[ilovetv]

Originally Posted by elizabeth52

I just bristle when this happens to me. I don't understand why some people think that it is okay to interrupt when someone else is being waited on. My pet peeve, also.

I agree and don't like those interruptions either.

But....as illustrated in various posts above, sometimes a customer has waited a long time while that customer is carrying on a detailed conversation with the store clerk, discussing everything personal and nothing business related. People who actually want to buy something shouldn't have to wait for a customer telling their forlorn life story, or gossip, to the store clerk/cashier.

[ilovetv]

Originally Posted by eweissenbach

On this subject I would add the cashier in a small store who answers the phone while waiting on a live customer. Instead of saying "can you hold please, I'm waiting on a customer", they talk to the person and answer all their questions while I stand there waiting. I want to shout HEY, I CAME TO YOUR STORE TO GET MY QUESTIONS ANSWERED AND BUY SOMETHING AND YOU ARE GIVING PRIORITY SERVICE TO SOMEONE WHO DIDNT MAKE THE EFFORT TO COME TO THE STORE?

Exactly. It's mind boggling to be standing there with your merchandise laid out at the cash register, with money or credit card in hand, after already waiting in line behind 6-8 people.....

....and the cashier seems to think it's more important to attend to "somebody" out there who's out kickin' tires by phone than to actually make a sale and collect money!

[jojoin]

Originally Posted by SusanOfWoodbury

Did you talk with the manager of the store? Because if these clerks are talkative with one person and there are long lines, they will continue the behavior until someone steps in.

Just saying

Really?? You would want to get the clerk in trouble because he/she is conversing with a customer instead of ignoring them.
This whole issue should go under the heading "don't sweat the small stuff"

Just saying.............

[senior citizen]

Originally Posted by brightspot01

I so agree! What's the hurry? We're retired. When I'm waiting in line, regardless of the situation, I always remind myself that some people are lonely and this could be their only social contact for the day.

This is a great video to remind ourselves that we don't always know what's going on in another person's life:

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v...type=2&theater

I echo your sentiment of "What's the hurry? We're retired...etc."
EXCELLENT VIDEO by the way......

I also do not believe it's just a southern trait re neighborly chitchat; up here it happens , especially at this time of the year, or early spring, due to CABIN FEVER.......once people begin interacting with other humans again, all the news comes gushing out .......

Again, it is nothing new. I distinctly remember my mom and my grandmother back in the 1950's literally crossing the street to avoid Mrs. So and So, who would go on endlessly about her ailments, her grandchildren, her problems, etc.........some people just have no one else to talk to. Very sad. But truly, it only takes a few minutes out of a very long day to be kind and listen, if only for a moment.

We also have had neighbors who are more verbal than most; ironically married to very quiet spouses........when we see them walking down our street, most duck indoors to avoid a long long story.........but truthfully, it would be kinder if we all used our God given patience.

Patience is a virtue..........especially while standing in lines, waiting for service.

The video was an excellent reminder. Thanks for sharing.

[archerlc]

I'm sorry but I don't allow it. I have waited in line, at the store, and now it is my turn to be served. If the clerk reaches for the phone I immediately ask them what are you doing? I tell them they can answer the phone after they are done with me. To me it's the same as having another customer butt in and serve them instead of me. I disagree with previous posters who thinks it is OK to answer the phone. Let it ring.

[Cedwards38]

Originally Posted by TheVillageChicken

[skyguy79]

Yea - right! Let the phone ring! Doesn't matter to the caller who has no idea that you're waiting in line and being held up by their call. I wonder if those who say "let the phone ring" would feel the same if it was them calling and waiting and waiting and waiting for an answer (or being on hold) while not knowing that they may be holding anyone else up?

So what's a cashier/clerk to do if he's required by the boss to do both or at least feels compelled to be equally fair to the caller... get in trouble with that boss for not answering the phone or have a complaint filed against them? Give the poor cashier a little patience and understanding, and if you must blame, blame the boss who has that cashier doing both at the same time instead of having another arrangement for having the phones answered whenever possible.

Is it that hard to put ourselves in that cashiers place? I don't think so!

[Russ_Boston]

I have a saying for this: "Less talkie - more workie!"

