Girl Talk

[Barefoot]

We just watched the last show on Netflix...the good thing is, I just heard that it was renewed. If anyone hasn't seen it you have to watch. Jane Fonda and Lily Tomlin are wonderful...you have to see them both dancing on a bar top! Suddenly you realize that we don't have to grow up!
I knew Fonda was 77, but I didn't realize Tomlin is 75. Good genes & good surgeons. They have been friends since they worked together on Nine to Five. They have great chemistry!

[Barefoot]

I wonder if these makeup tips are valid. Obviously she is trying to sell makeup, but I think some of her tips are valid.

5 Makeup Tips For Older Women By 64 Year Old Super Model Cindy Joseph! | BOOM by Cindy Joseph (http://www.boombycindyjoseph.com/pages/5-makeup-tips-for-baby-boomers-by-cindy-joseph?gclid=CI2arIqW9McCFQeOaQodCBEMtA)

I have started using Paula's Choice cosmetics based on Wandatime's recommendation. I really like the dailymoisturer with SPF. Nice and light feeling, not greasy.

[CFrance]

I wonder if these makeup tips are valid. Obviously she is trying to sell makeup, but I think some of her tips are valid.

5 Makeup Tips For Older Women By 64 Year Old Super Model Cindy Joseph! | BOOM by Cindy Joseph (http://www.boombycindyjoseph.com/pages/5-makeup-tips-for-baby-boomers-by-cindy-joseph?gclid=CI2arIqW9McCFQeOaQodCBEMtA)

I have started using Paula's Choice cosmetics based on Wandatime's recommendation. I really like the dailymoisturer with SPF. Nice and light feeling, not greasy.
Agree. But where can I buy that hair!

[Boomer]

I just set the DVR for Masterpiece Theater's new series on PBS, Sunday night, Indian Summers. If you Google the title you will find reviews, some of which say this new series is aimed at Downton Abbey fans. It's not supposed to be as good, but it sounds like it will be good enough for me. I thought maybe some of you might like to tune in, too.

[Barefoot]

I just set the DVR for Masterpiece Theater's new series on PBS, Sunday night, Indian Summers. If you Google the title you will find reviews, some of which say this new series is aimed at Downton Abbey fans. It's not supposed to be as good, but it sounds like it will be good enough for me. I thought maybe some of you might like to tune in, too.

I don't have a DVR but I do have Netflix. I notice that some of the Downton Abbey series is now on Netflix. Perhaps Indian Summers will be there also.

If you are looking for something totally opposite from Downton Abbey, there is a series on Netflix called Rita. It's about a Scandinavian (I think) school teacher. My girlfriend told me to watch it and that it uses subtitles, so I wasn't keen to watch it. But after a while, you don't even notice the subtitles. I just watched three seasons.

Rita is a bit "rough around the edges" so the series isn't for the faint-hearted. I found it entertaining.

[Ohiogirl]

one of our new favorite series (actually an old one, I guess - we're watching on Netflix) is New Tricks, a British series bringing 3 old detectives (all with quirks) out of retirement to work under a woman chief superintendent on Cold Cases. We really like it.

[Boomer]

Hello and thank you, Barefoot and Ohiogirl, for your Netflix suggestions. I tend to be overwhelmed by the number of choices on Netflix. Lots of them I have never heard of so I always like suggestions.

Ohiogirl, I saw what you wrote on top of your post about thinking maybe you were going off topic. Certainly not. Not at all. :) You were not even close to straying from the topic and besides, I think it is fun to expand on a topic. I call it conversation.

The "Girl Talk" thread has a history. The purpose of this thread is to allow for conversation about things that interest women. And to allow for topics to meander and jump. Just like dinner conversation in a group of women. We all know we have a remarkable ability to follow several conversations at once -- so here in "Girl Talk" we can do just that.......

More than seven years ago, Barefoot started the "Girl Talk" thread, conceived in liberty and dedicated to the proposition that we women could carry on our conversation in our own way. And through more than 2500 posts and tons of topics and passing a quarter million hits and for almost 8 years, "Girl Talk" has endured.

And I cannot remember a single time when anyone in "Girl Talk" was rude or suspicious.

Boomerang Boomer

[Boomer]

I like the show Madam Secretary but what's with her wearing jackets with 3/4 sleeves with long-sleeved blouses. Last night it was a 3/4 sleeved sweater over a long-sleeved blouse with cuffs that looked like they had been caught in a shredder. (Maybe some secret documents had to be shredded and she did not have time to change.)

I wore a lot of jackets to work but I never would have worn them with 8 inches of blouse sleeve hanging out.

Oh well, I guess I am hopelessly out of it. At least Madam Secretary is not going around with her bra straps showing. That is a "look" that I really do not get.

I try not to miss the show. But I do find that sleeve combo disconcerting.

[FosterMomma]

Boomer... I love the show Madame Secretary but last night I kept being distracted by the terrible clothes that Tea Leone wears in every episode. I really hate it when men talk about the looks of politicians so I feel a bit badly saying that but seriously, she's a nice looking woman and is always in bad "man" clothes!

[2newyorkers]

I also found that blouse, sleeves and colors, totally distracting.

[Boomer]

I am hoping someone can tell me what I am doing wrong.....

I am so aggravated at having brand new black pants turn a noncommittal shade of charcoal gray after just two or three washings.

The pants are cotton, mostly capris. Some of them from L. L. Bean and Lands End.

I wash them in cold water. I turn them inside-out. I use Woolite. Sometimes I use Cheer. Both of those promise to guard my colors. But that is not happening.

I am spending my life-savings replacing capris because the ones in my closet look like 50 shades of charcoal.

Any laundry tips that can put me back in black?

[CFrance]

I am hoping someone can tell me what I am doing wrong.....

I am so aggravated at having brand new black pants turn a noncommittal shade of charcoal gray after just two or three washings.

The pants are cotton, mostly capris. Some of them from L. L. Bean and Lands End.

I wash them in cold water. I turn them inside-out. I use Woolite. Sometimes I use Cheer. Both of those promise to guard my colors. But that is not happening.

I am spending my life-savings replacing capris because the ones in my closet look like 50 shades of charcoal.

Any laundry tips that can put me back in black?

I have heard a couple of things down through the years. I don't have any proof. One was to soak the items in vinegar and water before the first wash to "set" the color. The second thing I heard was that the dryer does as much to fade the color as the washer.

I just dyed three black shirts that are old, I love, and can't replace. It was a pain in the neck as we don't have a stainless sink and I was afraid of staining the sink. I used the plastic laundry sink but was very careful. It turned out well, but I probably won't do that again.

[Boomer]

I have heard a couple of things down through the years. I don't have any proof. One was to soak the items in vinegar and water before the first wash to "set" the color. The second thing I heard was that the dryer does as much to fade the color as the washer.

I just dyed three black shirts that are old, I love, and can't replace. It was a pain in the neck as we don't have a stainless sink and I was afraid of staining the sink. I used the plastic laundry sink but was very careful. It turned out well, but I probably won't do that again.


I have thought about trying to dye them, but I know I would turn it into a rigmarole that would ruin something and/or I would end up with the dye not properly setting and getting all over me when I wore the pants.

I had not heard the vinegar thing but I think I did hear something about salt in the water.

I do understand what you mean though about being willing to try dye with shirts you really like. Pants are at least usually replaceable but shirts don't seem to be.

I also would like to know if anyone has bought a brand of black pants with color that holds.

[CFrance]

Oh, and here's another thing. But you may be unwilling to do this. I send all black pants, of any material, to the dry cleaner. It's mainly because I am lousy at ironing pants. but they don't fade.

[Padraicin]

Boomer, there is a type of Woolite for use on black clothes only, which is in a black container. I use that type on all my black clothes, including tops, blouses, bras and even trouser socks. I even use it on dark blue jeans. I wash in cold water and hang everything to dry; however, then I usually have to steam iron all the clothes. The ironing is annoying but the clothes do last longer so I indulge in "junk" TV while ironing.

[Trish Crocker]

I do agree that the dryer is very hard on colors. I hang almost all of my clothes but when I mistakenly put some into the dryer there was a major difference.

[Barefoot]

I do agree that the dryer is very hard on colors. I hang almost all of my clothes but when I mistakenly put some into the dryer there was a major difference.
I also hang all my clothes to dry. Otherwise they shrink.
Actually I've noticed lately that even clothes I haven't washed are shrinking. :shocked: yikes.

[Barefoot]

I was at a public beach recently. Most men had on roomy bathing suits down to their knees.
I noticed that most women were jammed into little suits with their cellulite bottoms hanging out.
So ... Who decided the proper "bathing costume" for women

[graciegirl]

I also hang all my clothes to dry. Otherwise they shrink.
Actually I've noticed lately that even clothes I haven't washed are shrinking. :shocked: yikes.



Mine are shrinking too. I think it's the Kettle Chips.


Please carry on about the black dye fading in clothes. It is amazing how much you can learn on this forum.

[dotti105]

I have found that my cotton and cotton blend blacks fade from the sun exposure here. I don't know how to change that!

The only pants I have that don't fade, machine wash and dry beautifully, don't wrinkle and are great in the hot weather here is the Zenergy Neema pants and shorts from Chico's. They are a super light weight, synthetic blend that are very comfy. Same type of fabric as my Hubby's golf shorts. They are truly colorfast.

I bought 5 different colors and they hold up great. The Blacks do not fade. All my other fabrics have since I have been here.

[Barefoot]

I wonder if these makeup tips are valid. Obviously she is trying to sell makeup, but I think some of her tips are valid.
5 Makeup Tips For Older Women By 64 Year Old Super Model Cindy Joseph! | BOOM by Cindy Joseph (http://www.boombycindyjoseph.com/pages/5-makeup-tips-for-baby-boomers-by-cindy-joseph?gclid=CI2arIqW9McCFQeOaQodCBEMtA)

If you haven't tried Paula's Choice cosmetics, I think they are great (recommended by Wanda).
I especially like Paula's Choice Resist, which is a super-light non-greasy moisturizer with SPF 30 and a hint of color.
I also like SkinCeuticals recommended by Dotti, but I find it a bit shiny. I like the SPF 50 though.

[Barefoot]

The only pants I have that don't fade, machine wash and dry beautifully, don't wrinkle and are great in the hot weather here is the Zenergy Neema pants and shorts from Chico's. They are a super light weight, synthetic blend that are very comfy. Same type of fabric as my Hubby's golf shorts. They are truly colorfast.
I really like Chico's Travelers line.

[Wandatime]

I really like Chico's Travelers line.

I've just discovered the Chico's Travelers Line and LOVE it! Wore those stretchy black pants to Thanksgiving yesterday.

[Barefoot]

I've just discovered the Chico's Travelers Line and LOVE it! Wore those stretchy black pants to Thanksgiving yesterday. I love Chico's Travelers line also. I have at least six different pieces.
So versatile, so easily packed, well worth the price.

[dotti105]

Yea, The Travelers line at Chicos is great. Like wearing PJs, but look sharp. They are always in my suitcase when I travel, but often wear them here too. Non cling! That's a big plus!!

[Barefoot]

Yea, The Travelers line at Chicos is great. Like wearing PJs, but look sharp. They are always in my suitcase when I travel, but often wear them here too. Non cling! That's a big plus!!

What are you doing awake at 2:22 AM? :smiley: :024:

[Syl 123]

I had breast cancer last year and I had Chemo. Ilost my hair. When it came in mostly white, I really loved it and so did everyone else. Give it a try if you absolutely hate it you can always color it again. Good luck. S.D.

[Barefoot]

I had breast cancer last year and I had Chemo. Ilost my hair. When it came in mostly white, I really loved it and so did everyone else. Give it a try if you absolutely hate it you can always color it again.

Hi Syl, welcome to Girl Talk.
I can't imagine the impact and challenge of being diagnosed with breast cancer and having chemo.
It must take a lot of courage and strength. I hope you're doing well.
I stopped coloring my hair because I developed an allergy to hair dye. I love hair that is mostly white, it looks fabulous.
My hair has been growing out for a year, and I i find that it's "salt and pepper", mostly pepper. Who knew.
My hair stylist keeps telling me it takes time and patience to grow out grey, and she is right.
People tell me they like my "new" hair, which is shorter now, but I suspect they're just being kind.

[CFrance]

I have found that my cotton and cotton blend blacks fade from the sun exposure here. I don't know how to change that!

The only pants I have that don't fade, machine wash and dry beautifully, don't wrinkle and are great in the hot weather here is the Zenergy Neema pants and shorts from Chico's. They are a super light weight, synthetic blend that are very comfy. Same type of fabric as my Hubby's golf shorts. They are truly colorfast.

I bought 5 different colors and they hold up great. The Blacks do not fade. All my other fabrics have since I have been here.

Just read this in a newsletter I get called PureWow. I have NO IDEA if it works, but here it is:

What you need: Black pepper (no need to bring the salt)
What you do: Add a teaspoon to the wash cycle (along with your regular detergent) the next time you�re doing a load of colors. Set the water temperature to cold.
How it works: The abrasiveness of the pepper exfoliates the soap residue that causes clothing to fade. Then it just washes away with the rinse cycle.


Read more: Black Pepper Will Change How You Do Laundry Forever | Home | PureWow National (http://www.purewow.com/home/Black-Pepper-Laundry-Hack#ixzz3tYZ49CxE)

[Barefoot]

What you need: Black pepper (no need to bring the salt)
What you do: Add a teaspoon to the wash cycle (along with your regular detergent) the next time you�re doing a load of colors. Set the water temperature to cold.
How it works: The abrasiveness of the pepper exfoliates the soap residue that causes clothing to fade. Then it just washes away with the rinse cycle.
Read more: Black Pepper Will Change How You Do Laundry Forever | Home | PureWow National
(http://www.purewow.com/home/Black-Pepper-Laundry-Hack#ixzz3tYZ49CxE)


Well, aren't you little Miss Harriet Homemaker. I'm VERY impressed because I know that Ron does your laundry! :p
I'm gonna try it!

[CFrance]

Well, aren't you little Miss Harriet Homemaker. I'm VERY impressed because I know that Ron does your laundry! :p
I'm gonna try it!

You brat! You don't even own an iron!!!!:a20:
:a20::a20:

[dotti105]

What are you doing awake at 2:22 AM? :smiley: :024:

Bare, I'm just a night owl!
I could ask the same of you being awake and coherent enough to post before 6:00 am....
I'm kind of a 3am-10am sleeper. At least that would be my ideal! But my hubby has more normal sleeping hrs and so I'm often up and going, well before my brain is engaged.
When I can't sleep, I'm on here catching up!

