[Elixir34]

[QUOTE=Randall55;2253640]On her death bed my mother told me, "Dont get old!"

“Growing old is not for sissies.”
~ Jimmy Buffett ~

[Nevinator]

One of the most unusual pieces of advice I ever received was from my grandmother.

My grandmother died in 1975, but her birthday is coming up and that always causes me to reminisce about the time what we spent together when I was a youngster...

The long walks we used to take to the local grocery store near her home in a small town in northern NJ, the quarters she gave me for meaningless jobs like pulling weeds or washing the sidewalk…

Those gems were all good, but the one I remember most, the jewel in the crown of grandmotherly advice, occurred when I was about 15 years old. We were sitting in a park on a beautiful Spring day having just finished collecting about 40 soda bottles to be returned for the deposit money. She told me that one day, I would find a wonderful woman and start my own family. “And remember always this thing,” she said. “Be sure you marry a woman with small hands.” “How come, Grandma?” I asked her. She answered in her soft voice.. “It makes your *!@* look bigger.”

[lynnschindel]

My father always said, "If you start a job, finish it and do it right."

Mom said, "Never charge anything that you can't pay off when the bill comes."

And I told my daughter, "Get your education, because you should never depend on a man (or anyone)to put food on the table or a roof over your head."

[Jerry101]

Our family was in Sunday School and church every Sunday … it provided a firm Christian foundation for all of us … even to today.

But my dad’s economic advise was simple and it to has served me well. It was; ‘If you make a dollar, don’t spend a dollar-five.’

[margaretmattson]

My mother advised me to never tell your employers all the things you are capable of doing. They will expect more from you and usually without extra pay.

[smd9139]

Never do anything unless you are willing to accept the consequences of your actions.

[Stu from NYC]

Originally Posted by Nevinator

One of the most unusual pieces of advice I ever received was from my grandmother.

My grandmother died in 1975, but her birthday is coming up and that always causes me to reminisce about the time what we spent together when I was a youngster...

The long walks we used to take to the local grocery store near her home in a small town in northern NJ, the quarters she gave me for meaningless jobs like pulling weeds or washing the sidewalk…

Those gems were all good, but the one I remember most, the jewel in the crown of grandmotherly advice, occurred when I was about 15 years old. We were sitting in a park on a beautiful Spring day having just finished collecting about 40 soda bottles to be returned for the deposit money. She told me that one day, I would find a wonderful woman and start my own family. “And remember always this thing,” she said. “Be sure you marry a woman with small hands.” “How come, Grandma?” I asked her. She answered in her soft voice.. “It makes your *!@* look bigger.”

love that last sentence

[Ecuadog]

At a wedding anniversary dinner for my grandparents, my slightly tipsy grandfather revealed his secret to getting along with women. I was15 at the time. He told me, "Yes them to death and do what you please."

Occasionally, I wish that I had taken his advice.

[Lea N]

Never make a promise you aren't going to keep.

[Randall55]

Originally Posted by Ecuadog

At a wedding anniversary dinner for my grandparents, my slightly tipsy grandfather revealed his secret to getting along with women. I was15 at the time. He told me, "Yes them to death and do what you please."

Occasionally, I wish that I had taken his advice.

Which don't you do? Yes them to death? Do as you please? or both?

[Ecuadog]

Originally Posted by Ecuadog

At a wedding anniversary dinner for my grandparents, my slightly tipsy grandfather revealed his secret to getting along with women. I was15 at the time. He told me, "Yes them to death and do what you please."

Occasionally, I wish that I had taken his advice.

Originally Posted by Randall55

Which don't you do? Yes them to death? Do as you please? or both?

Yes them to death. Occasionally, extreme duress or strongly suggested, sober reconsideration might alter my original plans.

[manaboutown]

Originally Posted by margaretmattson

My mother advised me to never tell your employers all the things you are capable of doing. They will expect more from you and usually without extra pay.

Sounds like a great way to get passed over when it comes to pay raises and promotions while your hard working and dedicated fellow employees get both raises and promotions.

[Randall55]

Originally Posted by manaboutown

Sounds like a great way to get passed over when it comes to pay raises and promotions while your hard working and dedicated fellow employees get both raises and promotions.

Or, a great way to do the job you were hired to do to the best of your ability. This would allow you time to shine and get noticed.

Doing the job others
were hired to do is a foolish pursuit. You are allowing a coworker to take credit for something you did. Who will get the raise? The one who earned it or the one who stole it?

[oneclickplus]

Originally Posted by ThirdOfFive

This past week I spent a few days with my son up in Minnesota. During the visit we talked about (among other things) parenting. He recalled a time that his son was in high school and he and his son were working on some project or other and he imparted some wisdom to his son that HIS dad had given him.

"Son, don't ____ it up".

