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Old 12-31-2013, 01:07 PM
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12/31/2012 My heart was permanently scarred.
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He is in our thoughts, and your family as well. Sending caring thoughts your way.
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12/31/2012 My heart was permanently scarred.
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I'm sad for you. There's no real comfort without a miracle in your heart.
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I am so sorry, Ed. You're right, you have a permanent scar in your heart and it will be there always. You never get over the loss of a child or grandchild. Try to do the best you can. Remember the good times.
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Ed - your words are so descriptive of the heartache of the loss of someone so close and so young. Although I was just a lurker on TOTV when you first posted this a year ago, I remember it clearly as my heart and prayers went out to you at that time. They continue today for you and your family.
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I am so sorry for your loss, but I am also curious. What are people doing in Q's memory to save lives?
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I am so sorry for your loss, but I am also curious. What are people doing in Q's memory to save lives?
He donated seven organs to help seven other people live.
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He donated seven organs to help seven other people live.
Those are seven amazing gifts. Has anyone in the family had the opportunity to meet the recipients?
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He donated seven organs to help seven other people live.
Then he lives on in seven people who will forever be grateful.
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Thinking of you today ...
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God bless you and your family, Ed. I cannot come close to imagining your sorrow. I hope you find some solace in knowing other people care.
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Unortunately, there are no set of words, that will comfort you and Leila.

No parent or grandparent will have to know the pain of losing a child.

Hoping the good times, will put distance between you, and the tragedy of losing Quentin.
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My heart goes out to you and so sorry for your loss.
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