[Barefoot]

Bare, I'm just a night owl!
I could ask the same of you being awake and coherent enough to post before 6:00 am....
I'm kind of a 3am-10am sleeper. At least that would be my ideal! But my hubby has more normal sleeping hrs and so I'm often up and going, well before my brain is engaged.
When I can't sleep, I'm on here catching up!
I'm a 2AM to 8 AM sleeper. I rarely sleep more than six hours, but I'd love to get eight hours sleep every night.
Occasionally sleep hypnosis tapes work for me.
My husband also sleeps normal hours.
I think my circadian rhythm is permanently out of whack.

[Boomer]

I never said a proper thank you for your suggestions on how to stop black pants from fading. I take just one pair to the cleaners because they were relatively expensive and classic in style so the return-on-investment in dry cleaning is worth it.

Otherwise, for now, it's Woolite on the delicate cycle. -- I found a website that said to use fabric softener to stop abrasion -- just the opposite of the sneezy pants hint CFrance found. :)

I am going to try Chico's Travelers line. The Chico's in TV is the first Chico's I ever spent any time in. I bought a couple of white shirts. -- I do not like to shop (except for furniture) so I tend to try to hurry. The first time I went to a Chico's was years ago. I walked in, did a quick look-around, and did not try anything on because I fled in horror thinking it was a store only for those who wore size 1 or 2.

Anyway, thank you. I luv this ol' thread where we can have discussions that are light and fun and also quite useful for just us "girls."

[Barefoot]

I am going to try Chico's Travelers line. The Chico's in TV is the first Chico's I ever spent any time in. I bought a couple of white shirts. -- I do not like to shop (except for furniture) so I tend to try to hurry. The first time I went to a Chico's was years ago.
Anyway, thank you. I luv this ol' thread where we can have discussions that are light and fun and also quite useful for just us "girls."

Boomer, you will love Chico's Travelers line.
I bought a couple of pairs of pants, t-shirts, cardigans in several colors. One is orange and ties in the front.
I mix and match. You can ball them up in a corner of your suitcase and then wear them to dinner.
It's perfect solution for anyone who doesn't like to shop. I love that the line goes from casual to dressy.
I also wear my Travellers at Christmas; I wear them with a sparkly top with sequins.
It's the most versatile line I've ever found, and well worth the money.

[sunnybeeche]

I am looking for a great resale shop near the villages for golf clothes and other almost new things that I no longer want. Thanks in advance

[CFrance]

sunnybeeche, I used the search function at the top of the page for "consignment" and came up with this thread that might be helpful. https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/contractors-services-91/womens-clothing-consignment-144711/?highlight=consignment

[Boomer]

I have found that my cotton and cotton blend blacks fade from the sun exposure here. I don't know how to change that!

The only pants I have that don't fade, machine wash and dry beautifully, don't wrinkle and are great in the hot weather here is the Zenergy Neema pants and shorts from Chico's. They are a super light weight, synthetic blend that are very comfy. Same type of fabric as my Hubby's golf shorts. They are truly colorfast.

I bought 5 different colors and they hold up great. The Blacks do not fade. All my other fabrics have since I have been here.


I've just discovered the Chico's Travelers Line and LOVE it! Wore those stretchy black pants to Thanksgiving yesterday.


I love Chico's Travelers line also. I have at least six different pieces.
So versatile, so easily packed, well worth the price.


This Chico's line sounds like it could be my answer. It might be a touch of spandex that helps the fabric hold its color.

I looked at their website and I really like the classic style.

I used to buy almost everything at Coldwater Creek. In fact, in my northern location I had a personal shopper, of sorts. I would call to find out when she could have some things ready for me to try on. We were about the same age and the same size so she understood the "look" I was after.

Coldwater Creek WAS dependable for me because I thought the quality was decent at a decent price, and then the quality changed -- drastically. They must have been using different suppliers. There is a big difference between making a good profit and insulting your customers by trying to get them to pay the same as usual for shoddy stuff......

Well, we see what happened to Coldwater Creek......I think they did it to themselves. I really miss the old Coldwater Creek, especially the jackets and those terrific jeans that fit perfectly, looked like jeans, but felt like wearing pajamas. -- And I think the dressing rooms had those skinnyfying mirrors.

Anyway, I liked the look of the Travelers Collection on the website and will go to Chico's to see it.

Thank you.

[Barefoot]

And I think the dressing rooms had those skinnyfying mirrors.

There was a woman on Shark Tank last week selling the idea of marketing skinny mirrors to department stores.
The Sharks threw her out, saying it was misleading marketing.
While that is true, who doesn't want to look in the mirror and find themselves suddenly 10 lbs thinner? :evil6:

P.S. A lot of people I know are starting WW in January.
Of course Oprah is promoting it since she bought in. I think I can shed those pesky 10 holiday lbs without WW. But then I've been wrong before. Just call me Muffin Top.

[Barefoot]

And I think the dressing rooms had those skinnyfying mirrors.

There was a woman on Shark Tank last week selling the idea of marketing skinny mirrors to department stores.
The Sharks threw her out, saying it was misleading marketing.
While that is true, who doesn't want to look in the mirror and find themselves suddenly 10 lbs thinner? :evil6:

P.S.
A lot of people I know are starting WW in January. And of course Oprah is promoting it since she bought in.
I think I can shed those pesky 10 holiday lbs without WW. But then I've been wrong before. Just call me Muffin Top.

[Barefoot]

Anyway, I liked the look of the Travelers Collection on the website and will go to Chico's to see it.
Let us know what you think!

[Barefoot]

I saw a post somewhere about a Charity collecting used luggage. Does anyone remember it?
I'm not sure if it was on TOTV or in the online newspaper or if I dreamed about it.
I just bought new Lily Bloom luggage, and I'd like to donate my old luggage to Charity.
If I can't figure out which special Charity it is, I'll just take my luggage to Good Will.

[Fallchicks2]

You'll be happy to know that Sally's Beauty supply is where I buy my Wella. Been doing my own for years!

[CFrance]

You'll be happy to know that Sally's Beauty supply is where I buy my Wella. Been doing my own for years!
The general public can buy Wella hair dye? I thought you had to have an operator's license.

[Barefoot]

Has anyone seen the Sally Field movie called "Hello, my name is Doris"?
I think it's playing at the Rialto.

[Boomer]

Has anyone seen the Sally Field movie called "Hello, my name is Doris"?
I think it's playing at the Rialto.


Just saw it. I liked it. An early boomer who had been trudging through life and a nice guy millennial. Friendship. Misunderstanding. A sweet little script with some great lines. Some were hit-home-laugh-out-loud.

You will like Doris and will be rooting for her and at the end, you will find yourself mentally writing a sequel.

[Barefoot]

Just saw it. I liked it. An early boomer who had been trudging through life and a nice guy millennial. Friendship. Misunderstanding. A sweet little script with some great lines. Some were hit-home-laugh-out-loud. You will like Doris and will be rooting for her and at the end, you will find yourself mentally writing a sequel.

Thanks Boomer! I am a Sally Field fan so I thought I'd like it. Thanks for the nice review.

[mysunshine1948]

Hi, I am fairly new here and am wondering what the single's clubs are like. I would just like to meet some other single people. My neighborhood is all couples. Also, while at Eisenhower Rec. Center a couple of weeks ago on a Saturday night, there was a dance going on. The lady at the desk said it was Saturday Night Dance Club. But, I have not found anything with that name anywhere. Anyone know about that? Thank you!

[Barefoot]

Hi, I am fairly new here and am wondering what the single's clubs are like. I would just like to meet some other single people. My neighborhood is all couples. Also, while at Eisenhower Rec. Center a couple of weeks ago on a Saturday night, there was a dance going on. The lady at the desk said it was Saturday Night Dance Club. But, I have not found anything with that name anywhere. Anyone know about that? Thank you!

I suggest you send a private message to Chachacha. She is very hospitable and knows about all singles activities!

[Barefoot]

If you enjoy Frankie & Grace, the second series is now available on Netflix. :thumbup:

[2newyorkers]

If you enjoy Frankie & Grace, the second series is now available on Netflix. :thumbup:

Love this series!

[Barefoot]

Love this series!

I especially like Frankie & Grace because Lily Tomlin is 76. And Jane Fonda is 78. Remarkable! :thumbup:

[2newyorkers]

I especially like Frankie & Grace because Lily Tomlin is 76. And Jane Fonda is 78. Remarkable! :thumbup:


I think all the characters are so funny, even the daughters and sons.

[Barefoot]

I think all the characters are so funny, even the daughters and sons. I like all the characters also.
If you haven't seen Frankie & Grace, try this light-hearted spoof on Netflix.

[Boomer]

Good morning,

Often here we talk about hair: Haircuts. Hair Color. Hair Stylists. Hair Products. Hair Angst.

I am among those aging boomers who cannot go gently into white hair -- even though I think white hair looks beautiful on friends and strangers. Gray hair looks beautiful, too.........Sometimes I think if mine could go through the transitioning in that lovely salt and pepper way, I would be fine........

But nooooooo, my roots grow in white. And those roots come in fast.

I have decided to try to give up on the darker base-color retouch and to highlight more heavily at the roots, lighter and lighter, while hoping to gradually blend in the white.

I am one of the abominable snowbirds.......sort of, although we are in our TV house more often than just winter. That means I am going through this process in two states.

Last winter, I found Myra at Urban Hair Studio, which is a Wella Salon. I really like Myra. She listens and communicates and understands the complexity that coloring hair can be. With bleaching, knowing how and when to use a toner is really important. Myra did mine just right. A good colorist has to be a good chemist. Myra also gives a good haircut.

Although not going gently into my real white hair is a big commitment, I do like the fact that bleach (done right) gives hair more oomph. And my hair needs all the oomph it can get.

This Girl Talk thread was started by Barefoot many years ago. And if you go back to the first page, you will see the very first topic was......you guessed it! Hair! And I am still here. A little embarrassing actually. Have I stayed too long? Agonizing over my hair color?

Any thoughts and suggestions on how to make this transition into reality? Or the best way not to?

Boomer

[CFrance]

Good morning,

Often here we talk about hair: Haircuts. Hair Color. Hair Stylists. Hair Products. Hair Angst.

I am among those aging boomers who cannot go gently into white hair -- even though I think white hair looks beautiful on friends and strangers. Gray hair looks beautiful, too.........Sometimes I think if mine could go through the transitioning in that lovely salt and pepper way, I would be fine........

But nooooooo, my roots grow in white. And those roots come in fast.

I have decided to try to give up on the darker base-color retouch and to highlight more heavily at the roots, lighter and lighter, while hoping to gradually blend in the white.

I am one of the abominable snowbirds.......sort of, although we are in our TV house more often than just winter. That means I am going through this process in two states.

Last winter, I found Myra at Urban Hair Studio, which is a Wella Salon. I really like Myra. She listens and communicates and understands the complexity that coloring hair can be. With bleaching, knowing how and when to use a toner is really important. Myra did mine just right. A good colorist has to be a good chemist. Myra also gives a good haircut.

Although not going gently into my real white hair is a big commitment, I do like the fact that bleach (done right) gives hair more oomph. And my hair needs all the oomph it can get.

This Girl Talk thread was started by Barefoot many years ago. And if you go back to the first page, you will see the very first topic was......you guessed it! Hair! And I am still here. A little embarrassing actually. Have I stayed too long? Agonizing over my hair color?

Any thoughts and suggestions on how to make this transition into reality? Or the best way not to?

Boomer
At least here in TV, I think you have gone to the right place, Urban Hair. When I was there last week, Sam the owner said Wella has come out with several more shades, and she chose one of them for me. They are very good with color at Urban Hair. Good luck with your transition. I have the same problems with my gray roots, plus skin tone that looks horrible with my hair's shade of gray. I know this because my hair started graying in my 30s, and I tried to let it go then. The result was not good, to say the least. So I am chicken to try this again. My feeling is if I ended up having to color it to change the shade of gray, I might as well stick with coloring it dark blonde.

[Boomer]

Hi CFrance,

I know what you mean about skin tone. I have to figure out how to keep some kind of dimension in the color or my whole head will fade into one big blah. I am thinking about shades of dark blonde with my white blending in. It is sure a process in more ways than one.........

Now, CFrance, I hope you will join me in a smile based upon looking at your avatar in juxtaposition to your post. :) -- I can't help picturing the writer being the one in the avatar and as a result of my wandering imagination, I must say....... I think your shades of blonde in your picture are just beautiful with your gray.

Boomer

[Barefoot]

Often here we talk about hair: Haircuts. Hair Color. Hair Stylists. Hair Products. Hair Angst.
I am among those aging boomers who cannot go gently into white hair -- even though I think white hair looks beautiful on friends and strangers. Gray hair looks beautiful, too.........Sometimes I think if mine could go through the transitioning in that lovely salt and pepper way, I would be fine........
But nooooooo, my roots grow in white. And those roots come in fast.
I have decided to try to give up on the darker base-color retouch and to highlight more heavily at the roots, lighter and lighter, while hoping to gradually blend in the white.
I am one of the abominable snowbirds.......sort of, although we are in our TV house more often than just winter. That means I am going through this process in two states.
Last winter, I found Myra at Urban Hair Studio, which is a Wella Salon. I really like Myra. She listens and communicates and understands the complexity that coloring hair can be. With bleaching, knowing how and when to use a toner is really important. Myra did mine just right. A good colorist has to be a good chemist. Myra also gives a good haircut.
Although not going gently into my real white hair is a big commitment, I do like the fact that bleach (done right) gives hair more oomph. And my hair needs all the oomph it can get.
This Girl Talk thread was started by Barefoot many years ago. And if you go back to the first page, you will see the very first topic was......you guessed it! Hair! And I am still here. A little embarrassing actually. Have I stayed too long? Agonizing over my hair color?
Any thoughts and suggestions on how to make this transition into reality? Or the best way not to?
Boomer

I share your angst.
I go to Urban Hair for six months in the winter; all the sylists there seem to be excellent.
But --- I haven't yet found anyone in Canada that can cut my hair similar to Urban Hair!
The last hairdresser that I liked in Canada moved away; and it took me years to find her.
I am booked with someone new on Saturday, wish me luck.
I followed the advice of the owner of Urban Hair and picked a hair cutter who has worked in the same shop for 30 years. We'll see.

