[2BNTV]

Originally Posted by l2ridehd

i find everyone on here to be open, honest, forthright, sometimes opinionated, but always leaning toward very friendly. Used to be problems with political when is was open for all and many, including me would get dragged in to difficult discussions. And there was a few who had such strong opinions that they would fall into the name calling and derogatory comments. And that still may be going on there. Politics seems to bring out the worst in people. I made a conscious decision not to go there. Keeps my bp lower and i get enough of that on the nightly news.

So all in all it's a great bunch of people. I have met several people on here and have never been disappointed by how open and friendly they are in person. Great forum, great people and nothing should change that.

amen!!!!!

[ssmith]

sorry, but I have been on this forum long before you....and, even though people have been nice, I have always found this forum to be very effective. IMHO.

[swimdawg]

Originally Posted by GeorgeT

the thread closed.

I am me and that's all I am, I have no other screen name, believe it or not because I don't care. It's not a question of if I mind being known or not, it's what makes a forum effective or ineffective and stimulating. I feel that if everyone knows who everyone is you won't speak your piece because you would be afraid of hurting another's feelings and this site would be ineffective as demonstrated by the clique in the past. You know the saying "Hell has no fury like a woman scorned". You all start defending another poster because you know them. It would turn into one big rose colored welcome wagon.
I don't care what your opinion of me is but I might if I went to one of your get-together's. I don't know who villagegirl or villagegolfer are or who anyone else really is and I'll keep it that way. I've given out a bit of information about myself and if you ever do meet me you might put 2 & 2 together.

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Now, Mr. Positive, "GeorgeT", were you being a bit sarcastic when you said in early November that you "were looking forward to meeting all your friends at Crispers?" Just curious.

It was a nice gathering with a lot of good people. Free popcorn was given out to all.....compliments of our friends, B 'n B.

You might have actually had a good time.

[mgjim]

I’m new here and I know that I’m running the risk of being put on some hate lists, but I feel compelled to write this.

You are entitled to your opinion but you are not entitled to have other people care about your opinion.

That’s the problem with today’s discourse. People who express abrasive opinions will say that they are only telling “the truth.” What they really mean is that they enjoy being controversial or on the edge.

Being a pain in the backside doesn’t necessarily mean that you have honesty on your side or that you are, in some way, smarter than everyone else.

I can see how you could make that mistake though. In today’s world, the loudest people get noticed, the strangest behavior gets press time, and the more out there you are, the more you think you have a unique point of view.

Do you want the truth? The truth is that ancient beliefs didn’t survive this long without being, well, true. Look to the past and you’ll find the truth and the truth will set you free.

People don't abuse animals, no matter what the culture. People don't abuse each other, no matter what the advantage to themselves. Treat others the way you expect to be treated. Pretty simple stuff!

Okay, those of you who don’t agree can block me. Thanks for listening.

Now, is there a chance to organize a Roaring 20's Party one of these days?

[villagegolfer]

Originally Posted by mgjim

I’m new here and I know that I’m running the risk of being put on some hate lists, but I feel compelled to write this.

You are entitled to your opinion but you are not entitled to have other people care about your opinion.

That’s the problem with today’s discourse. People who express abrasive opinions will say that they are only telling “the truth.” What they really mean is that they enjoy being controversial or on the edge.

Being a pain in the backside doesn’t necessarily mean that you have honesty on your side or that you are, in some way, smarter than everyone else.

I can see how you could make that mistake though. In today’s world, the loudest people get noticed, the strangest behavior gets press time, and the more out there you are, the more you think you have a unique point of view.

Do you want the truth? The truth is that ancient beliefs didn’t survive this long without being, well, true. Look to the past and you’ll find the truth and the truth will set you free.

People don't abuse animals, no matter what the culture. People don't abuse each other, no matter what the advantage to themselves. Treat others the way you expect to be treated. Pretty simple stuff!

Okay, those of you who don’t agree can block me. Thanks for listening.

Now, is there a chance to organize a Roaring 20's Party one of these days?

Don't really follow all that you have said. You said ancient beliefs didn't survive this long without being true? Does this mean the earth is flat? I do not understand.

[graciegirl]

Originally Posted by GeorgeT

There isn't any right or wrong, just opinions. I call them like I see them. I don't have a pair of rose colored glasses. No beating around the bush. Some people need to know that they are idiots for doing certain unsafe things. I don't want to be in their line of fire. It's not because I'm an unhappy person, I'm actually very happy with my life, I'm just a realist. Some people just don't get it if you sugarcoat everything you say.

