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Notice the word "primarily." The word is not synonymous with "exclusively," they mean two distinctly different things. "Primarily" means - the pool has other uses as well, though those other uses are secondary to the primary.

The interpretation of that to me, is if you show up to swim laps, be sure to yield to the bathers who are there to not swim laps. Give them their space, and you can occupy the other spaces in the pool instead, assuming there is other space available. The socializers call dibs on the square footage they occupy. The swimmers get second-best, when available.

Again - this really is a non-issue. Swimmers are ALLOWED to swim in these pools. Swimming is NOT forbidden in these pools. If you value your hairdo, wear a shower cap when you enter the pool. If you don't want salt water (or chlorine, as the case may be) in your eyes, wear sunglasses (which you should be doing anyway, to protect your eyes and delay and reduce risk of cataracts).
What you say makes sense to me. I think the idea is basic consideration for others. This seems a foreign concept to people who feel “entitled” whether at the pool, or Publix, or on the MMPs.
One of the first things a kindergarten teacher does, is try to “socialize” the students. I remember in one arts and craft class of 15 four year old children, one child took all the scissors, all 15 of them, and refused to share. I asked him, “How are you planning to use all 15 scissors at once?” The concept of “other” I think, takes time.

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What you say makes sense to me. I think the idea is basic consideration for others. This seems a foreign concept to people who feel “entitled” whether at the pool, or Publix, or on the MMPs.
One of the first things a kindergarten teacher does, is try to “socialize” the students. I remember in one arts and craft class of 15 four year old children, one child took all the scissors, all 15 of them, and refused to share. I asked him, “How are you planning to use all 15 scissors at once?” The concept of “other” I think, takes time.
A wise kindergarten teacher would tell the students not to run with scissors, in other words stay away from situations that wouldn't be conducive to their expectations. Honestly, a private pool would probably be the best option here and maybe one should be considered to show that one IS thinking of others.
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A wise kindergarten teacher would tell the students not to run with scissors, in other words stay away from situations that wouldn't be conducive to their expectations. Honestly, a private pool would probably be the best option here and maybe one should be considered to show that one IS thinking of others.
I agree, if one cannot, or does not want to consider how their actions will affect others, then their best option is to be in a private pool.
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I agree, if one cannot, or does not want to consider how their actions will affect others, then their best option is to be in a private pool.
Good luck to you, I've read there are different recommendations for pool installers. And, hopefully, people will not be setting up card tables on the golf course for their social activities and asking people not to hit balls in their direction.
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Good luck to you, I've read there are different recommendations for pool installers. And, hopefully, people will not be setting up card tables on the golf course for their social activities and asking people not to hit balls in their direction.
Thank you and good luck to you too. lol, about the card tables, several of us could not hit the side of a barn with a golf ball so not sure how much”danger” they might be in.
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Thank you and good luck to you too. lol, about the card tables, several of us could not hit the side of a barn with a golf ball so not sure how much”danger” they might be in.
They wouldn't have to worry about me hitting them, those days of hitting a long golf ball have departed.
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I put my own pool in as soon as I moved here in 2023. Worth every penny as I go in every morning and swim laps
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