I transitioned about a year ago. No, not gender, going grey.
I developed allergies to hair dye so I had no choice.
I always thought my hair would be a gorgeous icy white color.
But no, it's salt and pepper with more pepper than salt, especially at the back.
Which makes me look somewhat like a zebra.
But now I've gotten used to it; I don't mind my hair color at all.
One problem with transitioning is now I need a new wardrobe.
My old orange-reds don't look jazzy at all with grey hair.

So Boomer, my advice to you is TRANSITION.
You'll be glad you did.
I was a slave to hair color for many years.
Now the freedom from dying and highlighting - priceless.

[CFrance]

Hi CFrance,

I know what you mean about skin tone. I have to figure out how to keep some kind of dimension in the color or my whole head will fade into one big blah. I am thinking about shades of dark blonde with my white blending in. It is sure a process in more ways than one.........

Now, CFrance, I hope you will join me in a smile based upon looking at your avatar in juxtaposition to your post. :) -- I can't help picturing the writer being the one in the avatar and as a result of my wandering imagination, I must say....... I think your shades of blonde in your picture are just beautiful with your gray.

Boomer
Ha ha! I wish I had his hair--but not his snout...

[Tina51898]

Does anyone know anything about Meghan at Cals Barber and Beauty in Brownwood? Looking for a new stylist

[Barefoot]

Does anyone know anything about Meghan at Cals Barber and Beauty in Brownwood? Looking for a new stylist

:welcome: Tina, I see you are new to TOTV, welcome!

You are surely welcome to ask any question here.
However I thought you might not know about the search button.
Did you know you can do a search on Meghan by pushing the search button above and typing in Meghan's name?
You will get any thread mentioning the name Meghan, like the one below.
https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/villages-florida-general-discussion-73/hair-cuttery-pinellas-144705/?highlight=meghan

[Tina51898]

Thank you so much for that, it's very helpful

[Barefoot]

Thank you so much for that, it's very helpful
You're welcome Tina. I hope you keep posting!

[Madelaine Amee]

Many of you will think I am crazy, but yesterday I had a new experience in my life ........... I had a pedicure! I don't like people touching me so I have always done my own finger and toe nails, but due to a weird fatty deposit which is growing around my waist I am having difficulty in reaching the toe nails! I also have a deformed nail which is unsightly and I hate people to see it.

Yesterday I allowed myself to be dragged to Nails and I am completely addicted. It takes me an hour to do what this beautiful young Asian woman did in about six minutes and then she followed up with an incredible foot and leg massage - I was in heaven.

I am still in love with my feet, the deformed nail looks almost normal and I love the color I chose. Cannot wait to go back!

[CFrance]

Weird fatty deposit...LOL
You are too funny!

[jojo]

Many of you will think I am crazy, but yesterday I had a new experience in my life ........... I had a pedicure! I don't like people touching me so I have always done my own finger and toe nails, but due to a weird fatty deposit which is growing around my waist I am having difficulty in reaching the toe nails! I also have a deformed nail which is unsightly and I hate people to see it.

Yesterday I allowed myself to be dragged to Nails and I am completely addicted. It takes me an hour to do what this beautiful young Asian woman did in about six minutes and then she followed up with an incredible foot and leg massage - I was in heaven.

I am still in love with my feet, the deformed nail looks almost normal and I love the color I chose. Cannot wait to go back!

Where is Nails? My mother needs a pedicure.

[Madelaine Amee]

Where is Nails? My mother needs a pedicure.

I was taken by a friend to Brownwood to Nail Saloon, Brownwood Town Square, Keissel Road 352-391-9391.

As I said in my earlier post, I have never been into a Nail salon before so this was a new and very good experience. I really do have a toe nail that had a terrible fungus infection for many years and when it grew out it was deformed and miserable to try to cut. My friend uses Ivy to do her nails and Kim did mine. I would suggest you take your mother to Ivy, she was very gentle and soft spoken. Kim was great, but very efficient and fast paced.

I would add that I was amazed at how very careful they were with hygiene. They used a new set of tools for every client. I think your Mother would be very happy with them.

[Barefoot]

Madelaine, I also love pedicures.
If I were shipwrecked on an abandoned island and could take only one person with me,
I'd take Angela who does my pedicures. Don't tell Fireboy I said that.
I just had a pedicure today. I'm currently into denim colored nails with a sparkle finish.
When I'm in The Villages, the best nail spa I've found is Angela's Nails on CR 466
(across CR 101 from Southern Trace Plaza). 352-350-2932. Everyone who works there is good.
They give a blissful leg massage followed by hot towels.
It's very quiet and peaceful there.

[jojo]

I was taken by a friend to Brownwood to Nail Saloon, Brownwood Town Square, Keissel Road 352-391-9391.

As I said in my earlier post, I have never been into a Nail salon before so this was a new and very good experience. I really do have a toe nail that had a terrible fungus infection for many years and when it grew out it was deformed and miserable to try to cut. My friend uses Ivy to do her nails and Kim did mine. I would suggest you take your mother to Ivy, she was very gentle and soft spoken. Kim was great, but very efficient and fast paced.

I would add that I was amazed at how very careful they were with hygiene. They used a new set of tools for every client. I think your Mother would be very happy with them.

Thanks Madelaine. We will try this.

[Madelaine Amee]

Madelaine, I also love pedicures.
If I were shipwrecked on an abandoned island and could take only one person with me,
I'd take Angela who does my pedicures. Don't tell Fireboy I said that.
I just had a pedicure today. I'm currently into denim colored nails with a sparkle finish.
When I'm in The Villages, the best nail spa I've found is Angela's Nails on CR 466
(across CR 101 from Southern Trace Plaza). 352-350-2932. Everyone who works there is good.
They give a blissful leg massage followed by hot towels.
It's very quiet and peaceful there.

Thanks for the information and that would be a much better location for me because I am closer to that area. I was always hesitant about going to just any old salon because of this ugly toe nail. I imagined someone would be throwing me out of their salon!

Hmm denim colored toe nails .......... sounds really pretty, I was in Wally World recently and the young and very beautiful cashier had Yellow nails and against her dark skin they were striking. Unfortunately, in my case, I think the other half would go into shock if I turned up with out of the ordinary colored nails. For my finger nails I use Essie nail polish, I get them in Target, and this is by far the best nail polish I have ever used and their colors are just scrumptious. Also, while I am on the subject, has anyone else found the wonderful nail remover pads in the little box that Publix carries now? They come six to a box for $1.99, but they are really super, each little square is just loaded with remover and I can do all ten toe nails and finger nails and then the little pad just miraculously dries out and is done. So much easier than messing with bottles of remover and cotton.

ALSO, yesterday I found and purchased a Gold Bond moisturizer for diabetics. Thankfully I am not diabetic, but I do have very dry feet. It costs about $10 and is the best cream I have tried so far. If anyone has very dry and cracked feet or elbows try this stuff, it is really good.

[netbum]

Hi Ladies!

I've been lurking on these boards for several years now, but this is my first time to post. I actually retired in Florida almost five years ago, but got homesick and moved back to IL to be near family. Now that the reality of a few frozen winters has set in, I'm considering a move back to Florida, (at least part of the year), and I just love the community based feeling I get from reading about TV.

My question is, I am a single woman, (and LOVE it that way!), and I'm wondering how I would fit in there. Do you have many other singles there?

Thanks in advance for all your kind input!

Debbie

[Madelaine Amee]

Hi Ladies!

I've been lurking on these boards for several years now, but this is my first time to post. I actually retired in Florida almost five years ago, but got homesick and moved back to IL to be near family. Now that the reality of a few frozen winters has set in, I'm considering a move back to Florida, (at least part of the year), and I just love the community based feeling I get from reading about TV.

My question is, I am a single woman, (and LOVE it that way!), and I'm wondering how I would fit in there. Do you have many other singles there? Thanks in advance for all your kind input! Debbie

Hi NetBum and welcome. I am not a single woman, sometimes I think I am, but no I am married. However, there is a huge singles group here and they seem to have a wonderful time. Look on this board for posts from ChaChaCha and also Cathy1, infact chacha posted just this morning about a new dance and Cathy1 also posted. So if you search this board you will find people you could ask and who could tell you exactly what goes on in the TV singles world.

I know just a little about the singles due to my very best friend being widowed a year or so ago and she needed help adjusting.

[Barefoot]

ALSO, yesterday I found and purchased a Gold Bond moisturizer for diabetics. Thankfully I am not diabetic, but I do have very dry feet. It costs about $10 and is the best cream I have tried so far. If anyone has very dry and cracked feet or elbows try this stuff, it is really good.
Thanks for the suggestion. I always like to try stuff other people have recommended.
I still use Paula's Choice daily - tinted moisturer with SPF that was suggested by Wandatime on this thread.


My question is, I am a single woman, (and LOVE it that way!), and I'm wondering how I would fit in there. Do you have many other singles there? I suggest you send a PM to ChaChaCha. She is a warm and welcoming single.

[swhite381@comcast.net]

Thanks for having girl talk. I miss my talks with girl friends back in Jax. I am looking for a small church where the congregation accepts casual dress and the sermons are uplifting but not judgmental. I am by myself and want to make friends. Thanks!

[Barefoot]

Thanks for having girl talk. I miss my talks with girl friends back in Jax. I am looking for a small church where the congregation accepts casual dress and the sermons are uplifting but not judgmental. I am by myself and want to make friends. Thanks!
:welcome:
I don't know much about churches in The Villages.
When I go to church, I go to Unity on 441 or New Covenant on CR 101.
Do you know about the Search button (above)? You can do a search on churches to see previous recommendations.
Chachacha is the "go to girl" for singles stuff.
I see you've been a TOTV member since 2014. I'm glad you've started posting.
Please feel free to ask any questions or bring up any topics here on Girl Talk.

[CFrance]

Thanks for having girl talk. I miss my talks with girl friends back in Jax. I am looking for a small church where the congregation accepts casual dress and the sermons are uplifting but not judgmental. I am by myself and want to make friends. Thanks!
Give First Presbyterian in Wildwood a try. Right off of 466Aby 301. They have a web site.

[Boomer]

I am hoping someone can tell me what I am doing wrong.....

I am so aggravated at having brand new black pants turn a noncommittal shade of charcoal gray after just two or three washings.

The pants are cotton, mostly capris. Some of them from L. L. Bean and Lands End.

I wash them in cold water. I turn them inside-out. I use Woolite. Sometimes I use Cheer. Both of those promise to guard my colors. But that is not happening.

I am spending my life-savings replacing capris because the ones in my closet look like 50 shades of charcoal.

Any laundry tips that can put me back in black?


I know. I know it is excruciatingly tacky to quote oneself, as I am doing above by citing p. 252, post 2511, here in "Girl Talk." But it has been a long time since our October discussion of how to keep our black pants black.

Thank you for all the good suggestions following my question when I originally asked. -- I thought I would pick up again here and tell you what I am doing that seems to be helping...........

I am still using Woolite or Cheer and turning the pants inside-out but NOW all I use is the delicate cycle and I have been adding a tiny bit of Downy to the wash cycle itself. Just putting it directly into the water. Not a lot though.......

This is based on the theory that clothes can kind of beat each other up while sloshing around together in the washer and the use of only the delicate cycle plus the touch of Downy might be making the clothes take it a little easier on each other and keep their color longer.

The old linen capris always get to go to the cleaners. But I admit that while they are gone, I fret a bit over the possibility of a dry cleaner using too much heat when pressing black linen and giving me back shiny pants.

I recently bought a couple of pairs of sort of dressy capris from Talbots, but so far they are just hanging in the closet waiting to go somewhere........Well, they did get to go to be hemmed so I will not look like I am wearing the dreaded highwater pants.....

which brings up that other issue of where do proper length capris stop? ...... Yeah. I know. Just above where the skinniest part of the leg starts???

[elainecohen]

Does anyone know where Thomas formerly at Solar Nails in Pinellas has gone? Heard he is somewhere around the Villages but do not know where, and, of course, they will not tell you.

[Barefoot]

I know. I know it is excruciatingly tacky to quote oneself, as I am doing above by citing p. 252, post 2511, here in "Girl Talk."
I didn't know it was excruciatingly tacky to quote oneself. :shocked: Seriously, thanks for the lesson on Internet protocols.
I've never even tweeted.

Didn't someone suggest washing black pants with pepper? Have you tried that?

I can tell you what not to do. Do not wash your black pants with any color of towels, even dark.
Obviously I've never attended Laundry 101.
You will spend at least a week picking off lint. Your black pants will never recover.

[Boomer]

I didn't know it was excruciatingly tacky to quote oneself. :shocked: Seriously, thanks for the lesson on Internet protocols.
I've never even tweeted.

Didn't someone suggest washing black pants with pepper? Have you tried that?

I can tell you what not to do. Do not wash your black pants with any color of towels, even dark.
Obviously I've never attended Laundry 101.
You will spend at least a week picking off lint. Your black pants will never recover.

Actually, Barefoot, I was told that only one time and it was many, many years ago on TOTV -- which is still the only place I ever post. I have never read it anywhere else. For some reason, it stuck with me. -- But, like I said, that was long ago. I still quote myself from time to time, anyway.

I never have tweeted either, would not know where to begin.

And, I am not on Facebook -- for that one, I get chastised on a regular basis. I probably need to set up Facebook sometime.

And, although I have had an iPad for so long that this one is my second one, I still do not know how to link on the iPad.

So please do not pay any attention to what I said about quoting oneself. I read it here 9 years ago. EEK! 9 years around here. (Blush) (Blush) EEK! (I really must learn about this Facebook thing I keep hearing about.)

About your pants washed with the towels........uh oh, not only the lint but I bet the towels were abrasive to the pants while they were sloshing around together.

Also, while I am here, I might as well throw in that I finally finished watching Grace and Frankie.

Boomer

[Barefoot]

Also, while I am here, I might as well throw in that I finally finished watching Grace and Frankie.

Boomer, I think you would also like the series called Rita on Netflix.
Rita has subtitles, but you don't even notice them after you get involved.

I am on Facebook but I rarely post any information.
Facebook scares me ever since the night I got a threat from some guy late at night.
I assume he "drunk dialed" me by mistake. But still. :shocked:

[mysunshine1948]

Hi! I am rather new here and single. What can anyone tell me about the Singles's groups? I have looked them up online, but are any of you involved in any? I would like to do some fun activities. I go to my Village functions, but they all seem to be couples.
Also, someone wrote about a dance? ???? When, where?

I was a a Rec. center one Saturday night and there was a dance going on. I asked about it and was told it was "Saturday Night Dance Club". I find nothing about that name anywhere. Can anyone help with information? Thank you!