If you don't like my posts then put me on your ignore list and live in your perfect little gumdrop world.

My dear aunt Jane said a couple of things a LOT....that always stuck with me.

"If you must tell people to go to Hell, try to make them look forward to the trip."

And..."Don't be crude like oil, be refined like sugar."

And..."You can't make a silk purse out of a sows ear."

And.."Try NOT to criticize, condemn or complain, just Describe what is happening".....but maybe that was Dale Carnegie.



OH...and George. My gumdrop world is pretty much like anybody elses. Troubles and sorrow have visited my world, just the same as most everyone I know. We didn't live all these decades, ANY OF US, and not have disaster strike, fear ride with us, hearts be broken, suffer losses and sadness...and sometimes repeatedly.

I have far fewer years ahead of me than I do behind me and I have been dropped in this lovely place. The glass is MORE than half full here, seems to me. I try to think of each moment here...that THIS moment could be, should be, one of the happiest in my life.

[Uptown Girl]

Originally Posted by mgjim

I’m new here and I know that I’m running the risk of being put on some hate lists, but I feel compelled to write this.

You are entitled to your opinion but you are not entitled to have other people care about your opinion.

That’s the problem with today’s discourse. People who express abrasive opinions will say that they are only telling “the truth.” What they really mean is that they enjoy being controversial or on the edge.

Being a pain in the backside doesn’t necessarily mean that you have honesty on your side or that you are, in some way, smarter than everyone else.

I can see how you could make that mistake though. In today’s world, the loudest people get noticed, the strangest behavior gets press time, and the more out there you are, the more you think you have a unique point of view.

Thanks for this post! I tend to think they are ones who will try to pound a square peg into a round hole. And when that doesn't work, their solution is to get a bigger hammer.

[GeorgeT]

Originally Posted by swimdawg

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Now, Mr. Positive, "GeorgeT", were you being a bit sarcastic when you said in early November that you "were looking forward to meeting all your friends at Crispers?" Just curious.

It was a nice gathering with a lot of good people. Free popcorn was given out to all.....compliments of our friends, B 'n B.

You might have actually had a good time.

I don't know if I'd call it sarcasm as much as lying. I think people got that because no said "Great George, it will be good to meet you"

[GeorgeT]

Originally Posted by mgjim

I’m new here and I know that I’m running the risk of being put on some hate lists, but I feel compelled to write this.

You are entitled to your opinion but you are not entitled to have other people care about your opinion.

That’s the problem with today’s discourse. People who express abrasive opinions will say that they are only telling “the truth.” What they really mean is that they enjoy being controversial or on the edge.

Being a pain in the backside doesn’t necessarily mean that you have honesty on your side or that you are, in some way, smarter than everyone else.

I can see how you could make that mistake though. In today’s world, the loudest people get noticed, the strangest behavior gets press time, and the more out there you are, the more you think you have a unique point of view.

Do you want the truth? The truth is that ancient beliefs didn’t survive this long without being, well, true. Look to the past and you’ll find the truth and the truth will set you free.

People don't abuse animals, no matter what the culture. People don't abuse each other, no matter what the advantage to themselves. Treat others the way you expect to be treated. Pretty simple stuff!

Okay, those of you who don’t agree can block me. Thanks for listening.

Now, is there a chance to organize a Roaring 20's Party one of these days?

I don't know of any hate list. I would never associate the "H" word with a person. I might say I hate tofu but that would be it.

[GeorgeT]

Originally Posted by graciegirl

My dear aunt Jane said a couple of things a LOT....that always stuck with me.

"If you must tell people to go to Hell, try to make them look forward to the trip."

And..."Don't be crude like oil, be refined like sugar."

And..."You can't make a silk purse out of a sows ear."

And.."Try NOT to criticize, condemn or complain, just Describe what is happening".....but maybe that was Dale Carnegie.


Now if you'll excuse me I have to go and beat the crap out of a little white ball again.
OH...and George. My gumdrop world is pretty much like anybody elses. Troubles and sorrow have visited my world, just the same as most everyone I know. We didn't live all these decades, ANY OF US, and not have disaster strike, fear ride with us, hearts be broken, suffer losses and sadness...and sometimes repeatedly.

