Girl Talk

[Just Susan]

It would kind of be like that scene from the movie "Rat Race," with all the women dressed like Lucy Ricardo going to the Lucy look-alike convention!!!

http://re3.yt-thm-a04.yimg.com/image/25/m4/2692679908


We really have to do this...it would be just too funny.

[Hyacinth Bucket]

Hi Bare, I just learned today that you are very lucky that your Key Lime tree is doing so great. When you redo your lanai if at all possible do not move it.

Jim from the Extension Service was here today and told us that Key Limes usually do not thrive here due to the frost that we have in this area.

We will add a Valencia orange tree and a grapefruit tree to our citrus grove. We are also putting in some trellises where we will grow grapes, vines and who knows what else.

Glasses with rhinestones - I just gave away a pair to the Lions Club.

Laverne Party - does that mean I have to re-buy one of those all body girdles? Susan I know it will eliminate all bulges and create new cleavage. I hate to admit I used to wear one of them, then there was the long leg girdle for under slacks and the long line bra that had a zillion hooks in the back.

OMG when I think of what I used to wear.

The bee hive hair do - had that hair do when I got married. Tried to comb my hair out which was more like the beginnings of a nest - full of knots. I think it took me three days to comb it out.

Count me in when you have the party - don't mean to be a party pooper but I think I will not wear all the undergarments - will get a modified Bee Hive though.

HB

[Just Susan]

HB, you can wear the body armour or not up to you, but you must wear the leotard. Won't we all just be hilarious?
Hey, have fun on your upcoming trip.

[Barefoot]

Hi Bare, I just learned today that you are very lucky that your Key Lime tree is doing so great. When you redo your lanai if at all possible do not move it. HB

HB, that is very interesting. We never feed it or water it. And we had a huge crop of limes, yum, yum. Perhaps Key Lime trees thrive on neglect.

[Hyacinth Bucket]

I would like all of you to meet Madge - a woman I admire. I have found her in all of you Peeps. Thank you for sharing "Madge" with me.

Madge is the perfect match for Rocky, her husband. She's adventuresome, realistic, cheerful, about 20 years older than she looks and 40 years older than she feels. She must be doing something right.

Music plays a big part in her life. She plays the drums and loves country music -- even the horn on her pink convertible Cadillac plays Dixie. You don't have far to go to persuade her to sing for a crowd. Give her a good Country & Western song and she's yours. I should mention that she has a full set of bull horns on the front of her car and wears a western hat.

She's against blood sports. She's as spontaneous as Rocky (her husband) is and much more than a pretty face. She tells Jean (her daughter in law) that their marriage may not be the longest marriage on record, but 'by golly' it's tremendous fun. She's off to Mongolia or Libya or the Congo at the drop of a hat. She can shoot the rapids as easily as she can visit Graceland. The last thing she seems to want is to sit in the big house in Hampshire and mingle with the snobby country set.

Rocky and Madge would much rather have bacon and eggs than toast and coffee. No sensible diet for them. No acknowledgement of terminal illness. No concern over cholesterol. Or testosterone. Every moment is valuable. Every day is to be lived to the ultimate. They have no time to sit and wait for something to happen -- instead they prefer to make things happen.

Madge tells Lionel that if they ever think that they are old enough to know better they should have themselves put down. They live totally in the moment. Time doesn't matter to Madge. What is in the time that matters. I love the way they play with one another and with everyone else. Lionel tells Jean that sooner or later Rocky and Madge are going to be put away. Jean assures Lionel that wherever they get put away they will cheer the place up no end. They cope with old age, she says, by refusing to accept it.

Madge says that the two of them never bother to read warning signs because if they did, they would have missed doing many of the things they've done. Those things include shooting the rapids, wandering the globe, dressing in comfortable clothes, and getting off on country music. He gives up the security of a the big home in Hampshire and opts instead for an unencumbered life with a woman who is a perfect match for him.

Rocky doesn't appear to be afraid of anything. I think that a person who is dying must have suspicions that suggest something is afoot. Rocky doesn't ever let these suspicions get in his way. Clearly Madge knows that Rocky's time is limited. They both continue to live life to the fullest, even in a shared hospital room

Rocky is, for me, one of the most likeable characters I have known. I've never seen him waste even a moment of time worrying about his creaking bones or his hearing loss or his lack of success. He's a happy man and it shows.

