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Old 04-28-2008, 04:39 PM
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Forgive me for repeating myself:

NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO!!

Kathie :redface:

P.S. Perfect timing, Nonie. I'm actually heading for my lawyer's office right now!
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Dont everyone hurry to answer this one!

See what you started Caroline? 1rnfl
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It would take a book to answer. You will have to wait until my memoirs are published. Look for them, "Memoirs of a Saint." ;D

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Do you realize how hard it is to train a man and keep him trained????? I am way to tired to start that again. My answer is no, (repeated into infinity). I have the best right now. There will be no replacement. I will have my girlfriends and "sisters".
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Being the wise woman (?) I am, I'll never say never but it would be hard to imagine marrying again. Tried it, didn't like it, probably way too set in my ways at this point. A non-live-in relationship might be nice but even that's not necessary.
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I thought the question, especially for here in TV, was great and how he got "caught" was even better. I rather keep this in the "dream" world and just let your mind think about it. As to how this would play out in real life, I doubt if most could answer truthfully, because most of us live in "todays" world with partners who are there and we know.....for "better or worse." Time would only tell !!
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Caroline, Of course your right, but lets not be too philosophical and have some fun with it, I know alot of people are going to be afraid to answer this but then theres those who will come up with the perfect answer. altho, Im very much aware of the fact that there is no perfect answer.
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I agree there is no perfect answer and I would never say "never" (as I am only 50) but it is not even on my "radar screen". I was married once but I live a full and happy life, am financially able to care for myself and really just enjoy having people of both sexes as friends. I come and go as I please. Not a bad life at all...
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I'm with Susan on this. I have an incredible husband. I fear no one could ever match him. When you have had the best, who wants to go backwards? I will make a life with my friends if he is taken from me.
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Originally Posted by KathieI
Forgive me for repeating myself:

NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO!!

Kathie :redface:LET me see if i understand you correctly does that mean you wouldn't
get married again :hot: :hot: :beer2: :hot:

P.S. Perfect timing, Nonie. I'm actually heading for my lawyer's office right now!
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Default Re: OK, OK! Would you enter the state of Holy Matrimony again??????

My answer is probably no. I agree with Susan, too much effort to retrain a man at this stage of my life. Girlfriends will be my companions.

I struck gold the first time, what are the chances of that happening again.

Only one way I might consider it ( We women have a right to change our minds). If I found a very caring...... and very wealthy...... man to take care of me, and was willing to honor my independence. : :
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Well....you may re-think that if you are living in Florida....there is an amendment out that willl hurt your benefits if you are an unmarried couple.....just be careful and if you can vote in FL...VOTE NO to number 2
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Default Re: OK, OK! Would you enter the state of Holy Matrimony again??????

I've been "single" since 1966 and I like it that way; the answer to your question is NO ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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I doubt it. I met hubby when I was 16 and he was 21. I knew that day we would always be together. We are having our 34th anniversary this June. Training was difficult, but I persevered. Compromise was a gimme. The chances of meeting a loving, kind, funny, smart, spontaneous, handsome, caring guy like I have probably would never ever ever happen again. We are very very happy. So if I am the one left alone, I would not want or need to be married. I barely ever dated!!! It would be impossible for any man to compare to my best friend, my soulmate, my husband. So I doubt it, sistahs are the best, but I also never say never. You never know what the future and life can throw at you.
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