[Madelaine Amee]

Hi! I am rather new here and single. What can anyone tell me about the Singles's groups? I have looked them up online, but are any of you involved in any? I would like to do some fun activities. I go to my Village functions, but they all seem to be couples.
Also, someone wrote about a dance? ???? When, where?

I was a a Rec. center one Saturday night and there was a dance going on. I asked about it and was told it was "Saturday Night Dance Club". I find nothing about that name anywhere. Can anyone help with information? Thank you!

I would suggest you search for Chachacha and Kathy1, they seem to know the singles scene and Kathy1 is the dancer. Go to the top of this page and pull down Community and at the bottom of the list is Members. I believe you will find their contact information there.

My neighbor is a single and she is NEVER home! She's having way more fun than I am!

[Barefoot]

Hi, I am fairly new here and am wondering what the single's clubs are like. I would just like to meet some other single people. My neighborhood is all couples. Also, while at Eisenhower Rec. Center a couple of weeks ago on a Saturday night, there was a dance going on. The lady at the desk said it was Saturday Night Dance Club. But, I have not found anything with that name anywhere. Anyone know about that? Thank you!

I suggest you send a private message to Chachacha. She is very hospitable and knows about all singles activities!

Hi! I am rather new here and single. What can anyone tell me about the Singles's groups? I have looked them up online, but are any of you involved in any? I would like to do some fun activities. I go to my Village functions, but they all seem to be couples.
Also, someone wrote about a dance? ???? When, where?

I was a a Rec. center one Saturday night and there was a dance going on. I asked about it and was told it was "Saturday Night Dance Club". I find nothing about that name anywhere. Can anyone help with information? Thank you!

On April 24, I suggested that you send a PM to chachacha.
Were you able to reach her?
I'm sure she would be willing and able to answer all your questions; she is very friendly.

[sharonga]

Ladies, perhaps some of you may be interested in a group I started. We get together once a month for lunch and to meet new friends. We are called The Womans Do Nothing group mainly because that's what we do!!!!! We meet at The Waterfront Inn. Next month will be on September 2, 2016. You do not have to live in The Villages. No dues. You just pay for your own lunch. We have married woman, single woman, widows, and anyone else who wishes to have a good laugh!!!! Looking forward to hearing from you. Sharon

[Barefoot]

Ladies, perhaps some of you may be interested in a group I started. We get together once a month for lunch and to meet new friends. We are called The Womans Do Nothing group mainly because that's what we do!!!!! We meet at The Waterfront Inn. Next month will be on September 2, 2016. You do not have to live in The Villages. No dues. You just pay for your own lunch. We have married woman, single woman, widows, and anyone else who wishes to have a good laugh!!!! Looking forward to hearing from you. Sharon
Sounds like fun! Who doesn't want to have a good laugh?
I'm up north until November. Do you have a November date planned yet?

[Kaffeb2]

Has anyone watched Longmire on Netflix? Normally, not my kind of show - about a sheriff in Wyoming, but after watching a few episodes, got hooked. More favorites are the Masterpiece series Endeavor, Midsomer Murders, Sherlock Holmes, Downton Abby (of course). A very touching movie I came across was Like Sunday, Like Rain. About a young woman in New York who is hired to be an Au Pair for a young prodigy. Very emotional toward the end.

[ssmith]

To Kaffeb2 another Masterpiece great series is Cal the Midwife....but you really should start it from the beginning because you grow with the characters.

[Barefoot]

To Kaffeb2 another Masterpiece great series is Cal the Midwife....but you really should start it from the beginning because you grow with the characters.
Is Cal The Midwife on Netflix?

My girlfriend suggested I watch a Netflix show called Rita.
Even tho it's weird, a little raunchy, and has subtitles, I got hooked!

I'm definitely watching Like Sunday, Like Rain. Thanks for the suggestion.

[Kaffeb2]

I missed that one, but will definitely check it out. Thx.

[Happygal7]

Thanks, everyone, for the Netflix recommendations. I am watching Lost right now. I was never interested in it when it was on tv. Now, though, I am hooked.

[Karen Seale]

Does any one know of a great cleaning person? I need someone I can trust and that does a very great job. KS

[Kaffeb2]

I am also disappointed with Coldwater Creek. When they first opened their store here (Madison, AL) they had the most beautiful holiday clothing ever. I think what I liked about them was their uniqueness and classic looks. Went there on a regular basis, but over the last two or three years, their clothes look like all he others that you can get at any store. They eventually closed their store.

If you like the travel line at Chico's, have you checked out the Travel Smith clothes? I get a couple of catalogs that I really like - Soft Surroundings and Norm Thompson. Are jog suits popular there in the winter?

[Kaffeb2]

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Uptown Girl, I went here to see about Duri Rejuvacote, and there are many different varieties. Amazon.com: duri nail rejuvacote (http://tinyurl.com/kyp5dpy)

Can you tell me what to use?
Thanks!

In addition to a nail growth product, you can use a good cuticle oil. Put it on every night before you go to bed, preferably after you facial routine while your hands are still hydrated from the water. I believe you will see a big difference because it feeds your nail at the base where it is formed.

[Barefoot]

Does any one know of a great cleaning person? I need someone I can trust and that does a very great job.
I can give you the name of my cleaning lady. She is trustworthy and I like her. But I wouldn't say she does a "very great job." I think she does an adequate job, but I'm not picky. I feel lucky to have her.

....... you can use a good cuticle oil. I believe you will see a big difference because it feeds your nail at the base where it is formed.
It works great for me. But CFrance says it does't work for her.

[Barefoot]

Wen hair products have been discussed on Girl Talk.
Interesting article.

http://www.nytimes.com/2016/08/16/us/politics/cosmetics-industry-congress-regulation-wen.html?emc=edit_li_20160818&nl=nytliving&nlid=46573270&ref=headline

[Barefoot]

Three excellent new books that I've recently read :read: (from the Library).

"The Good House" by Ann Leary -
A story about a successful real estate broker living in a small town and struggling with addiction.

"We Never Asked for Wings" by Vanessa Diffenbaugh" -
Not the main plot, but this story gave me a new perspective on undocumented immigration.

"The Girls", by Lori Lansens -
A fascinating story about conjoined twins.
It's a work of fiction but it reads like a unique autobiography written by the twins,
two very unique, very distinct people.
I couldn't put this book down!

[Madelaine Amee]

Thanks Bare for opening this discussion of books.....

We were in a rental cottage at a Cape Cod beach a week or so ago, and there were several "chick interest" books and I picked up one just for something to do one day. It was the story of "Me Before You" and I had not seen the movie so I was entranced with the story, so much so that I bought the sequel to it, "After You" ....... author Jojo Moyes. Absolutely could not put it down, and I guess she is going to write the third and make it a trilogy. Now I have to read the rest of her books!

I also read Joan Anderson's "An Unfinished Marriage", absolutely loved it, so relevant to mature women who have been married for many years and have those nagging doubts about there being more to life than ..... you get the idea.

I usually read mysteries, but these books held a certain fascination for me and I want to read more.

[De Lis]

I realize that this is an old question, but all of the threads are dated and people change salons. So, does anyone know of a really good hairstyle? I looking for someone specifically who cuts precision hairstyles, as in no layering. Thanks so much for your help!

[De Lis]

Sorry, so many mistakes!! 1) I would like a hairstylist 2) I'm looking for someone :>)

[CFrance]

Sorry, so many mistakes!! 1) I would like a hairstylist 2) I'm looking for someone :>)

The owner of Urban Hair Studio on 466, Samanta. She is a master hair stylist, does excellent work. There are some pictures here: urban hair studio - Google Search (https://www.google.com/maps/uv?hl=en&pb=!1s0x88e7c4b5f5875a6f%3A0xc0d17fbda4bb8e93!2m5! 2m2!1i80!2i80!3m1!2i20!3m1!7e115!4shttps%3A%2F%2Fp icasaweb.google.com%2Flh%2Fsredir%3Funame%3D114779 559125594669598%26id%3D6309532313395591634%26targe t%3DPHOTO!5surban%20hair%20studio%20-%20Google%20Search&imagekey=!1e3!2s-_2rxkZUY4Oc%2FV6pDmCAfLmI%2FAAAAAAAAAOE%2Fz35Fz_ml K-osP2vpScajSD7C-ZYb0OEtgCLIB&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjM2bveweHOAhXGmx4KHceMAMgQoioIezAK)

[De Lis]

Thank you so much, CFrance, appreciate the help. The pictures / examples are just what I am looking for!

[Madelaine Amee]

Ladies, need your input. I would like to have a facial. I have searched the local area and see that we have a good choice of spas. Would anyone care to recommend one that they feel does a really good job for mature skin?

I have looked at Tuscany, but their prices are way and far above all the other Spa's, so I have ruled them out.

Any others? Has anyone tried Ulta - their prices are probably the best I have found, but would you recommend them? I am interested in The Salt Room, has anyone used them?

[JSR22]

Merle Norman in Colony Plaza offers a number of different facials.

[Barefoot]

....It was the story of "Me Before You" and I had not seen the movie so I was entranced with the story, so much so that I bought the sequel to it, "After You" ....... author Jojo Moyes. Absolutely could not put it down, and I guess she is going to write the third and make it a trilogy. Now I have to read the rest of her books.
I was told by a friend to read "Me Before You" and I liked the book. I didn't know there was a sequel, thanks for that info. I usually don't enjoy movies if I've read the book first. Perhaps because they leave out details, not sure.

I just read two books by S.J. Watson, "Second Life" and "Before I Sleep". I wouldn't call them chick lit, but I loved both books. Easy reads, but VERY suspenseful. I didn't even guess the ending until the last few pages.
The owner of Urban Hair Studio on 466, Samanta. She is a master hair stylist, does excellent work.

Samantha is a good hair cutter. Word of warning -- she sometimes runs behind so there may be a wait.

Has anyone tried Ulta - their prices are probably the best I have found, but would you recommend them? I am interested in The Salt Room, has anyone used them?
I've always been intrigued by The Salt Room. I think they also offer massages. Please let us know if you use them.

[Madelaine Amee]

On the subject of books, has anyone read Joan Anderson's books, they are all based on being married for many years and whether or not you should give in and have a mid-life crisis?

I started with "A Year by the Sea", followed that with "An Unfinished Marriage" (which I thought was excellent), then I read "A Walk on the Beach" (just OK) and I am now reading The Second Journey - The Road back to Yourself". These are books written specifically for middle aged women.

[Barefoot]

On the subject of books, has anyone read Joan Anderson's books, they are all based on being married for many years and whether or not you should give in and have a mid-life crisis?
I started with "A Year by the Sea", followed that with "An Unfinished Marriage" (which I thought was excellent), then I read "A Walk on the Beach" (just OK) and I am now reading The Second Journey - The Road back to Yourself". These are books written specifically for middle aged women.
I have read "A Year By the Sea" and "An Unfinished Marriage".
It's too late for me to have a mid-life crisis - that ship sailed for me years ago.
And yes, I had a series of mid-life crises back in the day. I'm so glad that time of confusion is over.
The lesson I learned "The grass is not necessarily greener on the other side of the fence". :jester:

[Madelaine Amee]

I have read "A Year By the Sea" and "An Unfinished Marriage".
It's too late for me to have a mid-life crisis - that ship sailed for me years ago.
And yes, I had a series of mid-life crises back in the day. I'm so glad that time of confusion is over.
The lesson I learned "The grass is not necessarily greener on the other side of the fence". :jester:

Bare: I just finished Joan Anderson's "A Second Journey", as far as I was concerned it was a journey she should not have bothered to take. The only one I really enjoyed was An Unfinished Marriage, after that it was all down hill!

Mid-Life Crises ........... never had time for that:laugh:. I was working more hours than I should have been, with a husband who was traveling all over the world on business so when he got home it was like a "honeymoon" and then he was off again leaving me with the two children, two homes, a dog and a job - phew!

Today, Sept 21, 2016 - S.J. Watson, "Second Life" and "Before I Sleep"

On your recommendation, I just got these two books at the library. Could not put down "before I sleep", really really creepy. It reminded me a little of a Julia Robert's movie I saw sometime ago called Sleeping With the Enemy, it kept me on the edge of my seat for the whole movie. Now I cannot wait to read your other book by Watson called Second Life.

[Jakesmom208]

Ladies, suggestions on adjusting to moving away from friends and family? We are in OO (TV family community) just my husband and I, we are in late 40's, no kids at home and both retired.

[Jakesmom208]

Ladies, perhaps some of you may be interested in a group I started. We get together once a month for lunch and to meet new friends. We are called The Womans Do Nothing group mainly because that's what we do!!!!! We meet at The Waterfront Inn. Next month will be on September 2, 2016. You do not have to live in The Villages. No dues. You just pay for your own lunch. We have married woman, single woman, widows, and anyone else who wishes to have a good laugh!!!! Looking forward to hearing from you. Sharon

Hi Sharon, can you tell me when the next meeting is? We moved from Michigan in July and feeling pretty lonely leaving friends and family back home. Also, is your group a pretty good mix of ages? Thanks so much!

[ronsroni]

BF..No nod to Elsa, but, 'LET IT GO'!!! I had my gal color with ash blonde and two cuts later, I was $150 heavier in my pockets and happy as a worm in an apple. Allowing it to be 'cut-in' really made it easier.
Honestly, BF, JUST OWN IT! You know you are an own-it kinda gal. Gonna be smashing and one-of-a-kind.
You can't improve on perfection; Nomesayin?

[Barefoot]

We moved from Michigan in July and feeling pretty lonely leaving friends and family back home.
Jakesmom, what Village do you live in? Do you golf?

[Fraugoofy]

Ladies, suggestions on adjusting to moving away from friends and family? We are in OO (TV family community) just my husband and I, we are in late 40's, no kids at home and both retired.
Try to find some activities here in TV that u really enjoy and u will be able to find some nice friends here, too. I do think it is somewhat more difficult to connect because I am asked at leat 3 times a day if I am old enough to live here. I just smile and say YES and sometimes that leads to a nice conversation. Peace out...

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[Madelaine Amee]

Ladies, suggestions on adjusting to moving away from friends and family? We are in OO (TV family community) just my husband and I, we are in late 40's, no kids at home and both retired.

In my humble opinion, it is very difficult to move here and leave your family and friends behind and, in our case, it took us a long time to get used to being "on our own" and we were considerably older than you when we did it.