HB

[Barefoot]

I'm wondering if anyone has seen the new movie "The Women" with Meg Ryan and many other great actresses. I was really looking forward to seeing it. The reviews have been scathing to say the least.
Rotten Tomatoes gives it 10%.

If anyone sees it, please let us know what you think.

[Hyacinth Bucket]

Hi, I am just saying "Hello" so that I get all new messages on this thread.

If there is an easier way to get post and updates from your favorite threads please let me know.

Lost in Cyberspace.

HB

[lag]

[SISo where is the best stylist in town? And while we're on the fem issues Where's a good massage therapist?

PS Keep coloring your hair It's hard to look beautiful all the time, but you're worth it!!! Right ZE="2"][/SIZE]

[lag]

Hi, I am just saying "Hello" so that I get all new messages on this thread.

If there is an easier way to get post and updates from your favorite threads please let me know.

Lost in Cyberspace.

HB

Howdy I'm with you and am horsing around to get the feel for the new sight I never know how to reply and even how to enlarge the print This all takes time and I type so slow I wonder what century everyone will get this message Keep at it and I'll type ya in cyberspace

Junior Rookie:MOJE_whot: :agree:

[Hyacinth Bucket]

Hair stylist - did I read that correctly? An excellent hair stylist is Kevin at Salon ST. T

My hair has never looked better. I have had two perms, haircuts, etc and no problems.

HB

[Barefoot]

I was reading a book today and one of the characters, an older woman, said:

"Oh, let's face it, we're all getting older and closer to the pavement". :laugh:

Am I the only one shrinking? I feel like a Mini me (but not sideways, sadly).

[Peachie]

Bare, it's strange to me that this question came up today. Just went to a different Dr. a couple of days ago and they asked for my height. I gave it to them and later when they weighed me, they checked my height. I measured about 3/4" shorter than I was the last time my height was checked many years ago. I thought they did something wrong so I came home and checked their measurements and they were right on. I'm quite tall and didn't think I'd gotten any shorter, big surprise for sure. Guess I'd better hang on, I'll bet the ride gets a lot bumpier yet :crap2:

[nONIE]

Everything sure heads south as we get older, thank goodness for TV. Its the only good thing about heading south i can think of!;)

[chelsea24]

Everything sure heads south as we get older, thank goodness for TV. Its the only good thing about heading south i can think of!;)

Hahaha, Nonie! That's great! Yes, I had to move South to find my boobs! :laugh: Next stop Brazil! :shocked:

[nONIE]

Chels, You are a total riot!!!!!!:1rotfl::1rotfl::1rotfl:

[Hyacinth Bucket]

Hi,

I travelled North and nothing on my body reversed itself. I check every day and there was definitely a southward trend.

The mirror in our stateroom was a horrid one. It was an accurate image of me and not the image of the one I wanted.

How was everyone's cruise?

Love ya and miss ya all

HB

[nONIE]

HB!

Are ya back? Good to hear from you, hope you had a wonderful time!

Thats the problem with heading back north! Nothing reverses, so why bother??? LOL Great to hear from you, you've been missed!

[Hyacinth Bucket]

Hi Nonie,

Love your new Avatar. Amazing how a cruise can turn the clock back for both of you.

We are in Newfoundland and will be home in a few days. Can't wait to hear all about your cruise.

We have been posting a travelogue in the Travel Forum.

Can't wait for our paths to cross again.

Love ya and miss ya,

HB

[nONIE]

HB, shhhhhhhhhh!

What makes you think we turned the clock back???? The Villages just agrees with us! LOL! Enjoy the remaining of your trip, it sounds fabulous!

[Barefoot]

Peachie, that is what I'm talking about, it is scary! You said that you lost 3/4of an inch and didn't notice it disappearing. Remember when the tooth fairy used to bring us money? Now the bone fairy is stealing our height away while we sleep. The good news is that every one else is also getting shorter and wider!

Yes, I had to move South to find my boobs! :laugh: Next stop Brazil! :shocked:

Chels, I think if you just check under your arms in the morning, you may
find your boobs there. Especially if you tend to sleep on your back. It is tricky finding all the little bits in the morning, nothing is where it should be any more.