I have far fewer years ahead of me than I do behind me and I have been dropped in this lovely place. The glass is MORE than half full here, seems to me. I try to think of each moment here...that THIS moment could be, should be, one of the happiest in my life.

Just like me, you're entitled to your opinion. I am an optimist but also a realist. Yes, I get emotional when I see an accident waiting to happen like the Red Barron and I won't retract anything I said.

Your aunt Jane sounds like a wise woman. I'm glad she was around to straighten you out and steer you in the right direction. I wish I had someone in my life like that. I had to figure it out on my own and it's still a WIP.

Oh, I didn't see any response from you on my first post of this thread that you actually started. Why is that?

[tainsley]

Originally Posted by GeorgeT

Just like me, you're entitled to your opinion. I am an optimist but also a realist. Yes, I get emotional when I see an accident waiting to happen like the Red Barron and I won't retract anything I said.

Your aunt Jane sounds like a wise woman. I'm glad she was around to straighten you out and steer you in the right direction. I wish I had someone in my life like that. I had to figure it out on my own and it's still a WIP.

Oh, I didn't see any response from you on my first post of this thread that you actually started. Why is that?

Good morning GeorgeT! I too had to figure it out on my own and I guess we are all works in progress until the end. Someone once said to me, words that soak into your ears are whispered and not yelled (coincidentally, a friend of mine just a few days ago sent me words of wisdom she came across and that was one of them). I believe in second chances because everything that happened in my life made me the person I am today...and I like the person I am today! I am by far not perfect...but who is? I will be glad to meet you...if I ever get down there!

[quirky3]

Originally Posted by GeorgeT

Just like me, you're entitled to your opinion. I am an optimist but also a realist. Yes, I get emotional when I see an accident waiting to happen like the Red Barron and I won't retract anything I said.

Your aunt Jane sounds like a wise woman. I'm glad she was around to straighten you out and steer you in the right direction. I wish I had someone in my life like that. I had to figure it out on my own and it's still a WIP.

Oh, I didn't see any response from you on my first post of this thread that you actually started. Why is that?

Hello GeorgeT - I think that Gracie did answer your original post, in Post #10 of this same thread. Just MHO.

[Jhooman]

Dear George T

I've been reading your posts and find you to be a troubled person. You seem to be a victim that enjoys the attention you get by crying foul.

Your response to Gracie was rude, crude and exactly what you claim others do to you. It's been my experience, when I encounter problems with other people, usually I have a part in the dynamics of the relationship. That form of thinking may be too deep for you to handle.

Many years ago I realized that I am completely responsible for my life. Taking responsibility for myself has led me to a life of freedom, I'm not going to worry about what you think of me either. It's important what I think of myself.

I also want you to know that I think Gracie rocks. Gracie approaches life from a place of not being a darn victim. I'm looking forward to meeting her and giving her a big California hug.

Most of the people on this forum are simply humans trying to get through this life on earth with some dignity, integrity and humanness. I try to look at the similarities in people and not the differences, that seems to work for me.

[GeorgeT]

Originally Posted by Jhooman

Dear George T

I've been reading your posts and find you to be a troubled person. You seem to be a victim that enjoys the attention you get by crying foul.

Your response to Gracie was rude, crude and exactly what you claim others do to you. It's been my experience, when I encounter problems with other people, usually I have a part in the dynamics of the relationship. That form of thinking may be too deep for you to handle.

Many years ago I realized that I am completely responsible for my life. Taking responsibility for myself has led me to a life of freedom, I'm not going to worry about what you think of me either. It's important what I think of myself.

I also want you to know that I think Gracie rocks. Gracie approaches life from a place of not being a darn victim. I'm looking forward to meeting her and giving her a big California hug.

Most of the people on this forum are simply humans trying to get through this life on earth with some dignity, integrity and humanness. I try to look at the similarities in people and not the differences, that seems to work for me.

Could you please tell me what was rude and crude? Please be specific so I don't make the same mistake twice.

[SALYBOW]

"Maybe we can all make this place a nice place to be so people won't be in fear of posting. What do you say fellas? Are you with me? I think we can do this! "


AMEN ALLELULIA!!! I have felt this way for a long time. I especiallyfelt this way after people made so much fun of a friend who was trying to set up a women's golf group. She is a very nice person and some of us were very rude.
It seems that this site is supposed to be based on fun, freindship, and information.. As such a forum it was working for me and I bet for many of you.
They say you can never go Home again, but I am hoping we can!!!!