If I may - I would suggest you search through the Rec News every week and go through the clubs to see if there is anything of interest for either one of you. I do not have a list, but there is a full list of clubs here that I am sure one of the ladies on this board could give you. Also, you might find something in the catalog put out by The Villages Lifelong Learning College, you could pick one up at the regional rec centers.

What about volunteering? The Sun has several pages of volunteer opportunities every week. I have no idea what your professions were, but you might be of great use to one of the local schools.

You are probably used to a very structured life and you may just need to find something to kill some time in your day until you learn how to live in TV.

I wish you well - I went through something very similar when my other half was transferred overseas for several years and I had to leave a job I loved, family, friends and a neighborhood where everyone knew me. It is not easy.

[Barefoot]

Honestly, BF, JUST OWN IT! I am now owning my "salt and pepper" hair, but I find I need new clothes.
I haven't heard anyone else mention this, maybe it's my imagination.
I find my vibrant red and orange duds no longer work for me. I guess I need softer colors. Sigh.

[Boomer]

Good morning, Girl Talk,

I have been watching The Crown on Netflix. It is wonderful -- well......maybe not Downton Abbey wonderful, but, hey, what is.

John Lithgow plays Churchill. He is one of my favorite actors. Every now and then, I just have to watch a few episodes of 3rd Rock from the Sun because I think he is hilarious in that role. His Churchill, of course, is not hilarious. But fascinating. He is not as old as he looks as Churchill. Good transformation. Lithgow is an amazing actor. What a range.

[Barefoot]

Good morning, Girl Talk,

I have been watching The Crown on Netflix. It is wonderful -- well......maybe not Downton Abbey wonderful, but, hey, what is.

John Lithgow plays Churchill. He is one of my favorite actors. Every now and then, I just have to watch a few episodes of 3rd Rock from the Sun because I think he is hilarious in that role. His Churchill, of course, is not hilarious. But fascinating. He is not as old as he looks as Churchill. Good transformation. Lithgow is an amazing actor. What a range.

Thanks for the recommendation. I'll put "The Crown" on my watch list.

[Boomer]

Thanks for the recommendation. I'll put "The Crown" on my watch list.

You are welcome, Barefoot. I just finished the last episode. I think it is supposed to be a continuing series. I hope so.

Elizabeth was so young at her coronation. The first season of The Crown ends in the mid 1950s so there is (obviously) still much to tell.

The life of her uncle after he abdicated to marry Wallis Simpson is there, along with the backstory of Princess Margaret and Peter Townsend. I never knew about the impossible situation her sister's great love affair put Queen Elizabeth in. -- 'twas a big, sad mess.

I guess it's not easy being Queen.

[Barefoot]

Has anyone ever used an at-home laser hair removal system?
Please PM me if you don't want to reply online.

Some of the laser systems on Amazon have very favorable ratings.
Still, I find it's a scary idea to use laser beams at home.
That's probably an old fashioned idea though, like being afraid of microwaves and cell phones.

[LittleLatinaWife]

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[Fraugoofy]

I would like the mods to remove this thread as the title is politically incorrect.

Just kidding MERRY CHRISTMAS.

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You've looked at your own screen name, right? Lol. Merry Christmas!!

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[Boomer]

I would like the mods to remove this thread as the title is politically incorrect.

Just kidding MERRY CHRISTMAS.

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You've looked at your own screen name, right? Lol. Merry Christmas!!

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Luv it, Frau, :)

And it's OK, LLW, I think you're kidding......I think. :)

History Lesson: Barefoot started this thread long ago when TOTV was a whole lot more fun. I was among the pioneer women here in "Girl Talk" and believe you me, this ol' Boomer gets the irony of the name and luvs it, too. We are a confident bunch and perfectly comfortable with irony.

It's been a long time, huh, Girls.

Thank you, Barefoot. (btw, my hair is still not gray)

Boomer

[PR1234]

Has anyone ever used an at-home laser hair removal system?
Please PM me if you don't want to reply online.

Some of the laser systems on Amazon have very favorable ratings.
Still, I find it's a scary idea to use laser beams at home.
That's probably an old fashioned idea though, like being afraid of microwaves and cell phones.

Sorry don't know about any 'in-home' lasers, but would LOVE to find some place that does Laser Hair Removal in TV. I've posted, but no one ever responds!

[Boomer]

Last night I watched Florence Foster Jenkins starring Meryl Streep and Hugh Grant. Simon Helberg, better known as Howard Wolowitz in Big Bang Theory, has a big role and is quite good -- holds his own alongside those two big movie stars.

It's an interesting movie, based on a true story. A sadly sweet movie. A sweetly sad movie.

I did not think I was going to like the movie much but I did. A lot.

[Barefoot]

Last night I watched Florence Foster Jenkins starring Meryl Streep and Hugh Grant. Simon Helberg, better known as Howard Wolowitz in Big Bang Theory, has a big role and is quite good -- holds his own alongside those two big movie stars. It's an interesting movie, based on a true story. A sadly sweet movie. A sweetly sad movie. I did not think I was going to like the movie much but I did. A lot.

Boomer, where did you watch Florence Foster Jenkins? Meryl Streep and Hugh Grant are two of my favorite actors.

By the way, I keep seeing on other threads that you're considering selling. Please tell me you're not leaving The Villages.

[Boomer]

Boomer, where did you watch Florence Foster Jenkins? Meryl Streep and Hugh Grant are two of my favorite actors.

By the way, I keep seeing on other threads that you're considering selling. Please tell me you're not leaving The Villages.

Hi Barefoot,

I watched Florence on cable.

Yeah. I know. I have been dropping breadcrumbs around here as I work this thing through. Thought about it last year, but it is always so nice to be there and I really like our house and neighbors and location. But.........it's the "being there" part that is becoming less and less -- due to our northern life. Sometimes I just want to be a (gasp) renter.

Still north. Will see what happens. :)

[Boomer]

Hi again,

Here's another Meryl Streep movie for you......Ricki and the Flash. In this one she plays an aging rocker who had left her kids behind in Indianapolis to chase her dream. Her kids grow up. She comes back into their lives. The story is pretty predictable, but I liked it.

I had to check the iPad to see if she was doing her own singing and, of course, she was.

Having watched two Meryl Streep movies on cable this weekend reminded me of how gifted she truly is. Florence and Ricki were very different kinds of women.........but they both sure did love their music.

It has been such an exciting weekend for me. Got one of those stupid colds that makes me feel like my head is a concrete block. Had to turn down an invitation to have an actual social life so I could lie around, wearing mismatched flannel, eating popsicles, and watching cable. But, at least, I liked the movies.

What I probably need now is a recipe for a hot toddy.

[CFrance]

Hi again,

Here's another Meryl Streep movie for you......Ricki and the Flash. In this one she plays an aging rocker who had left her kids behind in Indianapolis to chase her dream. Her kids grow up. She comes back into their lives. The story is pretty predictable, but I liked it.

I had to check the iPad to see if she was doing her own singing and, of course, she was.

Having watched two Meryl Streep movies on cable this weekend reminded me of how gifted she truly is. Florence and Ricki were very different kinds of women.........but they both sure did love their music.

It has been such an exciting weekend for me. Got one of those stupid colds that makes me feel like my head is a concrete block. Had to turn down an invitation to have an actual social life so I could lie around, wearing mismatched flannel, eating popsicles, and watching cable. But, at least, I liked the movies.

What I probably need now is a recipe for a hot toddy.
I watched Ricki and the Flash on a plane ride. She sure is good. Somehow I knew she did her own singing, with a lot of coaching. They were going to dub her, but he said no. She put in the work. An amazing talent.

[Boomer]

In another thread this morning, I wrote an agreeing and commiserating rant about people who have bad manners. These clods are inflicting themselves on others, more and more, and everywhere. I try not to rant. But sometimes I just have to.

Anyway, I almost deleted what I wrote because......why bother.......but I decided instead to come over here to "Girl Talk" to recommend a book on the topic of my rant.......

The book is Rude B**ches Make Me Tired: slightly profane and entirely logical answers to modern etiquette dilemmas by Celia Rivenbark. (The title says it all.)

Celia Rivenbark is a southern writer with a bit of a mouth on her and an insightful attitude......I like her. I am just aggravated because she writes stuff I think but I did not write a book. Dammit. Oh well, anyway........One of her other books is Stop Dressing Your Six-Year Old Like A Skank. (I have not read that one yet.)

Rivenbark says things that need to be said. Sometimes her writing makes me laugh out loud.

Boomer

[VICAR OF DIBLEY]

Wanted to share an experience I had with Rosalie, seamstress -

I am sorry to say that my dealings with Rosalie were not positive.
I have spoken with the police about what occurred and they said I was to trusting. I did not get a receipt from her, nor did I make a notation on my check what the amount was for.

I gave her size 16 silk lined Talbot slacks. She gave me back size 18 slacks, that were of a brand I never heard of.

I am now in the process of handling this matter through other means.

[Madelaine Amee]

In another thread this morning, I wrote an agreeing and commiserating rant about people who have bad manners. These clods are inflicting themselves on others, more and more, and everywhere. I try not to rant. But sometimes I just have to.

Anyway, I almost deleted what I wrote because......why bother.......but I decided instead to come over here to "Girl Talk" to recommend a book on the topic of my rant.......

The book is Rude B**ches Make Me Tired: slightly profane and entirely logical answers to modern etiquette dilemmas by Celia Rivenbark. (The title says it all.)

Celia Rivenbark is a southern writer with a bit of a mouth on her and an insightful attitude......I like her. I am just aggravated because she writes stuff I think but I did not write a book. Dammit. Oh well, anyway........One of her other books is Stop Dressing Your Six-Year Old Like A Skank. (I have not read that one yet.)

Rivenbark says things that need to be said. Sometimes her writing makes me laugh out loud.

Boomer

Boomer, want to thank you for your reading recommendations. Maybe it would be a good idea to have a book suggestions area on TOTV, although there probably is one and I just have not looked for it:o.

I am constantly amazed at the sheer rudeness of people, both men and women here in TV. Today I got the finger salute because a woman in a golf cart thought she should have been where I was in my great big car (hey lady, don't mess with a big old car while you are in a plastic cadillac especially when you are in the wrong). Last night I was getting some cold cuts in Publix when a woman came up with a picture in a magazine and told the deli person that is what she wanted. Truthfully, the whole counter stopped dead and everyone looked to see just what was going on! Last week, in Dr. River's waiting room, I got up to open the door for a lady in a wheelchair when a man pushed his way in from outside and almost fell over her! And I could go on and on, but what is the use.

It bothers me though that civility is taking a back seat to decency.

[CFrance]

Wanted to share an experience I had with Rosalie, seamstress -

I am sorry to say that my dealings with Rosalie were not positive.
I have spoken with the police about what occurred and they said I was to trusting. I did not get a receipt from her, nor did I make a notation on my check what the amount was for.

I gave her size 16 silk lined Talbot slacks. She gave me back size 18 slacks, that were of a brand I never heard of.

I am now in the process of handling this matter through other means.
I once had an issue with a seamstress (not in TV). I dropped off a pair of slacks to be shortened, and a skirt to be lengthened. You can guess... she did the opposite. My problem was that a) I did not write down the instructions and keep a copy, and b) I did not inspect the clothing before taking the clothes home. The woman just denied doing anything wrong, and I was out the cost of the alterations. Not to mention being left with a mini skirt and no way to fix that. With two little kids and no proof, was not going to take her to small claims court over a somewhat insignificant amount of $ in their eyes.

But lesson learned.

[Barefoot]

The book is Rude B**ches Make Me Tired: slightly profane and entirely logical answers to modern etiquette dilemmas by Celia Rivenbark. She says things that need to be said. Sometimes her writing makes me laugh out loud.
I'll put that book on my "must read" list.
Wanted to share an experience I had with Rosalie, seamstress. I am sorry to say that my dealings with Rosalie were not positive.
I have spoken with the police about what occurred and they said I was to trusting. I did not get a receipt from her, nor did I make a notation on my check what the amount was for.
I gave her size 16 silk lined Talbot slacks. She gave me back size 18 slacks, that were of a brand I never heard of.
I am now in the process of handling this matter through other means.
It's hard to understand how such a mistake could happen.
I bet the woman who got slacks that were too small was equally upset.

Here's another Meryl Streep movie for you......Ricki and the Flash. In this one she plays an aging rocker who had left her kids behind in Indianapolis to chase her dream. Her kids grow up. She comes back into their lives. The story is pretty predictable, but I liked it. I had to check the iPad to see if she was doing her own singing and, of course, she was.
I think Meryl Streep is the BEST actor in movies, she is so talented and can play any role convincingly.

[Boomer]

This Is Us -- Tuesdays, on NBC........

-- Definitely Binge Worthy. (if you're not there already)

-- Well defined characters who make us want to keep tuning in to see how they are doing.

-- And the two "old" guys (the characters, Dr. Katowski and William Hill) are scripted to give the best advice, wise and wonderful.

-- The show might make you cry sometimes........but that's OK.

-- I recently heard about it from a friend, found it "On Demand" and now I am all caught up and set to record tonight.

[lrhorer]

Call Wella to see where they sell in the area

[Barefoot]

We are currently living in a rental home for a few months while our house is being renovated.
My scalp is itchy all the time, and I've never experienced anything similar in ten years in Florida.
I'm wondering if anyone has experienced this, and what they did to fix it.

[Barefoot]

Boomer, have you decided if you're selling your house?

[CFrance]

We are currently living in a rental home for a few months while our house is being renovated.
My scalp is itchy all the time, and I've never experienced anything similar in ten years in Florida.
I'm wondering if anyone has experienced this, and what they did to fix it.
You have any argan oil left? You could massage that into your scalp. Or call Samantha and ask her.

[Barefoot]

You have any argan oil left? You could massage that into your scalp.
I thought you were going to say I had cooties.
I think it's probably a lack of humidity. Argon oil might work.

[Fraugoofy]

We are currently living in a rental home for a few months while our house is being renovated.
My scalp is itchy all the time, and I've never experienced anything similar in ten years in Florida.
I'm wondering if anyone has experienced this, and what they did to fix it.
Is your scalp only itchy since you moved into your rental? Cat allergy? Mold in the home? T-gel shampoo and conditioner works wonders..

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[Uptown Girl]

Your scalp is in an uproar- To help ease the scalp, first make sure your shampoo is sulfite/sulfate free. Water the shampoo down a little before using. (use a bottled water bottle w/ some water left in it- to gently shake w/shampoo before applying) Suds your head only once,
rinse well. If applying conditioner afterwards, apply only to the hair ends- avoid the scalp for now. Rinse well.