[Peachie]

Bare, I never thought of checking the pits. I am going to look for my 3/4" there first thing in the morning. :shrug: :1rotfl:

[Barefoot]

Bare, I never thought of checking the pits. I am going to look for my 3/4" there first thing in the morning. :shrug: :1rotfl:


Peachie, I've been finding all kinds of mysterious things are disappearing in my life. Recently someone broke into my house while I was away for a week. Strangely, all they did was replace all my existing clothes with identical copies but smaller sizes.

And that is why none of my clothes fit any more. Not my fault.

[Peachie]

Your thieves must have a franchise, Bare, the same thing happened in my closet! :1rotfl: After a contractor had completed installing a large closet system put in our very large walk-in closet, my Mom stopped in to take a peek. She looked at the new closet, looked at me and said, "my goodness, do you ever have a lot of clothes!". After I explained to her there were 3 different sizes for 4 different seasons because I planned to lose weight over the years, she understood. Like that ever happened! So I'll guess I'll donate the size 8, leather, Liz Claiborne skirt. Sigh... time to get rid of my fantasies and move on.:popcorn:

[graciegirl]

Girls. You ain't right.

[Time for Tee]

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[thehags]

I found a great way to weed out some on clothes (with you know all those dream smaller sizes I'll get into). I went to look at my stack of smaller clothes and pretended that I reached my ideal size and then with a brand new prespective, I looked at each piece to see if I would wear it now...about 80% of that clothing went to goodwill.

[Barefoot]

I found a great way to weed out some on clothes (with you know all those dream smaller sizes I'll get into). I went to look at my stack of smaller clothes and pretended that I reached my ideal size and then with a brand new prespective, I looked at each piece to see if I would wear it now...about 80% of that clothing went to goodwill.

If I could fit into my tiny little pair of jeans, believe me I'd wear them, in style or not. Because when you're that size, your butt looks great in anything. :laugh:

Sadly, I'm one of those yo-yo people you read about. Except these days my yo-yo is stuck in the up position.

[Hyacinth Bucket]

I can do a cut and paste but haven't figured out yet how do do a quote.

Excellent idea - I will have a closet that is not only spic and span but empty after this last cruise.

Started my water diet today - will see how long I can keep it up. :1rotfl:

Thought I was being so careful on this last cruise - but they say the scale doesn't lie (I am living proof it does), the cleaners did not shrink my clothing nor did they use extra hot water to shrink all the clothing that I had washed. I do not believe the above at all. The cleaners did shrink my clothing and the clothing that was laundered did shrink.

I know this is a fact because when I started the cruise the clothing was loose - now they are tight. Besides eating three meals a day (for health reasons - to keep up my energy) the only difference is that we used the ships cleaners and laundry service.

HB

Originally Posted by thehags https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/images/buttons/viewpost.gif (https://www.talkofthevillages.com/forums/showthread.php?p=163537#post163537)
I found a great way to weed out some on clothes (with you know all those dream smaller sizes I'll get into). I went to look at my stack of smaller clothes and pretended that I reached my ideal size and then with a brand new prespective, I looked at each piece to see if I would wear it now...about 80% of that clothing went to goodwill.

If I could fit into my tiny little pair of jeans, believe me I'd wear them, in style or not. Because when you're that size, your butt looks great in anything. :laugh:

Sadly, I'm one of those yo-yo people you read about. Except these days my yo-yo is stuck in the up position.

[Barefoot]

I'm a nail virgin who is contemplating artificial nails for the first time. I want to reward myself when I get to TV, as all my nails are wrecked from moving and packing.

I'm wondering if anyone can explain the difference to me between acrylic, solar and gel nails. And which type you would recommend. And could you also recommend a good place to have them done?

I called one place and they said it takes 1/2 hour. I called another place and they said it takes 1 1/2 hours. I don't know what to believe.

The Teaching Academy doesn't do artificial nails. Bright has recommended a place in Wildwood but they're only open Tuesday to Friday.

I have used Hollywood Nails in the past, but they tend to be very fast .. not sure how good a job they do? I'm also wondering about Top Ten in the Palm Ridge Plaze on Highway 466.

Any comments would be appreciated.

