Originally Posted by benj

cassie

So chels calls me an ass. I ask her if she meant Obama is an ass she says no I'm an ass I ask her if she could find other words to use ,then you ask ME to be nice then I ask you if you would ask chels to be nice and here I sit waiting for you to ask her, and nothing. Could you be biased? Benj

Benj!!! You are right! Chels BE NICE!!!! But perhaps I am biased....because I wasn't really talking about that comment....I was talking about all of the other ones....

Let's be nice!!! Disagree...Agree....doesn't matter....let's just be nice about it!
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Originally Posted by Cassie325

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As for my comment about a daughter needing her mother especially in her teen years....sometimes it is just a womens intuition....I am sure that has no facts to back it up....but a mother knows when her child needs help.....a mother just knows!!!

I beg to differ. If that were true, the teen birth rate would not be stratospheric, runaways would be down, suicides and other such stuff would not be on the rise, and all sorts of other distress situations wouold go away. While one may be more observant to warning signs (if one wants to, and that is not gender-unique) being a mother (or father) does not make one a mind reader.

I'm sorry, but that's somewhat sexist and chauvanistic.

Originally Posted by SteveZ

I beg to differ. If that were true, the teen birth rate would not be stratospheric, runaways would be down, suicides and other such stuff would not be on the rise, and all sorts of other distress situations would go away. While one may be more observant to warning signs (if one wants to, and that is not gender-unique) being a mother (or father) does not make one a mind reader.
I'm sorry, but that's somewhat sexist and chauvinistic.

Don't apologize....again thank you...I KNOW I am not always right...in other people's minds...

I do "feel" that mothers have better instincts (notice I said I FEEL not I KNOW) but perhaps I am not giving fathers a chance....not all deserve one...(my Dad is great by the way)but perhaps most do....read what I found...I guess I am going to the book store today...Thanks again Steve...

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