To temporarily return your scalp to the natural acid mantle it is, to it's proper PH, you can use a final rinse of vinegar/water. Pour it on, leave it in. Start with a weak solution, so as not to feel a burn, if scalp is very irritated.
Do not use any other leave-in hair products for now, until your scalp is back to normal.

Take your vitamins to help the body heal from within.
:)

[Barefoot]

Is your scalp only itchy since you moved into your rental?
Yes, exactly, that's why I find it strange, only since we moved into the rental in January. I don't think it's allergies because the whole house is tiled. I've actually been very stressed lately - we are in a rental for three or four months because of a fire at our house, so perhaps that's a big part of the problem.

Your scalp is in an uproar- To help ease the scalp, first make sure your shampoo is sulfite/sulfate free. Water the shampoo down a little before using. (use a bottled water bottle w/ some water left in it- to gently shake w/shampoo before applying) Suds your head only once, rinse well.
To temporarily return your scalp to the natural acid mantle it is, to it's proper PH, you can use a final rinse of vinegar/water. :)
Your comments have helped me in the past. I just checked my shampoo bottle and it's full of sulfates! Yikes. Can you suggest a really good shampoo?

[Boomer]

Barefoot, you might want to look up Bumble and Bumble Tonic Lotion. It is a detangler that has a calming effect on the scalp. It does not weigh the hair down. It says it has tea tree oil in it, but I do not know what a tea tree is. You should be able to find the ingredients online. (Maybe Uptown Girl is familiar with the product.)

I am hooked on the stuff.

I like Bumble and Bumble products, overall.

[Boomer]

Part II:

I don't know if it makes any difference but I bought my Bumble and Bumble Tonic Lotion at a salon back home.

I just saw a question on Amazon about whether there is a difference in the ingredients in the version available through sources other than a salon. I don't know the answer to that but I do know that there was a time when the salon I go to at home was not too happy with B&B for selling through vendors other than salons.

So who knows.......seems like a lot of trouble to make two versions......seems like if it were a knock-off, it would be soon caught......but who knows.......

I do know that a faucet bought at a big box store is not nearly as good as a faucet bought from a plumbing supplier, even though the company brands both versions. This I know from a hurried experience.....followed by a fast repentance.........and a fast trip to a plumbing supplier.

What's in a name? Who knows anymore.

[Uptown Girl]

Bare,
Acceptable shampoos can be found OTC. L'oreal has a particular line labeled as sulfate free...
Aubrey Organics has sulfate free shampoo as do some of the Burt's Bee's products. I am sure you will find others- look at ethnic products also- many have olive oil.
There is no shampoo I am currently in love with, sadly. The companies keep re-inventing their formulas- occasionally for improvement, sometimes for profit alone.
No matter what you choose, Still water it down for now.
Tea tree oil has antiseptic properties. I find it is a bit harsh for my scalp- strips the oils. Not for you right now.

B Complex is helpful for stress. (taken with your largest meal of the day) MegaFood is an all natural brand (made from food)
Available online. I rely on it in stressful circumstances.

I was taught that when the body goes through prolonged, profound stress, the hair and scalp eventually become compromised. Your body knows hair, scalp, nails, are not necessary for your survival- so blood flow continues to necessary organs- brain, heart, etc. and is reduced to other areas.

Holding good thoughts for you :)

[Barefoot]

Thanks Boomer and Uptown Girl.
I'll definitely get sulfate free shampoo and also Megafood Vitamin B.

[ronsroni]

I would rocket off two emails... one to LL Bean and the other to Lands End. They will advise and likely replace the pants.I found that I had fading clothes when we first moved here five years ago.
I did what you did AND I added the color protector sheets to my washer. I have replaced the washer as well. I find that the sheets in the wash helped. I no longer have that problem.
It was frustrating as can be. Now, with my new machine, I am in laundry Heaven. Consider the age of the washer and if there are filters to be cleaned, do that often. Best of luck!!
SEND THE EMAILS.

[dotti105]

I tried "LipSense" a few months ago. It is pretty new on the scene. But I had heard about it on Pinterest and from my daughters.
LipSense is a liquid lip Color that lasts up to 18 hrs with:
no smudging,
no fading,
no feathering,
no transfer
waterproof too
non drying
Kiss Proof

I know it sounds too good to be true! Right? That is what I thought! But it lives up to every promise.

The first time I tried it I decided to represent the company. Not because I need a hobby or need the $$, but because I really want to share this great product with every woman!

Before LipSense, I wouldn't wear lip color because it would just disappear onto my glass, napkin, straw, etc, I know that you know exactly what I mean!!

This doesn't budge!!

I have been representing the company for about 6 months and doing it very low key. As I have been selling Lip Color I have earned the Skin Care line and Cosmetics that SeneGence makes. At first I couldn't care less about the Cosmetics or Skin Care. I have always used products recommended by my Dermatologist. But since I earned them, I decided to try them and again. I have been won over.

Their Skin Care and Cosmetic line all contain a proprietary blend of Anti-Aging agents. So basically the cosmetics are skin care with color!

All their products contain the best and latest advances in skin care with a stabilized Vit C serum and Hyualronic acid as the back bone of their line.

Their Skin Care is developed with a "SeneShield" which provides a sun block equivalent to an SPF 30 without the harmful SPF chemicals.So the super light weight Day time moisturizer and Foundation will protect you in the sun, but they are also no smudge, no smear, and sweat proof and waterproof! Perfect for our active Villages lifestyle! Swim, Golf, and your make up won't budge!! Even the Cream to Powder Eye Shadows are creaseproof, waterproof and smudge proof. Your make up looks great from the time you put it on until you take it off. SeneGence has patented these lines, so no one else can offer anything even similar.

After showing the line to my Dermatologist I was told that these products are as good as the products that I had previously been buying, Obagi, Skinceuticals etc. And they are much less expensive.

Nothing that SeneGence makes is ever animal tested, contain no animal products, there is no GMOs, everything is Gulten free, all made in the USA, FDA approved and made in Pharmaceutical grade labs, not Cosmetic grade labs. The quality cannot be better.

So I am ready to share this great line of products with all of you!! We also need more distributors. This company has grown 800% in the last 12 months.

I have taken the plunge and will have a booth on Thursday, March 2 at the Woman's Expo at the Polo Field. So come by and see me and try the products that will change your life! !00% Money Back Guarantee of course!!

Any questions, please give me a call or email!
Dotti-801-358-9888
dottilove@gmail.com

Thanks gals, I will be looking forward to seeing you on Thursday!!
XXOO
Dotti

[Barefoot]

I have replaced the washer as well. ..... Now, with my new machine, I am in laundry Heaven.
I have to ask - what is the make of your new washer?

[FunnyGirl69]

Has anyone tried Surface shampoo? I think It's vegan.

[Barefoot]

Has anyone tried Surface shampoo? I think It's vegan.
I haven't tried Surface shampoo, are you recommending it? Is it sulfate free?
I'm currently using L'Oreal Everpure sulfate-free shampoo based on Uptown Girl's recommendation.

[Boomer]

I have been watching Feud:Bette and Joan. It is about the ongoing hostility between Joan Crawford and Bette Davis. It is set in 1962 while they were filming "What Ever Happened to Baby Jane."

The studio encouraged the feud for publicity because it sold in the gossip columns that were so popular at the time. Hedda Hopper (and her famous hats) are a part of the story.

Susan Sarandon and Jessica Lang (who have star power of their own) play Bette and Joan.

I like it. Also, it is fun to see the clothes, houses, and cars of the era.

[CFrance]

I have been watching Feud:Bette and Joan. It is about the ongoing hostility between Joan Crawford and Bette Davis. It is set in 1962 while they were filming "What Ever Happened to Baby Jane."

The studio encouraged the feud for publicity because it sold in the gossip columns that were so popular at the time. Hedda Hopper (and her famous hats) are a part of the story.

Susan Sarandon and Jessica Lang (who have star power of their own) play Bette and Joan.

I like it. Also, it is fun to see the clothes, houses, and cars of the era.
Is it a series, a movie, or...? Where can it be found--TV, Netflix, HBO?

[Boomer]

Is it a series, a movie, or...? Where can it be found--TV, Netflix, HBO?


It's on FX on Sunday nights. It is a series, with I think 6 episodes--but I am not sure. I record it but it might be on On Demand.

[Barefoot]

I recently had my hair cut by Linda who offers Concierge Hair Service.
I heard about her on TOTV, and I plan to use her again.
A very pleasant lady who comes to your home; and she is very inexpensive.
She specializes in color, highlights, balayage, etc.
If you are interested, Linda's telephone number is 410-259-8337.

[Boomer]

I just finished watching the last episode of Feud: Bette and Joan. Somebody probably will win an Emmy. I wonder which one.

[conniesue]

Hi Ladies,I found this thread and wanted to say hello.I am looking for a good haircut.,any thoughts?I am gray:22yikes:But it works for me.It goes with everything.Lol


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[Barefoot]

Hi Ladies,I found this thread and wanted to say hello.I am looking for a good haircut.,any thoughts?I am gray:22yikes:But it works for me.It goes with everything.

Connie, post before Boomers re Linda's Concierge Service.

[Barefoot]

I just finished watching the last episode of Feud: Bette and Joan. Somebody probably will win an Emmy. I wonder which one.
I watched a couple of episodes because you recommended the show. I just couldn't get into it.
But then I watch reality shows, so I obviously have poor taste.

[Boomer]

I watched a couple of episodes because you recommended the show. I just couldn't get into it.
But then I watch reality shows, so I obviously have poor taste.

Hi Barefoot, that's OK. I watch TOTV. That's sort of a reality show.

[Barefoot]

Hi Barefoot, that's OK. I watch TOTV. That's sort of a reality show.
:agree: So true -- TOTV really is a "reality show" at times.
Especially if you wander into the Political Forum -- it gets really real in there. :ohdear:

[Mrs. Robinson]

:agree: So true -- TOTV really is a "reality show" at times.
Especially if you wander into the Political Forum -- it gets really real in there. :ohdear:


The Political Forum proves to everyone that The Villages is not America's Friendliest Home Town.
:boxing2:

[ronsroni]

Hmmmmm. Have you met Tahlula? My white malti-poo LUVS sox....she loves 'em for breakfast, snack, dinner... and on and on.
Miss T buries them in the yard. I find some of them months/ seasons later with roots, weeds, aloe plants, etc, growing THROUGH THEM.
She loves a good safety pin challenge. PS- Tahlula NEVER loses.
it is nutso. BUT soooooo cute.

[Boomer]

I have been watching the BBC's "Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries." Miss Fisher is smart, sophisticated, knows her way around men, and wears the most gorgeous clothes -- all while solving murders. The show is set in the 1920s.

It is on Netflix.

[Madelaine Amee]

I have been watching the BBC's "Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries." Miss Fisher is smart, sophisticated, knows her way around men, and wears the most gorgeous clothes -- all while solving murders. The show is set in the 1920s.

It is on Netflix.

Love this show, I get it twice a week on Channel 15 with Direct. Love the clothes, what about her home, and the understated sexual attraction between her and the detective is very well played.

Anyone watching "Vera" on PBS on Tuesdays on Direct? It is a great little show and Vera is a dumpy, frumpy, female detective working in the North of England and her accent is a bit difficult to understand sometimes. I am really enjoying it.

[Barefoot]

Hmmmmm. Have you met Tahlula? My white malti-poo LUVS sox....she loves 'em for breakfast, snack, dinner... and on and on.
Miss T buries them in the yard. I find some of them months/ seasons later with roots, weeds, aloe plants, etc, growing THROUGH THEM.
She loves a good safety pin challenge. PS- Tahlula NEVER loses.
it is nutso. BUT soooooo cute.
PLEASE, post a picture!

[Barefoot]

I have been watching the BBC's "Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries." Miss Fisher is smart, sophisticated, knows her way around men, and wears the most gorgeous clothes -- all while solving murders. The show is set in the 1920s.
It is on Netflix.

Three of my favorite things.

I love Netflix. There is so much really great stuff to watch.

And I also love Amazon Prime and Zappos Shoes.

[Barefoot]

Love this show, I get it twice a week on Channel 15 with Direct.
I realize that I should already know this, but what is "Direct"?
Is it a TV Provider, and if so, is it available in the CR 466 area?

[Madelaine Amee]

I realize that I should already know this, but what is "Direct"?
Is it a TV Provider, and if so, is it available in the CR 466 area?


Direct TV is just another satellite TV provider, along with Dish and yes it is available in the 466 area. I believe they may be offering a really good two year price, much lower than what I am paying, and it covers TV, Computer and phone. Watch for their specials, or search Direct TV on the internet and see what they are offering. Bare if you search TOTV you will see a great deal of information on Direct TV.

We watch PBS on Channel 15 out of Daytona, we get 24 which gives you loads of good PBS programs and we also get 68 which is a bit more of an educational type channel, they have discussions between political type people. Still interesting.

[Boomer]

If you feel like escaping with a happy little movie on Netflix, you might try "Bottle Shock." (I just heard about this movie last week, although it has been around for years.)

If you like wine and/or you find the world of wine fascinating, you will like this movie about a blind wine tasting competition in Paris in 1976 when a California Chardonnay won.

The movie is a fictionalized version of a real event. Fun. Romantic. Likeable people. AND it is set in the 1970s so we can reminisce about how darned cute we all were back then, even while wearing those hideous clothes.

[2newyorkers]

I have been watching the BBC's "Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries." Miss Fisher is smart, sophisticated, knows her way around men, and wears the most gorgeous clothes -- all while solving murders. The show is set in the 1920s.

It is on Netflix.

We just finished watching Murdoch Mysteries on Netflix. Takes place in turn of the century (1900) Toronto.

[Barefoot]

Direct TV is just another satellite TV provider, along with Dish and yes it is available in the 466 area. I believe they may be offering a really good two year price, much lower than what I am paying, and it covers TV, Computer and phone. Watch for their specials, or search Direct TV on the internet and see what they are offering. Bare if you search TOTV you will see a great deal of information on Direct TV.
Thanks for the info.
We cancelled Comcast, and we'll be looking for another provider when we return to The Villages in November.
I'll contact Direct TV to see if they have any specials.

[Barefoot]

Does anyone know if there is a new series of Grace and Frankie available on Netflix?
If so, I can't find it. :cryin2:

[Boomer]

Does anyone know if there is a new series of Grace and Frankie available on Netflix?
If so, I can't find it. :cryin2:

I read that they are getting a 4th season, with Lisa Kudrow joining the cast. But it does not start until 2018.