[chelsea24]

Hi Bare, I still love Hollywood Nails for both nails and pedicures. I am now devoted to Timmy! :1rotfl:

[Donna]

Barefoot..I might be able to explain..

Gel nails are better for your natural nail, but will not take the abuse the acrylic nails will..A full set is also more expensive..

I have had both, and the gel nails lift easily..I might be an exception to the rule but at the salon, my hands are always in water..The acrylics last very long, if the nail tech does them right...

[Barefoot]

Donna, thanks for the explanation. I'm hard on my nails so I guess I better get acrylic.

Did you have your acrylic nails done at Hollywood Nails? I want to have my nails "done right" as you mentioned. Do you think Hollywood Nails is an OK place to have them done? How long should it take?

[chelsea24]

Yes, I get the acrylic nails. Full set of french tips. It takes about 40 min. But I'm there longer because I get the pedicure too. Great fun! :laugh:

[nONIE]

I guess you knew this was comming. but if your not happy with anyone in or near TV, my daughter has had her own nail business since 1986. She does a fabulous job and people just love her work. (brag, brag, brag) Of course this would mean a trip to Mount Dora every so often, So I know how much of a disadvantage that is, right? why would anyone in their right mind want to go to Mt. Dora every 6 weeks, what a royal pain that would be.:blahblahblah::blahblahblah::blahblahblah::D

[Barefoot]

I guess you knew this was comming. but if your not happy with anyone in or near TV, my daughter has had her own nail business since 1986. She does a fabulous job and people just love her work. (brag, brag, brag) Of course this would mean a trip to Mount Dora every so often, So I know how much of a disadvantage that is, right? why would anyone in their right mind want to go to Mt. Dora every 6 weeks, what a royal pain that would be.:blahblahblah::blahblahblah::blahblahblah::D

Maybe we can persuade Robin to come to TV every six weeks and set up shop on your lanai! I actually didn't realize Robin had a Nail Business. It would be well worth a trip to Mt. Dora, I love that little town!

[Barefoot]

Yes, I get the acrylic nails. Full set of french tips. It takes about 40 min. But I'm there longer because I get the pedicure too. Great fun! :laugh:

Chels, do you ask for a particular person at Hollywood Nails? Or do you just take whoever they assign to you?

[renielarson]

Bare

The Wildwood Salon takes about an hour or so. I am very hard on my nails..don't wear gloves, clean and scrub and do weed and yard work without gloves. I need nails that can live up to the wear and tear they have to endure on my hands.

I can't speak for Hollywood Nails but I can tell you that the nails I get in Wildwood stand up to the neglect I give them. Not ever once, or ever, have they chipped or broken. That impresses me!

I'm very anal and picky about my nails. I always inspect them for uniformity, smoothness, evenness, and contour. I couldn't be happier than with the nails I get in Wildwood.

What more can I say?

[Donna]

Bright,
I am exactly like you with my nails..I am the Mr.Monk of acrylics...lol
My nails are my own, I have acrylic overlays..I am so rough on them, and thy never crack, lift, chip, etc...
You have to give me the name of your salon..
Thanks:)

[Rokinronda]

Girls!! I must admit to always doing my own nails! They look great for 2-3 months , then break. I have never been to a salon. My daughter gave me a massage gift certificate to Villages Salon that sits and waits for me to get the courage to go. I think a massage sounds perfect right now!!I think I'll call and make an appt! You girls do have very pretty nails, but it takes going back every 2-3 weeks?? I think I'll keep doing my own!

[Peachie]

Girls!! I must admit to always doing my own nails! They look great for 2-3 months , then break. I have never been to a salon. My daughter gave me a massage gift certificate to Villages Salon that sits and waits for me to get the courage to go. I think a massage sounds perfect right now!!I think I'll call and make an appt! You girls do have very pretty nails, but it takes going back every 2-3 weeks?? I think I'll keep doing my own!


I agree, RR! I love to see all of those beautiful nails but I guess my nails are tools, not jewels. I've had one manicure in my life and it seemed to take forever so I polish mine once in a blue moon when they all happen to grow out without breaking and I have a special event. But as a side note, I do keep them clean and trimmed...

[chelsea24]

Chels, do you ask for a particular person at Hollywood Nails? Or do you just take whoever they assign to you?