It got me thinking though. All joking aside, what was the best advice my parents ever gave me? I was about 15, the age when the lads of that small rural community went to work summers for local loggers and farmers. Their advice: "No matter who you work for, always remember that you agreed to to the job for a certain wage, and no matter what other people are being paid, you always do the best job you can".

It was wisdom no doubt born of the Depression, but it has stood me in good stead throughout my life. I doubt it is something that many kids hear these days, but maybe more should.

How about others? What is the best piece of advice YOUR parents gave you?

It isn't how much you make ... it's how much you don't spend. Learn to do it yourself and only pay others when necessary.

[Altavia]

Colin Powell Quotes

1. "Don't bother people for help without first trying to solve the problem yourself."

2. "Always focus on the front windshield and not the rearview mirror."

3. "No battle plan survives contact with the enemy."

4. "Organization charts and fancy titles count for next to nothing."

5. "It's a disgrace that we have millions of people who are uninsured."

6. "Never let your ego get so close to your position that when your position goes, your ego goes with it."

7. "If you are going to achieve excellence in big things, you develop the habit in little matters. Excellence is not an exception, it is a prevailing attitude."


8. "The chief condition on which, life, health and vigor depend on, is action. It is by action that an organism develops its faculties, increases its energy, and attains the fulfillment of its destiny."

9. "Just as they did in Philadelphia when they were writing the constitution, sooner or later, you've got to compromise. You've got to start making the compromises that arrive at a consensus and move the country forward."


10. "War should be the politics of last resort."

11. "Experts often possess more data than judgment."

12. "In other words, don't expect to always be great. Disappointments, failures and setbacks are a normal part of the lifecycle of a unit or a company and what the leader has to do is constantly be up and say, 'We have a problem, let's go and get it.'"

13. "f a leader doesn't convey passion and intensity then there will be no passion and intensity within the organization and they'll start to fall down and get depressed."


14. "Trying to get everyone to like you is a sign of mediocrity."

15. "I try to be the same person I was yesterday."Colin Powell: Why We Serve

16. "When we go to war, we should have a purpose that our people understand and support."

17. "Success is the result of perfection, hard work, learning from failure, loyalty to those for whom you work, and persistence."


18. "Politics is not bean bags. It's serious, tough stuff."

19. "We need to understand that we as citizens and as a government in any community throughout this country have no more important obligation than to educate those who are going to replace us."

20. "The ties that bind us are stronger than the occasional stresses that separate us."

21. "Surround yourself with people who take their work seriously, but not themselves."

22. "It takes more courage to send men into battle than to fight the battle yourself."

23. "If you get the dirty end of the stick, sharpen it and turn it into a useful tool."

24. "I think whether you're having setbacks or not, the role of a leader is to always display a winning attitude."

25. "Look at the world. There is no pure competitor to the United States of America."

26. "Never neglect details."

27. "When everyone's mind is dulled or distracted the leader must be doubly vigilant."

28. "Keep looking below surface appearances. Don't shrink from doing so just because you might not like what you find."

29. "Wouldn't it be great if we could look forward to a whole world in which no child will be left behind?"

30. "Get mad, then get over it."

31. "It ain't as bad as you think. It will look better in the morning."

32. "The healthiest competition occurs when average people win by putting above average effort."

33. "I'm not perfect, but I'll be the creator of perfection."

34. "We can seldom get our children to do what we tell them, but they almost never fail to imitate us."

35. "Being responsible sometimes means ****ing people off."

36. "The commander in the field is always right and the rear echelon is wrong, unless proved otherwise."

37. "Giving back involves a certain amount of giving up."

38. "Leadership is solving problems. The day soldiers stop bringing you their problems is the day you have stopped leading them. They have either lost confidence that you can help or concluded you do not care. Either case is a failure of leadership."

39. "You can't just have slogans, you can't just have catchy phrases. You have to have an agenda."

40. "There are no secrets to success. Don't waste time looking for them."

41. "Don't be afraid to challenge the pros, even in their own backyard."

42. "It isn't enough just to scream at the Occupy Wall Street demonstrations. We need our political system to start reflect this anger back into, 'How do we fix it? How do we get the economy going again?'"

43. "Ninety percent of my time is spent on 10% of the world."

44. "Have fun in your command. Don't always run at a breakneck pace. Take leave when you've earned it, spend time with your families."

45. "Great leaders are almost always great simplifiers who can cut through the argument debate and doubt to offer a solution everybody can understand."

46. "Today I can declare my hope and declare it from the bottom of my heart that we will eventually see the time when that number of nuclear weapons is down to zero and the world is a much better place."

47. "You don't know what you can get away with until you try."

48. "Perpetual optimism is a force multiplier."

49. "Bad news isn't wine. It doesn't improve with age."

50. "I don't want to spend the rest of my life giving speeches."