots of PMs from others who would be available to help at that specific time. This would avoid lists that have to be updated and trying to keep track of when snowbirds are in town. It would avoid involving a "middle man" like Tony who already has a lot on his plate keeping Jan happy.

I'm not in TV in the summers, but when I'm in TV I'd be happy to respond to a request on TOTV Helping Hands to anyone asking for help. I'm sure the rest of you feel the same way.

Why not start off trying it the easy way? And if that doesn't work, we can come up with a more complex system?

[renielarson]

It could be a 2 way street Barefoot...

TOTVers posting if they want to volunteer to help others and what services they are willing to help with...

and...

TOTVers posting if they need a "Helping Hand" and what they need help with.

Couldn't get simpler...

(Yes, I recognize that I ended sentences with prepositions...sorry...lol)

[Just Susan]

Ending a sentence with a preposition merely identifies you as a Midwesterner, dahling. Nothing wrong with that!

[chelsea24]

I agree with the K.I.S.S. rule (Keep It Simple Stupid!) Tony has already put up a forum.
Now all we need is a sticky note List of the people that are willing to be contacted and what they are willing or able to do. I think Tony can do this separate sticky note?

i.e.

chelsea24 -- willing to run errands, drive, daily check-ins, set up appointments, etc.
samhass -- will to do the floors, wash the windows, pick-up people at the airport, have se. ..

Well you get the idea! 1rnfl 1rnfl 1rnfl

Then the person can pm them directly.

[renielarson]

lovehorse 1rnfl Chels...you are a :edit: li'l

Maybe that's why I lubya so much!

[samhass]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. I don't get the idea.
chels, you need fresh air. We didn't play mahjong today and after a whole day indoors, the girl is delusional. Floors, windows, airport runs???? These are NOT a few of my favorite things. Furthermore, what was that last little item.."have se"??? Was that "have serious conversation" or "have sewing kit available" or "have settings for the table in place"??
Instead of going out for dinner tonight, I should have called you to go to Gators and play Buzztime. windows and floors, indeed!! 1rnfl 1rnfl 1rnfl 1rnfl 1rnfl

Originally Posted by chelsea24

I agree with the K.I.S.S. rule (Keep It Simple Stupid!) Tony has already put up a forum.
Now all we need is a sticky note List of the people that are willing to be contacted and what they are willing or able to do. I think Tony can do this separate sticky note?

i.e.

chelsea24 -- willing to run errands, drive, daily check-ins, set up appointments, etc.
samhass -- will to do the floors, wash the windows, pick-up people at the airport, have se. ..

Well you get the idea! 1rnfl 1rnfl 1rnfl

Then the person can pm them directly.

[renielarson]

Sam will have:

...sesame chicken ready to be served

...seashells by the seashore decorating the tables

...sextet of saxophone players scheduled to perform

...second rounds of drinks ready to be served

...seesaws and swings set up in the backyard

...serenading by Mexicans with mariachi dancing

Better stop now....lol

[samhass]

OK. This is serious. I can see cabin fever is setting in. You can't keep a Villager in all day. We aren't used to it. These women are "afflicted".

We need to take this to Chatters Happy or Sad. This is (was) a serious thread.
If it continues in this vein, I will have to volunteer to pick you gals up and get you out of the house. Bright...don't make me come to Michigan.

[SL0829]

Hi everyone, I do not live in The Villages, but 98% of our business is done in The Villages. My husband and I started a cleaning services - Hometown Cleaning Services about 3 years ago. My husband died 8 weeks ago from sudden cardiac arrest. A couple of weeks past, and I started thinking of all the people out there that have no help or support. I told my family and my friends that I would love to help people that need help or support. Sometimes during a time of crisis, a person might NEED to talk and have someone listen. I know that is what I wanted - someone to listen to me and be with me in the time of need. I am fortunate to have many friends and family that are there for me, but that is when I thought about the people that do not have family or close friends to assist them in need. So if you don't mind an outsiders assistance, count me in. My email is YourCleaningTeam@aol.com

[Peazoup]

Fabulous idea. When my parents were alive, they had something similar organized in their retirement community. When the daily newspaper wasn't picked up from the driveway by a certain time in the morning, neighbors would check on that person.
I have only a few more weeks before retirement, then I'll be in Bonnybrook. Please add my name to "helping hands". I love to cook and would be happy to do "meals on wheels" for shut ins. Or anything else that is needed.

[nONIE]

your cleaning team,

First, please accept my deepest sympathy on the loss of your husband. And now after only 8 weeks after his passing your are ready to offer your services to others in need. Your kindness and compassion for others is overwhelming to me.Bless you , you are a dear sweet soul. Thankyou so so much for being the very special person you are. ((((hugs)))

[samhass]

Your cleaning team, I also offer condolences on the death of your husband.
On the other hand, I see you have just joined the forum and in essence have just gotten
some free publicity for your business. I wish you had posted under your personal "handle".
We have spoken about the possible dangers of Helping Hands. No one on this forum even knows if you are a woman. I offer my abject apologies if you are legitimate. It just raises a flag when this particular thread is used to tout someones business. Someone could offer an initial "free" service just to get in the door and sell paid services or worse. I do not mean to offend, but this is a very possible scenario. We live in different times. If you wish to help, join this forum under a private name. Become part of us by visiting Crispers or posting. As it is, although your intentions seem to be pure, we can't afford to take your post at face value.

[tkret]

samhass,

Your posting is right on the money. It is sad that this is the kind of world we live in today, but you and all of us need to be vigilant. Nice work!