Yes I was having Tracy, but since I love Timmy's pedicures too, now I have him do both. :)

[nONIE]

Peachie,

:agree: working at the dog kennel every day does not require beautiful nails. You wouldnt believe what gets under them, so no sense spending $ on them.
just short, clean & trimmed is about the best I can do.

Someday Im gonna give those acrylics a try, they look so beautiful on everyone else. :undecided:

Great for scratching backs too!

[Barefoot]

Someday Im gonna give those acrylics a try, they look so beautiful on everyone else. Great for scratching backs too!

Hmmm, Nonie, who's back were you thinking of scratching?:faint:

[Barefoot]

Time for a hair colour and cut. Anyone got any good, recent suggestions?

By the way, I did get gel nails (artificial nails for the first time ever). I love my french tips! :0000000000luvmyhors

and don't know why I didn't do it years ago.

[graciegirl]

I am always doing some project that marks up the polish. The only polish that stays intact is on my toes. I don't know how many times I have had a manicure and the next day it looked like I had my nails sanded.

[beady]

Bare: Urban Studio......Erica or any of the stylists there. They listen and do what you ask....I do my own color...easier and less expensive.

[Barefoot]

I am always doing some project that marks up the polish. The only polish that stays intact is on my toes. I don't know how many times I have had a manicure and the next day it looked like I had my nails sanded.

Me also GG, that is why artificial nails are so great. A manicure only lasted me a day or two, sometimes I got chips within a couple of hours.

With gel nails, a week later and I'm still admiring my nails!

Thanks Beady, I'll try Erica for my hair.

[Just Susan]

I have question for you all. I have baby fine hair that goes straight in humidity instantly...you know like if someone sneezes in a room...that raises the humidity enough for my hair.

Anyway my question...short of getting a buzz cut when we move to TV, or learning to love the melted hang dog look, would a wig work?

Do wigs go straight in humidity? Are they too hot to wear in the summer months? Does sweat drip out from under the wig, taking with it any and all remaining make-up, as it heads south drenching your body in colored salt water.

Hmmm do I give the impression that I don't like humidity? I am serious about the wig part though!

[Shirleevee]

Susan,

I have the same problem. My hair is so baby fine that I too, have thought of a wig. My friend told me about a volumnizer that is supposed to be much lighter than a wig. You pull your hair through the netting and blend with the wig. I will check this option out.

Good luck:)

[Just Susan]

That sounds like a wonderful solution, but doesn't the chin strap show??

I don't know how else I could keep it on my head. It sure wouldn't hook to my hair.

Please let me know what you find out Shirlee

[starflyte1]

When we first moved to Florida, I realized, at least for me, there were no "good hair days". I would leave the house looking fairly good, only to arrive at the party looking like I arrived on a broom. 24 years later, I have yet to find a decent hair style that is becoming.

[Shirleevee]

That sounds like a wonderful solution, but doesn't the chin strap show??

I don't know how else I could keep it on my head. It sure wouldn't hook to my hair.

Please let me know what you find out Shirlee

http://search.wigs.com/hair/Pull%20Through

I have been searching for a demo of how these can be secured to my super fine hair.

[Just Susan]

Star that is so very depressing :ohdear:. We will find a way m'dear and I will keep you posted. Worst case we will have matching buzz cuts.:1rotfl:

Seriously there has got to be a way to look good in humidity. The wet cat look is so 'yesterday'. Hmmm when I think about it my wet cat look isn't so scrawny looking anymore either.

Gotta find a waterproof hair style.

[Rokinronda]

Obviously, I have natural curly hair. Of course I wanted straight hair. I used to fight it and hot iron, steam, pull, straighten. An hour later the ringlets would reappear! It was a useless never ending battle. It is so much easier to let it do whatever it wants. Golf cart hair is the worst!!! Men have it so much easier. Keep it short or shave it off!! At this point in life, WHO CARES!! Whatever your 'do', just be you! :icon_wink:

[Just Susan]

I went to that website Shirlee. They have some very interesting items there.

I think what I am going to do is check around here for a store where I could go in and try one on. Is there such a place in TV or nearby? We will be there in Feb.

I am not in any hurry, cause it won't be humid here till next summer.

