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That being said, I honestly believe that his motivation for putting in the landscaping (to keep his dog/dogs contained) is irrelevent. If he had said "I'm putting it in because I like the design" or "I'm putting it in for privacy" or "I'm putting it in because I like to sunbathe nude and I don't want to offend the neighbors" it would still lead to the same result--he will be obscuring a view that you valued. In post #35 you wrote, "Honestly it's not the dogs we are concerned with at this point, it's the fact that he is recklessly putting up landscaping without any concern for his neighbors view." But in your last post you wrote "The real issue here is that our neighbors sole purpose for putting this hedge fence is to create a "doggy park" for his dogs. Those are his exact words. The sole purpose of this hedge fence is to keep his dogs on his property WITHOUT a leash." These two statements appear somewhat inconsistant and i think it would be better for all involved if you focused on whether or not he is breaking the rules, not his motivation for putting in his landscaping. The dog issue is a red herring. Dogs can roam in the backyard offleash if there is an invisible fence. To be honest, I let my dog roam free in the backyard offleash to do his business (under my supervision of course) so that he does not go on my neighbors lawns when I walk him on the leash. None of my neighbors have complained about him being offleash--I don't think it is an issue unless a neighbor complains and so far, I haven't had any complaints. To me the issue is very black and white. If he is violating TV rules with his landscaping, he should not be permitted to install the landscaping. If he is within his rights (according to the rules), he should be allowed to do what he wants on his own property. When we try to get inside people's heads and determine their motivations for their actions we open up a can of worms that can cause all sorts of problems. Good luck with your situation and I hope that everything turns out OK for you. |
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If it didn't work for him it was improper training, they do work.
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Having lived with water views, magnificent water views, in British Columbia for many years, my heart melts when views are blocked because I know how Douglas Firs will get you almost every time in the Pacific Northwest! The real issue in this thread is communication and negotiation when you live in clustered settings. Nothing can be resolved unless both parties are willing to at least discuss the issue and hear each others side. You may never agree, but you will have the chance to exchange opion and try to come to commanality. We all need to compromise when living in close proximity. It is not just about what you spend on your lot, it is about how you feel when you walk out your front door every day, and how you look forward to seeing those around you, and how you value community and your place in it.
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My wife's been telling me about this thread for the last few days, so we decided to see what the real story was. Took a ride down to Springdale. Happinow has a pie shaped lot on a cul de sac. Unfortunately for her, the best, unobstructed view does not align with the placement of the house. The view looking straight out the lanai/pool crosses not one but two adjacent lots. She needs to look out the Lanai to the right to see an unobstructed view, which as she said is limited because the lot is lower than the course, especially in that direction. Saw the orange line on the other property, and yes she is going to loose the best view. Even saw the guy with his two dogs walking them on the street chatting with some neighbors. As I see it, Happi is going to have a tough time convincing this fellow to be a "good"(for her) neighbor because he isn't even the closest neighbor that could obstruct the view, and he lives in the next cul de sac. Not like they will be bumping into each other every day picking up the morning paper. Happi paid a lot of money for the lot and the house and it's a shame that she thought she was getting a great view. I also live on a golf course. I paid $16,000 more than Happi did for her lot but got a much better view (championship course green, big oaks, eastern exposure, no cart path and large water hazard). We walked our street for weeks, if not months, knowing the lots would be released soon, trying to determine which lot was "the best". Every night my wife would drag me down there to walk each prospective lot to see which view was unobstructed. Which lot would accommodate the model we chose. Which lot would fit a golf cart garage. Which lot would have room for a pool. Also used the Sumter county plats, which were available even before the lots were released, if you knew where to go to get them, to determine dimensions, easements, drainage and utility box placements. The day the lots were released, we got our first choice of five potential lots. My point is, sometimes you luck into a great view but due diligence insures it. I hope Happi can realize that this guy is entitled to do what he intends, as I see it. She is on the next block over, even though their properties touch, with another property in between. He also paid a lot of money for his lot and view as well. If for some reason he were forced to remove a "hedge", a plethora of non hedge sugar palms would not be any better for the view from Happi's lanai. |
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Well said Gustavo. This lot business can be so very tricky and you really have to be on top of the far reaching possibilities when picking your "dream". On an undeveloped landscape, most of us, regardless of how much checking it out we do, don't see the possible after buildout pitfalls. Happinow's lot view is a perfect example. Of course it is a disappointment. But one simply cannot expect a neighbor, no matter how rude or inconsiderate or disliked (an entirely different matter but one that exacerbates the problem) to support someone else's "dream" at their own expense.