[VICAR OF DIBLEY]

We just finished watching Murdoch Mysteries on Netflix. Takes place in turn of the century (1900) Toronto.

We were sorry that there were so few episodes of the Murdock Mysteries.

We are now watching Father Brown. We never know where the mystery will take place. It feels like the producers let the writer's imagination have 100% freedom.

[SassySeniorita]

I had the same darn problems! Cept my stylist used Schwarzkoph back home. I went to every "good" salon in TV and nothing worked until I found Stevie at a little salon in Wildwood called "Tou Lou."

[graciegirl]

We were sorry that there were so few episodes of the Murdock Mysteries.

We are now watching Father Brown. We never know where the mystery will take place. It feels like the producers let the writer's imagination have 100% freedom.

We love Father Brown. I bet a lot of people don't watch thinking it to be a religious them. I love the plot and the forties costuming. G.K. Chesterton?

Yes I remembered. Wow.
Father Brown - Wikipedia (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Father_Brown)

[dewilson58]

Sorry, had to look to see what you-all are talking about.

Leaving now.

Bye

:D

[Barefoot]

I've let my hair grow it's natural color.
But instead of being a lovely white, it's more a steel color, lots of dark still there. Not pretty like white.
My hairdresser suggested lowlights.
I have never had lowlights, anyone had them?

[graciegirl]

I've let my hair grow it's natural color.
But instead of being a lovely white, it's more a steel color, lots of dark still there. Not pretty like white.
My hairdresser suggested lowlights.
I have never had lowlights, anyone had them?

A long time ago, but I didn't date them very long.

OH...Low LIGHTS. ;)

[Barefoot]

A long time ago, but I didn't date them very long. OH...Low LIGHTS. ;)
:a20:

[Uptown Girl]

I've let my hair grow it's natural color.
But instead of being a lovely white, it's more a steel color, lots of dark still there. Not pretty like white.
My hairdresser suggested lowlights.
I have never had lowlights, anyone had them?
Bare, Low lights will add more dark tones, is that what you want?
Try googling images of - grey hair with lowlights. See if you can find an image that approaches what you are looking for.
If you find something you like, consider the eyebrow color in the photo as well- that it is similar to your own.

Another option is to add a sprinkle of highlights- a FEW very very lightly sectioned strands. Some lighter strands will add sparkle and may be enough to get you through.
Chances are your grey will evolve more brightly with time. Mine has.

[Madelaine Amee]

Silver is the new trendy color for short and medium hair! (http://www.omglovebeauty.com/2015/12/silver-is-new-trendy-color-for-short.html)

Bare this site has some absolutely gorgeous looks for grey hair, but the models are not very mature, so that may make a difference as to how they look so good.

I went from almost black hair to platinum very quickly. Both sides of my family go white, not grey. I was in my early 40s and I was horrified so I went through all the streaking, low lights, hi lights, you name it, until I finally became comfortable in my own skin and accepted my hair and my "look" for what it is. I do get a really good stylish cut and my clothing leans towards modern youngish looking clothes. I also changed my makeup to a much lighter skin tone with emphasis on the eyes. My eyebrows stayed black so that helps.

Going grey is difficult because it really does signal age, but you cannot fight age, so use all the improvements in hair color and cosmetics to make the best of what you are.

I actually have people in my hair salon who ask for my hair color and my adorable hair stylist always says "this does not come out of a bottle, it is a gift from God".

[Barefoot]

Bare, Low lights will add more dark tones, is that what you want?


I want to add some pizazz to my steel-colored hair, maybe auburn lowlights?
But that might look really bizarre on "salt and pepper" hair. I need advice re color.
Eyebrows -- some women have eyebrows? :evil6:
Perhaps I'll consider microblading when I return to TV. I heard about it on another thread. Do you know anything about it?
Silver is the new trendy color for short and medium hair! (http://www.omglovebeauty.com/2015/12/silver-is-new-trendy-color-for-short.html)
Bare this site has some absolutely gorgeous looks for grey hair, but the models are not very mature, so that may make a difference as to how they look so good. I do get a really good stylish cut.

Nothing better than silver hair on a young face. Unfortunately that ship sailed for me many moons ago.
I think you live close to me. Can you share the name of your hair stylist?

[Madelaine Amee]

I want to add some pizazz to my steel-colored hair, maybe auburn lowlights?
But that might look really bizarre on "salt and pepper" hair. I need advice re color.
Eyebrows -- some women have eyebrows? :evil6:
Perhaps I'll consider microblading when I return to TV. I heard about it on another thread. Do you know anything about it?


Nothing better than silver hair on a young face. Unfortunately that ship sailed for me many moons ago.
I think you live close to me. Can you share the name of your hair stylist?

Sent p.m.

[Boomer]

I am sitting here looking at a magazine ad for L'Oréal pure clay masks. There are different kinds that are different colors. (One with seaweed. One with charcoal. One with eucalyptus. One with red algae. The woman in the ad has all the colors smeared on her face. Gotta luv marketing.) These look interesting. I like the blue one. Has anybody tried any of them?

I would like to find a relatively inexpensive facial mask to use at home. Any suggestions?

[Sgroemm]

I love the facial masks from Lush cosmetics. They are available in some stores, but I order online at Lush (http://www.lushusa.com). The rosy cheeks one is my favorite. They are fresh, handmade cosmetics.

[Barefoot]

I love the facial masks from Lush cosmetics. They are available in some stores, but I order online at Lush (http://www.lushusa.com). The rosy cheeks one is my favorite. They are fresh, handmade cosmetics.
"Rosy cheeks" looks interesting. I love trying new stuff (not that I ever look any better).
However the description on the Lush website says they're available "in stores only".

[Boomer]

If you have Amazon Prime and you feel like watching a sweet little movie, you might like Greenfingers -- especially if you're a gardener. Helen Mirren is in it.

(It might be on Netflix, too.)

[Barefoot]

I am sitting here looking at a magazine ad for L'Oréal pure clay masks. There are different kinds that are different colors. (One with seaweed. One with charcoal. One with eucalyptus. One with red algae. The woman in the ad has all the colors smeared on her face. Gotta luv marketing.) These look interesting. I like the blue one. Has anybody tried any of them?
I've seen the L'Oreal masks advertised. I think the charcoal one is for acne, the opposite of hydrating.
Have you tried all the colours? Do you recommend the blue one?

[Barefoot]

If you have Amazon Prime and you feel like watching a sweet little movie, you might like Greenfingers -- especially if you're a gardener. Helen Mirren is in it.
I love gardening; and I really like Helen Mirren and Judi Dench. I'll look for Greenfingers on Netflix. :popcorn:
Right now I don't have Amazon Prime as I cancelled it in Canada on Amazon.ca. I haven't yet activated it on Amazon.com.

[paulat585]

I love gardening; and I really like Helen Mirren and Judi Dench. I'll look for Greenfingers on Netflix. :popcorn:
Right now I don't have Amazon Prime as I cancelled it in Canada on Amazon.ca. I haven't yet activated it on Amazon.com.


Yes, I saw it. Great movie!

[Boomer]

Is it just me?

What is going on lately with the sleeves on tops?

Bell-Bottom Sleeves. Pirate-Sleeves. Puffy from top-to-bottom Sleeves. (Wasn't there a Seinfeld episode about the puffy shirt?) Sleeves that look like something Mama Cass would have worn. Fringed sleeves. Sleeves that Halloween witches would like.

I do not need to make some kind of fashion statement, especially one that would make me have to be constantly responsible for my sleeves......

I know I would end up dragging them through my soup and/or catching them in the car door.......

I know I probably would have knee-jerk reactions and jump in to wipe up any red wine spills as fast as possible.

I guess I am a Fashion Don't.

[CFrance]

Is it just me?

What is going on lately with the sleeves on tops?

Bell-Bottom Sleeves. Pirate-Sleeves. Puffy from top-to-bottom Sleeves. (Wasn't there a Seinfeld episode about the puffy shirt?) Sleeves that look like something Mama Cass would have worn. Fringed sleeves. Sleeves that Halloween witches would like.

I do not need to make some kind of fashion statement, especially one that would make me have to be constantly responsible for my sleeves......

I know I would end up dragging them through my soup and/or catching them in the car door.......

I know I probably would have knee-jerk reactions and jump in to wipe up any red wine spills as fast as possible.

I guess I am a Fashion Don't.
You are so spot-on, Boomer. These sleeves were designed for the 20-30 yr-old group. And we've been left in their dust.

[Madelaine Amee]

Is it just me?

What is going on lately with the sleeves on tops?

Bell-Bottom Sleeves. Pirate-Sleeves. Puffy from top-to-bottom Sleeves. (Wasn't there a Seinfeld episode about the puffy shirt?) Sleeves that look like something Mama Cass would have worn. Fringed sleeves. Sleeves that Halloween witches would like.

I do not need to make some kind of fashion statement, especially one that would make me have to be constantly responsible for my sleeves......

I know I would end up dragging them through my soup and/or catching them in the car door.......

I know I probably would have knee-jerk reactions and jump in to wipe up any red wine spills as fast as possible.

I guess I am a Fashion Don't.

:bigbow:

Totally agree .... also dislike tthe "cold shoulder" look, it has been done to death. Just another thing to get us to buy new clothing. I am a classic dress person. I have been wearing the same basic classic style for years and I will continue to do so until the day I croak! And, while I am having my rant - what about these new shoes with the huge clunky heels. Where did they come from? Don't do much for a "neatly turned ankle"!

[Sgroemm]

You know how your eye shadow tends to migrate into the lovely creases that come with age on your eyelid? I found something that really keeps the shadow in the place you put it! It is from Urban Decay cosmetics and its called "Eyeshadow Primer Potion" it comes in "Anti-aging" and regular. It was a little pricey 12$ for the small tube and $22 for the larger one, but it lasts a long time. I found it at Ulta Beauty, but it is probably available other places that carry Urban Decay. I've tried lots of eye shadow primers and this one really works!

[Barefoot]

You know how your eye shadow tends to migrate into the lovely creases that come with age on your eyelid? I found something that really keeps the shadow in the place you put it! It is from Urban Decay cosmetics and its called "Eyeshadow Primer Potion" it comes in "Anti-aging" and regular. It was a little pricey 12$ for the small tube and $22 for the larger one, but it lasts a long time. I found it at Ulta Beauty, but it is probably available other places that carry Urban Decay. I've tried lots of eye shadow primers and this one really works!Is the Urban Decay eyeshadow primer potion "slippery"? I find the primers often have a greasy feel.

[Mrs. Robinson]

You know how your eye shadow tends to migrate into the lovely creases that come with age on your eyelid? I found something that really keeps the shadow in the place you put it! It is from Urban Decay cosmetics and its called "Eyeshadow Primer Potion" it comes in "Anti-aging" and regular. It was a little pricey 12$ for the small tube and $22 for the larger one, but it lasts a long time. I found it at Ulta Beauty, but it is probably available other places that carry Urban Decay. I've tried lots of eye shadow primers and this one really works!

Look for it on eBay.
It is seriously less expensive!

[Nancy Alexander]

I'm interested! Just moved here. I'm 63 and single.
Nancy Alexander

[Sgroemm]

No it goes on like liquid but quickly dries to a powdery feel. I find it best to apply a thin layer of a neutral tan/peach eye shadow before my color (i.e. blue/brown etc.) because the primer potion grabs hold of the color quickly and it spreads nicely with a base color under it.

[twosopers]

I'm looking for recommendations for someone to do permanent eye liner and eyebrows. Thanks!

[starflyte1]

I have a consultation with Cindy of Permanent Makeup by Cindy tomorrow. I am also scheduled for eyeliner in March and the followup in April. She comes with many recommendations and is booked waaaaay out. permanentmakeupbycindy.com 330-307-4487 She is now in The Villages, though her phone # is not.

[Barefoot]

I have a consultation with Cindy of Permanent Makeup by Cindy tomorrow. I am also scheduled for eyeliner in March and the followup in April. She comes with many recommendations and is booked waaaaay out. permanentmakeupbycindy.com 330-307-4487 She is now in The Villages, though her phone # is not.
I'd love to get permanent eyeliner. Please let us know how you like it.
I'd also like to get permanent eyebrows. I hesitate because the ones I've seen don't look natural.
I've never seen Cindy's work, but I hear she is very good.

[starflyte1]

I met Cindy this afternoon and feel very comfortable with her doing my liner. She is a tiny person and soft spoken. I believe she has been doing this for 30? years, though she doesn't look old enough. She said she is a perfectionist and put removable eyeliner on me to kind of give me idea how it will look. I am very comfortable with my decision. Now to wait for March!

[Barefoot]

I met Cindy this afternoon and feel very comfortable with her doing my liner. She is a tiny person and soft spoken. I believe she has been doing this for 30? years, though she doesn't look old enough. She said she is a perfectionist and put removable eyeliner on me to kind of give me idea how it will look. I am very comfortable with my decision. Now to wait for March!
I think I'll give Cindy a call, you're inspiring me!

[starflyte1]

If you would make an appointment for a consultation I think you would feel better about it. I have over 4 months to wait. I did not see it, but she may have a book with pictures of her work.

[Barefoot]

I met Cindy this afternoon and feel very comfortable with her doing my liner. She is a tiny person and soft spoken. I believe she has been doing this for 30? years, though she doesn't look old enough. She said she is a perfectionist and put removable eyeliner on me to kind of give me idea how it will look. I am very comfortable with my decision. Now to wait for March!
Please let us know in March how you like your permanent makeup.
I requested an appointment today with Cindy.
I'm hoping she will have a cancellation and be able to see me for a consultation early in 2018.

I'm also looking for recommendations for botox injections.
:mornincoffee: ... Making New Year's resolutions. :evil6:

HAPPY 2018 TO ALL MY GIRL-TALK SISTERS!

[Boomer]

Blepharoplasty, anyone?

Any thoughts or advice on getting rid of droopy eyelids?

Anyway, I have wanted to have the eyelid thing done for years. But I am a chicken-of-the-knife so I keep talking myself out of it. Also, I do not want to end up with a look of perpetual surprise.