Thanks for the lead. Have you used it?

[Shirleevee]

I went to that website Shirlee. They have some very interesting items there.

I think what I am going to do is check around here for a store where I could go in and try one on. Is there such a place in TV or nearby? We will be there in Feb.

I am not in any hurry, cause it won't be humid here till next summer.

Thanks for the lead. Have you used it?

I am in GREAT hair NY at the moment. I am itching to find a shop to try one of these. I guess I can wait too. Arriving in TV shortly and glad to read that the humidity isn't a problem yet. :)

[Shirleevee]

Obviously, I have natural curly hair. Of course I wanted straight hair. I used to fight it and hot iron, steam, pull, straighten. An hour later the ringlets would reappear! It was a useless never ending battle. It is so much easier to let it do whatever it wants. Golf cart hair is the worst!!! Men have it so much easier. Keep it short or shave it off!! At this point in life, WHO CARES!! Whatever your 'do', just be you! :icon_wink:

Oh Ronda, if I had your hair, I wouldn't even think of something like this. Your hair is great. All I want is a little fluff, as I say to my granddaughter, (who has hair like yours), "wanna share"? :)

[Just Susan]

Look what I found for the "heat" issue.
http://www.wigs.com/product_info.php?products_id=3640

They also have how to videos on the far right side of the site page.

[Rokinronda]

I have shared! Locks of Love, about 8 years ago. I think a girl trip to a wig shop would be fun!!! Maybe we can do this some day as a group, then lunch, or vise versa. My friend in RIs daughter donates every year. Of course her hair grows like a weed!!! Mine just falls out.

[Just Susan]

Wigs as an excuse to go to lunch...yeaaa. Excellent idea.

[graciegirl]

Do you know about the web site PaulaYoung.com?....(I think).I bought several wigs from Paula Young on line, not expensive and not bad. (After looking like Mr. Clean without them a few years back. I would wear hoop earrings around the house with my orange skin from adriamicin(sp?) and my bald noggin and my family would tease me...) The wigs are hot. Some are more "airy" than others.

Glad to be here. Glad my hair has returned from vacation. This is so much fun. So fun to talk about anything.

[Shirleevee]

GG,

I bought a clip-on hair piece from Paula Young and it is really nice. Problem? My hair is so fine (when it's humid), that the clip doesn't stay in my hair. It works fine when there is no humidity.

Ronda & Susan, lunch sounds great!

[Just Susan]

See, that is what I think will happen to me Shirlee. I'll walk out on the dance floor with a full head of well coiffed hair and minutes later return a wet cat that got caught in a lawn mower.

Lunch for all of us who are trying to hold on to "remember when".

[graciegirl]

See, that is what I think will happen to me Shirlee. I'll walk out on the dance floor with a full head of well coiffed hair and minutes later return a wet cat that got caught in a lawn mower.

Lunch for all of us who are trying to hold on to "remember when".

Almost everyone gets all sweaty and a bit bedraggled except that danged Rhonda. I believe she is a droid. She is always lookin' great out there, a boppin' and a groovin'. If I didn't like her so much....................

[Barefoot]

Susan, wet cat caught in a lawn mower, very descriptive. :yuck:

I find that the longer I'm in TV, the less concerned I am about having my hair look good! I highly recommend baseball caps and golf visors .. I always use them for bad hair days.

[Just Susan]

Brown paper bags work well too, or so I have heard!

[Barefoot]

Brown paper bags work well too, or so I have heard!


They're especially good if you haven't had enough sleep and want to hide the dark circles. Multi purpose.

[Just Susan]

...and when it is dark enough, that no one can see you, you can use the paper bag to carry your stuff home from the Square. Very versatile.

[Barefoot]

There is a product advertised on television for hair removal called Smooth Away.
www.getsmoothaway.com :rolleyes:
It looks like a good product and I'm planning to order it. Just wondering if any girls out there have tried it?

P.S. I'm still loving my gel nails.

[chelsea24]

There is a product advertised on television for hair removal called Smooth Away.
www.getsmoothaway.com :rolleyes:
It looks like a good product and I'm planning to order it. Just wondering if any girls out there have tried it?

P.S. I'm still loving my gel nails.