[Topspinmo]

The one's that get my blood boiling are the ones in the left lane that flies past you speeding then swerve over to right lane and slams on the brakes making right hand turn. Now I got slam on my brakes to keep from hitting them when all they had to do was pull in behind me and exit with NO vehicles Behind me. This also happen on interstate. Speeding down the left lane then swerve across lanes of traffic cutting off me and other people to get to the exit cause they are so important they can't wait 15 seconds by merging to the right and exiting like normal. then there's the ones that don't stop at 4 way stops or pull out into the center of lanes before stopping I guess they don't know that your not in line till you stop and that suppose to be behind the stop sign

[eweissenbach]

Originally Posted by skyguy79

Yea - right! Let the phone ring! Doesn't matter to the caller who has no idea that you're waiting in line and being held up by their call. I wonder if those who say "let the phone ring" would feel the same if it was them calling and waiting and waiting and waiting for an answer (or being on hold) while not knowing that they may be holding anyone else up?

So what's a cashier/clerk to do if he's required by the boss to do both or at least feels compelled to be equally fair to the caller... get in trouble with that boss for not answering the phone or have a complaint filed against them? Give the poor cashier a little patience and understanding, and if you must blame, blame the boss who has that cashier doing both at the same time instead of having another arrangement for having the phones answered whenever possible.

Is it that hard to put ourselves in that cashiers place? I don't think so!

IMO the cashier should answer the phone and say "please hold as I am waiting on a customer". If the person chooses to hang up that is on them. The key here is that the live customer is there to buy, why should he/she be made to wait behind someone who is probably price shopping?

[CFrance]

Originally Posted by eweissenbach

IMO the cashier should answer the phone and say "please hold as I am waiting on a customer". If the person chooses to hang up that is on them. The key here is that the live customer is there to buy, why should he/she be made to wait behind someone who is probably price shopping?

I agree. I am asked to hold lots of times. I don't mind. It lets you know they are busy with someone already. Another thing is, whenever possible they shouldn't even be transferring a call to a cashier. Whoever answers the phone should take care of it or get a number to call back.

[Shimpy]

Originally Posted by JB in TV

"....whether it is true or not that New Yorkers or "big city folks" are more pushy then us "South Westerners", it is definitely noticable here.

Chicago, Pittsburgh, Cleveland, Dallas, etc. are all big cities but you would never know it from the politeness of the people that come from there compared to the northeast. I don't know why that is.

[Dr Winston O Boogie jr]

Originally Posted by Bonnevie

I, too, have bristled over this and also people not making choice before getting to order taker at Panera, etc. I try to take a deep breath and tell myself I'm retired now and a few extra minutes are not going to matter to me.

My son works for Panera as a computer programmer. He is currently developing a mobile web site that will allow you to place your order before you get into the store or while you are waiting in line. Unfortunately, the people who wait until they get to the clerk before they decide what they want probably won't use the site.

The cashiers that chat with everyone when there is a long line are also a pet peeve of mine as well. There is one in particular in a store that I shop in quite frequently and this girl is always in the express line. People in that lane usually just want a few things and want to get in and she is the slowest cashier I've ever seen. She'll also often initiate conversations with customers about the product they are buying. "Oh, I've never had that before. Is it really good?" "It's not too sweet is it?" "I might try some of that sometime."

I'm really trying to have more patience and not get upset over these things so I really just try to calm myself down and let it go.

Like someone said, I also think that it is a regional thing. People from New England, especially the cities, are not so outgoing. It's not that they're not friendly, they just are quite a bit more reserved.

[Dr Winston O Boogie jr]

Originally Posted by brightspot01

I so agree! What's the hurry? We're retired. When I'm waiting in line, regardless of the situation, I always remind myself that some people are lonely and this could be their only social contact for the day.

This is a great video to remind ourselves that we don't always know what's going on in another person's life:

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v...type=2&theater

It was a great video, but I'm sorry. I am so tired of hearing people say that because we're retired we have no place to go. I have plenty of places to go. I belong to several clubs and like to get to them on time. I have doctors appointments. My wife works and sometimes I drop her off and pick her up. I also do volunteer work and it is important that I get there on time. A lot of people have golf tee times, tennis times and times for bocce tournaments and who knows what else.
Yes, I agree we should give ourselves plenty of time to get to our destinations but sometimes things happen that are beyond our control and we get running late.
Like I said, we might be retired, but we're not dead. Many of us find that we are
busier in our retired life than we were when we were working.
Like I said in a previous post, I am trying very hard to become more patient and see things from other people's view. But please don't say "What the hurry? You're retired. You have no place to go."
That's one of my pet peeves.

[Cedwards38]

Sounds like the general theme of response here is, fast or slow, talkative or not, in a hurry or not in a hurry, let's just notice what's going on around us and try to be considerate of other people.