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[QUOTE=gustavo;522041]My wife's been telling me about this thread for the last few days, so we decided to see what the real story was. Took a ride down to Springdale.
It that Springdale street or Springdale Village?? |
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Your post is another argument to rent for awhile to see just what lot you want, as view lots will be sold in hours when released. Even if you do your due diligence and think you have an unobstructed view, you may end up wrong and disappointed. That is the reason to take some deep breaths and wait to see. Most times the planting won't be as bad as you think. It is hard to tell by orange lines just what will be the final outcome. As I said before, least said, soonest mended. But that is a perspective from a 72 year old, which differs from a 52 year old a little. If in the end, if nothing has changed, or nothing could be changed, and the homeowner on the culdesac behind was within his rights, it would have been better to wait and see and keep the peace. |
Sad to see someone use this forum to bash unsuspecting neighbors, because they dont like what someone is doing with their property. Can we all imagine how you would feel if someone talked about you on this public forum the way this guy has been.
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Gracie, yes you are quite correct, I meant Sanibel not Springdale.
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Correct, Shcisamax!
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What guy are you referring to that did the bashing?
The guy that got bashed was the neighbor of Happinow, and Happinow is a woman. This whole thread is pretty sad for that whole neighborhood, IMHO. |
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Reread and now understand which "he" you meant. Sorry! :)
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Gee ...funny ...I took that post as a compliment to Gracie that she always has the right outlook on things. Amazing how we all see things differently. That is why there is so much difficulty with these darn forums. Without the body language and intonation, it is difficult to know when someone is sincere or sarcastic or taking a swipe or just being factual.
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I think we're all hoping this situation will be resolved amicably, the shrubs will be maintained at four feet, and peace will prevail. |
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Mickhugs, welcome on the occurrence of your first post on TOTV and don't wait another 3 years plus for your next one! |
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Grant it, some people thrive on aggravation, I'm not one of them. I'm also not a control freak, I think there is only one thing you can control, your own attitude, not your neighbor, not even fate. In the past ten or so years I have had my home totally destroyed by lightning (great view still), I lost 5 house pets (4 burned alive in the fire), 3 horses, my 56 year-old sister died last Christmas after spending 5 years in a nursing home from a stroke induced coma. Let's put the shrubs in perspective. You know what I've learned from all this-Enjoy today, you don't know what tomorrow will bring or what it will take away. Ever see a moving van folowing a hearse? |
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I am sorry for your loss and the statement about "putting the shrubs in perspective" is certainly one we can all be reminded of. As I said previously, 90% of the world's population could not even imagine all that we have in our country, and certainly not here at TV. Have a good day, all! |
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Truth be told, I wouldn't mind hanging out with the spitting vette guy. He sounds like he could be fun.
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First, I'm sorry to hear of your losses. It must have been very difficult to lose your sister. But THANK YOU for having the guts to say it like it is in this thread! Drama is as drama does! Kudos to you! :coolsmiley: |
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sorry happi to hear your having problems. When we moved in we had a beautiful view from our hot tub and lost it to neighbor planting a fruit tree. also we had beautiful view out our kitchen window and neighbor planted bottle brush. Both views gone. Don't think there is much you can do. that is a DISADVANTAGE of the villages and our homes being so CLOSE. Most people don't think but when you pick out property imagine your neighbor and what they may do. Views can be lost very easily with landscaping. we have two homes (designers) near us on golf course. (we're not on one) both neighbors ended up fighting because one started the idea. Plants that blocked the others views. It just escalated until one neighbor built a extension just to try to keep his view and the other built a larger extension to try to keep his view. I hope it works out for you. Keep us posted.
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This sounds like something from the past....Like High School.Students "Kissing UP to the popular Students.
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