Hahaha! :laugh: You're getting a lot of traction out of those nails, GF!

I have not tried getsmoothaway, but I love, LOVE, my Pedegg. I think that's what it's called. Hope I'm not naming a sex toy of any kind? :shrug::a20:

[tucson]

BAD, Barefoot, BAD, BAD, BAD...

I will try to resist this thread.

But you know that - like my screen name says - I will, in fact, be back.

OK. I must confess. One of my biggest fears about living in TV for long periods of time is that I will have to leave my hairdresser. She is one heck of a chemist. She is so good that people are surprised that it is a dye job. The problem is that parts of my hair are snow white (prematurely, of course) and she can make all that go away. But she has to use Wella, in addition to another step or two in the process. Nobody in TV uses Wella. At least, I could not find a place when I was there.

Well, that didn't take long did it?

I'm a hairdresser and I use Wella, you can get it at Sally's.

[Barefoot]

I'm still looking for information on "Smoothaway". I just know someone out there has watched the infomercial on television and fallen under its spell.

Also, the motorized nail cutters for pets they've been advertising, anyone tried those?

And don't tell me I'm watching too much television. I know that already. I never thought I'd be a little old grey-haired lady watching commercials and ordering stuff over the internet. :yuck:

Well, I guess I'm a little old dark-haired lady (thanks to Wella) with lovely gel nails watching commercials.

Chels, what is a Pedegg? It sounds slightly obscene. And yes, I'm getting a lot of mileage out of my new nails. :laugh:

[Just Susan]

Haven't tried Smoothaway never saw the infomercial til just now on line. I think it sounds like sandpaper or a nail file on a pad. Not so sure about that. Is it exfoilation or a good saning that you would get in addition to the hair removal. Skin is more delicate as we age...I don't know...

I use an Epilady http://www.epilady.com/ Have for years. Same results as those claimed for the Smoothaway. Plus no refills to buy.

Now if you still want to try it, I wonder if they might have a booth at the Marion County Markets for TV infomercial items. They do at the Flea Market in Ft. Myers.

Let me know.

[Boomer]

Well, I guess I'm a little old dark-haired lady (thanks to Wella) with lovely gel nails watching commercials.:

Hi Barefoot,

Wella, huh.

Wella Rulz!!!!!!

It is absolutely the only thing that will cover my white hair. Anything else gives it a lovely pink tone because the white is so resistant. I have been springing for Wella for years. When my hair turned pink, or was it mahogany, I broke up with my hairdresser and whatever the heck she used on me. It was in that stage where you need to leave semi-permanent color for permanent color. She kept trying to fix it, but I ran away finally. I hated to do that. I liked her very much as a person, but she failed me as a hairdresser. A girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do, you know.

In fact, Barefoot, I think Wella was one of the very first discussions we ever had in the Girl Talk thread when it started months ago.

For me, it's Wella of a certain kind (the name looks like the word 'cholesterol' but I can't remember what it is) and some highlights and a Goldwell clear over all of it and I can look like my hair is not a dye-job.

Of course, it costs me a blue fortune, and my hair grows so fast, I am there all the time. Maybe I should just go with blue hair instead of spending a blue fortune every month.

It sure is a pain to try to look like you have done absolutely nothing to your hair.

I think maybe I need to get over it. But that transition period is so hard to go through. I will probably be an old, old, old lady, shriveled up beyond recognition, but still thinking my hair looks so naturally young. (I am so pathetic sometimes. Oh well, at least I know that about myself.)

I got an email the other day from a friend who is making the changeover. And guess what. -- I am supposed to tell her if it looks like :censored: Like I'm going to do that. Uh huh. One time I had somebody ask me to let her know if her black, black dye-job started to look like shoe polish. Oh Barefoot, I just cannot tell all these people the truth. Even if they ask me to. They would not speak to me ever again. That's just the way Girl Talk works sometimes.

So anyway, there I went again, singing the praises of Wella. But once you have been saved from pink, or was it mahogany hair, you are eternally grateful to that which rescued you.

Boomer

[graciegirl]

Bad news for dark hair dye users. Good medical research has recently concluded that dark hair color is indeed a carcinogen and the occurence of lymphoma is increased by 28% in those woman who have used dark dyes since 1981. Helene colors her hair and we just discussed yesterday her going blonde.