[Barefoot]

Blepharoplasty, anyone?
Any thoughts or advice on getting rid of droopy eyelids?
Anyway, I have wanted to have the eyelid thing done for years. But I am a chicken-of-the-knife so I keep talking myself out of it. Also, I do not want to end up with a look of perpetual surprise.
You might be surprised if you ask your friends for recommendations - probably a lot of them have had "work done".
If you go to an experienced and seasoned plastic surgeon (and expensive),
I wouldn't worry about ending up with a look of perpetual surprise.
Not that I've had work done, but I've heard that a blepharoplasty is a walk in the park.
I had a friend that had it done in Florida. It was recommended by her doctor and covered by her medical plan.

Go for it girl, 2018 is your year to shine! :pepper2:

[catotv]

I'm interested! Just moved here. I'm 63 and single.
Nancy Alexander
Hi Nancy Alexander!

I am 65 and single and will be moving to TV in July or August. Building a new home in Fenney.... nice to meet you!
Peggy

[Barefoot]

I am 65 and single and will be moving to TV in July or August. Building a new home in Fenney.... nice to meet you!
Peggy

Fenney is supposed to be very nice - I haven't visited there yet.
:welcome: to TOTV Peggy!

[Boomer]

Season 4 of Grace and Frankie is streaming on Netflix as of yesterday. The binge has begun.

(On the Traditional Home website now, there is an article about the interior design of the houses on the show — that gorgeous beach house where Grace and Frankie live and the ex-husbands’ house, too.)

Also, The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel is an Amazon series some of you might like. It is set in NYC in the 1950s. I liked the storyline, but just Mrs. Maisel’s beautiful clothes can make it worth the watch.

[CFrance]

Season 4 of Grace and Frankie is streaming on Netflix as of yesterday. The binge has begun.

(On the Traditional Home website now, there is an article about the interior design of one of the sets — that gorgeous beach house where Grace and Frankie live.)

Also, The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel is an Amazon series some of you might like. It is set in NYC in the 1950s. I liked the storyline, but just Mrs. Maisel’s beautiful clothes can make it worth the watch.
Great news! I thought G&F wasn't coming back until spring.

Will look at Mrs. Maisel too.

[Barefoot]

Season 4 of Grace and Frankie is streaming on Netflix as of yesterday. The binge has begun.

(On the Traditional Home website now, there is an article about the interior design of the houses on the show — that gorgeous beach house where Grace and Frankie live and the ex-husbands’ house, too.)

Also, The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel is an Amazon series some of you might like. It is set in NYC in the 1950s. I liked the storyline, but just Mrs. Maisel’s beautiful clothes can make it worth the watch.I love Grace and Frankie. :clap2:
Thanks Boomer, I'm planning to watch it right now! :2excited:

[Boomer]

I love Grace and Frankie. :clap2:
Thanks Boomer, I'm planning to watch it right now! :2excited:



I got a big kick out of the scene where Grace is trying to discourage the affections of the younger man. (“Younger” is a relative thing though because he looks like he is probably in his 60s.) Anyway, I loved it when she wipes off her makeup, pulls off the false eyelashes, and pulls the extensions from her hair, and says something like, ”Here I am.” — But he is still around.

(Interesting that the writers wrote his character as very rich so we know he is not after her money. He could get his own beach house.)

I am not finished binge watching yet. I guess this is kind of a binge-ette for me —unlike “Shameless” which I raced through — shameful though I felt.

[mellincf]

Bare,
Acceptable shampoos can be found OTC. L'oreal has a particular line labeled as sulfate free...
Aubrey Organics has sulfate free shampoo as do some of the Burt's Bee's products. I am sure you will find others- look at ethnic products also- many have olive oil.
There is no shampoo I am currently in love with, sadly. The companies keep re-inventing their formulas- occasionally for improvement, sometimes for profit alone.
No matter what you choose, Still water it down for now.
Tea tree oil has antiseptic properties. I find it is a bit harsh for my scalp- strips the oils. Not for you right now.

B Complex is helpful for stress. (taken with your largest meal of the day) MegaFood is an all natural brand (made from food)
Available online. I rely on it in stressful circumstances.

I was taught that when the body goes through prolonged, profound stress, the hair and scalp eventually become compromised. Your body knows hair, scalp, nails, are not necessary for your survival- so blood flow continues to necessary organs- brain, heart, etc. and is reduced to other areas.

Holding good thoughts for you :)

Do you know of a group in TV that discusses health, nutrition, etc? We're new here but vegetarians & very health conscious. Would love to meet other people with the same interests. Thanks.

[Banaporg]

I got a big kick out of the scene where Grace is trying to discourage the affections of the younger man. (“Younger” is a relative thing though because he looks like he is probably in his 60s.) Anyway, I loved it when she wipes off her makeup, pulls off the false eyelashes, and pulls the extensions from her hair, and says something like, ”Here I am.” — But he is still around.

(Interesting that the writers wrote his character as very rich so we know he is not after her money. He could get his own beach house.)

I am not finished binge watching yet. I guess this is kind of a binge-ette for me —unlike “Shameless” which I raced through — shameful though I felt.
That was the best scene ever and Jane did a wonderful job..

[Barefoot]

I met Cindy this afternoon and feel very comfortable with her doing my liner. Now to wait for March!

I know you had eyeliner done, and you said it wasn't painful.
But my fear is that the product she uses to deaden the area would get in your eyes.

I think you said you're having lip liner also, and I think she does blusher on the lip area.
Do you have any comments about that process?

[Paddygirl]

Has anyone had or know someone who has had The MONA LISA TOUCH? I'm considering this procedure. Thanks.

[Barefoot]

Has anyone had or know someone who has had The MONA LISA TOUCH? I'm considering this procedure. Thanks.
I know nothing about the Mona Lisa Touch.
I read the information on their website and it sounds great.
Hopefully other readers with experience will post.

[Barefoot]

I got a big kick out of the scene where Grace is trying to discourage the affections of the younger man. (“Younger” is a relative thing though because he looks like he is probably in his 60s.) Anyway, I loved it when she wipes off her makeup, pulls off the false eyelashes, and pulls the extensions from her hair, and says something like, ”Here I am.” — But he is still around.

(Interesting that the writers wrote his character as very rich so we know he is not after her money. He could get his own beach house.)

I am not finished binge watching yet. I guess this is kind of a binge-ette for me —unlike “Shameless” which I raced through — shameful though I felt.
I am a huge fan of Grace and Frankie.
I did enjoy the scene where Grace tries to discourage the attentions of her younger boyfriend because she is tired of getting up in the middle of the night to look "naturally" gorgeous!
Is it only my impression, or has G & F discussed more about age-related issues than ever before?

And now on to watch Shameless.

[Suzanne0812]

Lots of old posts whom people love but nothing current. Joanne from Jaylee has retired. Who’s the best of the best. Who would you recommend.

[Barefoot]

Lots of old posts whom people love but nothing current. Joanne from Jaylee has retired. Who’s the best of the best. Who would you recommend.
I would think volume of business would be an indication of the professional abilities of an eyebrow technician.
Word of mouth says Cindy Fowler is excellent; and she already has appointments in November.

[Barefoot]

I met Cindy this afternoon and feel very comfortable with her doing my liner. She is a tiny person and soft spoken. I believe she has been doing this for 30? years, though she doesn't look old enough. She said she is a perfectionist and put removable eyeliner on me to kind of give me idea how it will look. I am very comfortable with my decision. Now to wait for March!


Now you've had your eyeliner for two months, are you glad you did it? I'll send you a PM.

[Boomer]

We have been planning to “cut the cord” but a few days ago, I watched Dietland on AMC and On Demand.

It is one weird show. But it sure has an interesting premise. It is based on a book — that I have not read.

All the acting is really good. The actress who was “The Good Wife” is not so good now. She could make that boss in “The Devil Wears Prada” look like Mary Poppins.

I am now putting off getting rid of cable — at least until I find out what happens to Plum. And just who is Jennifer? Really?

[EPutnam1863]

I know that hair cuts have been discussed, but would like to ask if there is anyone anyone would recommend for a short cut, ie Dorothy Hammil. Want to keep lots of hair, just want it short off my neck with a really good cut. We will be moving to TV full time, and would like to find someone there. Thanks.

Pat

Hope you are not one of those seeking a blue cloud.

[VICAR OF DIBLEY]

I have been seeing Kevin at Cal’s In Spanish Springs since he started there. About 5 or so years. He has always given me the style or perm I have wanted.
I give him 10 plus stars.
Phone number - 352 753 3377.

[starflyte1]

EPPuttman, Blue cloud????? Check the date. I have lived here 8+ years now.

[CFrance]

EPPuttman, Blue cloud????? Check the date. I have lived here 8+ years now.
What is a blue cloud?

[Madelaine Amee]

What is a blue cloud?

I thought it was that blue stuff they used to put in old ladies hair :o

[CFrance]

I thought it was that blue stuff they used to put in old ladies hair :o
That hair dye that made your hair purple!

[Madelaine Amee]

That hair dye that made your hair purple!

Yes, my grandmother used to walk around with salt and pepper and bluish colored hair, we never took any notice.

[CFrance]

My mother had black hair (wish I had inherited that instead of mouse brown). When she started to go gray, she got a bottle of Clairol black dye and came out with purple hair.

But I've never heard the term blue cloud and would like to know what EPutnam means by it.

[FFMRC]

Kim at K-Rae's Salon in Spruce Creek Terrace Shoppes in front of Spruce Creek, across from Walmart on 441. Great prices and great work. 352-307-5600

[Barefoot]

I am getting my eyebrows and eyeliner done in November.
I hate pain (I daresay most of us do).
I'm getting nervous already!

[starflyte1]

Bare, I am having my lips done August 23 an am very nervous about it. However, I have had eyeliner done and it truly was painless. Cindy said the lips would not hurt so I just have to trust her.

[Barefoot]

Bare, I am having my lips done August 23 an am very nervous about it. However, I have had eyeliner done and it truly was painless. Cindy said the lips would not hurt so I just have to trust her.


Thanks for the report; as you know I'm also using Cindy.
I'm having eyebrows and eyeliner done in November.
I don't get my lips done until January.
I eagerly await your report.

[Barefoot]

I had someone email this to me. Yikes, not encouraging.
I think it depends a lot on who does the work.
In the past, I've seen a lot of fake-looking eyebrows.
Cindy has done "work" on herself and it looks great.

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I'll be interested to see the result. I've seen one of each, and they both looked fake. But that was a few years ago... perhaps things have gotten more realistic lately.

[Barefoot]

Bare, I am having my lips done August 23 an am very nervous about it. However, I have had eyeliner done and it truly was painless. Cindy said the lips would not hurt so I just have to trust her.The time is fast approaching when I have appointments with Cindy.
Starflyte, how did your lips turn out?

[Barefoot]

But I've never heard the term blue cloud and would like to know what EPutnam means by it.
Did you ever find out what "blue cloud" means?
It was a comment made to Star who was looking for a Dorothy Hammil cut, so I don't think it's purple hair.

[Barefoot]

I had permanent make-up done in November by Cindy Fowler, both eyebrows and eyeliner.
Cindy says that the first appointment doesn't result in much color.
I'm waiting for the touch-up appointment in January 2019 before I decide whether I like it.

[BK001]

I had permanent make-up done in November by Cindy Fowler, both eyebrows and eyeliner.
Cindy says that the first appointment doesn't result in much color.
I'm waiting for the touch-up appointment in January 2019 before I decide whether I like it.

I am so interested in hearing your opinion. I also want to do eyebrows, eyeliner and lips as well. Other medical issues have taken priority so I have to wait -- I always want to make sure that I am off the blood thinner by the time of an appointment. But would really appreciate your opinion of the whole process and, of course, and the results.

[Barefoot]

I am so interested in hearing your opinion. I also want to do eyebrows, eyeliner and lips as well. Other medical issues have taken priority so I have to wait -- I always want to make sure that I am off the blood thinner by the time of an appointment. But would really appreciate your opinion of the whole process and, of course, and the results.I'm concerned that you're on blood thinners. I took warfarin once for blood clots in my lungs.
That was before they came out with all the newfangled blood thinners which have pretty much replaced warfarin.
Please remind me in January after I have the touch-up appointment.
Cindy says that the initial appointment doesn't result in much color.
Cindy books six months out, so you should probably make an appointment now if you want to use her.
She probably wouldn't do permanent makeup for anyone on blood thinners, but in six months, you should be ready?

[starflyte1]

I had to stop aspirin .81 5 days before my appt with Cindy.

[Barefoot]

I had to stop aspirin .81 5 days before my appt with Cindy.That's interesting that you had to stop aspirin three months before your appointment with Cindy.
If you're back, I'd like to get together to see your lips - please PM me.
I guess you're probably busy with Christmas plans. We are going to spend Christmas in Cocoa Beach.
Perhaps early January?

[Barefoot]

I am so interested in hearing your opinion. I also want to do eyebrows, eyeliner and lips as well. Other medical issues have taken priority so I have to wait -- I always want to make sure that I am off the blood thinner by the time of an appointment. But would really appreciate your opinion of the whole process and, of course, and the results.
Perhaps you want to see the results when Starflyte and I finally get together.
She has offered to let me see her lip results.
I've had eyebrows and eyeliner done and I have a touch-up appointment in January.
It is my intention to get lips done in early 2019.
I don't think Starflyte would mind me telling you that she had eyeliner and lips done.
So we can let you see the whole shebang in Stages 1, 2 and 3.

[Debfrommaine]

Love my eyebrows, created an almost instant lift. Get lots of compliments. No hurry to do lids or lips but would love to see others results. The lips, I have heard, can develop some scar tissue, plus with the wrinkles do not want to emphasis, just my opinion which really does not amount to much. Eyelids.....maybe down the road. But the eyebrows, oh ya, would recommend Kim Forsberg any day of the week, she is particular.

[starflyte1]

Bare, I stopped taking .81mg aspirin 5 days before.:) Also, certain vitamins. I doubt that anyone on thinners would be able to have the permanent make-up.

Would be more than happy to meet. Just say when and where.

[Barefoot]

Bare, I stopped taking .81mg aspirin 5 days before.:) Also, certain vitamins. I doubt that anyone on thinners would be able to have the permanent make-up. Would be more than happy to meet. Just say when and where.
Sorry, I thought you stopped taking aspirin three months before, my bad.
Pat, I would love to see your results after Christmas or sometime in early January.
I am definitely going back for a touch-up appointment in January for my eyebrows and eyeliner.
I really need to decide whether to have my lips done.
Do you think having your lips done emphasized the wrinkles?

[CFrance]

Asking for my friend who is not on the forum: has anyone used James Flaherty, GYN, and did you like or not?
(I realize this is not as interesting as tattooing your eyelids...:shocked:)