[Barefoot]

Originally Posted by rokinronda

Thanks for all your advise. I have decided to sign off. The amount I thought I would get is very small (15-20k) and not worth a fight in court. I am the peacemaker. Always have been. If a war is desired, Pat is not getting one. Then I would be the "bad" sister. Pat would love that! Not worth it. I will wait and see if her conscience gets to her. Thanks everyone!

As we all know, life isn't always fair. I think your decision to move on and "let it go" is the right one for you. Peace of mind is priceless. A court battle would hurt everyone involved. Hopefully your sister will see the light. lovehorse

[njgranny]

Rhonda, You're right that it's probably not worth the tension. Good luck to you in all of this.

Some advice I'll pass on for anyone having children and making a will - use an attorney as the executor. It saves so much hassle for the family, and the best of families will have tensions, etc. at these times. My mother did that and the small cost for the attorney was worth every penny not to have to handle it ourselves and, possibly, get into family squabbles.

Jan