When she came off chemo the oncologist said to NOT dye her hair for two years after and I was so frightened I didn't ask any questions. Now I am concerned again.

Has anyone else read that paper? It was published recently.

http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/578427

[Barefoot]

GG: That is bad news indeed. I've suspected hair dye can't be good for me, using it for so many years, leaking all those chemicals into my scalp. But I've buried my head in the sand, (or in the dye bottle).

Boomer, what are we going to do?

[nONIE]

Being a dark headed person I am very concerned also. I heard something about this quite a few years ago. I know my sister-in-law uses some kind of natural herbal dye, Ill try to find out what it is but believe me it doesnt look that great!
Are we all going to have to become blondes?

Good thing my sister-in-law is not on this site!:rolleyes:

[Just Susan]

Nonie I did like you and the others, I knew it was dangerous and chose color over being grey. Vanity...sigh...oh well there are so many things that can give you cancer in the world what's one more?

As to the blonde thing...my mother taught her girls that women don't go grey, they go blond...we always listen to our mother.;)

[renielarson]

I'm so happy I don't have to color my hair yet. It's surprising because my mother and grandmothers were coloring their hair by the age I am now. Guess I should count my lucky stars.

[ConeyIsBabe]

My best girlfriend in Miami is my age (70) and she has snow white hair which she keeps very short (like mine) and it looks very striking...... really flattering !! I think a stylish haircut is more important than the color :clap2:

[renielarson]

I agree with snow white hair looking stunning. Bright white hair is shockingly striking.

However, not all white hair is "snow white". There are some that are more gray dull and some yellowish. Neither are flattering, in my opinion.

I agree a good, stylish haircut is essential but the tone of gray hair can take the focus away from the cut.

Not many woman are blessed with the beautiful snow white "purist" hair. I hope I am but it's still way too soon to tell.

[JoC]

'MAYA ANGELOU'S'

BEST POEM EVER


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
enough
money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her own,
even if she never wants to or needs to...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
something
perfect to wear if the employer,
or date of her dreams
wants to see her in an hour...


A WOMAN SHOULD
HAVE ..
a youth she's content to leave behind....


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .
a past juicy
enough that she's looking forward to
retelling it in her
old age....
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..
one friend who
always makes her laugh.. and one who lets her cry...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
a goo d piece
of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her
family...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..
eight
matching plates, wine glasses with stems,
and a recipe for
a meal,
that will make her guests feel honored...


A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
a feeling of
control over her destiny..


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD
KNOW...
how to fall in love without losing herself..


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to quit
a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend
without;
ruining the friendship...


EVERY WOMAN
SHOULD KNOW...
when to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK
AWAY...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
that she can't change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
that her
childhood may not have been perfect...but it's over...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
what she
would and wouldn't do for love or more...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW....
how to live
alone... even if she doesn't like it...


EVERY
WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. .
whom she can trust,
whom she can't,
and why she shouldn't take it personally...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
where to
go...
be it to her best friend's kitchen table..
or a
charming Inn in the woods....
when her soul needs
soothing...


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW..
What she can and can't accomplish in a day...
a
month...and a year...


AND
REMEMBER:

GOOD FRIENDS ARE LIKE STARS.

YOU DON'T ALWAYS SEE THEM,

BUT YOU ALWAYS KNOW THEY ARE
THERE!!!!!!


Be yourself...everyone else is
already
taken.

[KathieI]

Thanks JoC, wonderful poem. I'm gonna save it on my hard drive, its a great reminder for women...

[sunflower3630]

Bad news for dark hair dye users. Good medical research has recently concluded that dark hair color is indeed a carcinogen and the occurence of lymphoma is increased by 28% in those woman who have used dark dyes since 1981. Helene colors her hair and we just discussed yesterday her going blonde.

When she came off chemo the oncologist said to NOT dye her hair for two years after and I was so frightened I didn't ask any questions. Now I am concerned again.

Has anyone else read that paper? It was published recently.

http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/578427

Well, GG, this is certainly not good news. I had been coloring my hair dark for several years, but in Oct '04 I stopped and let my hair go back to it's natural state. I had heard that dark dye was carcinogenic, and I thought it was a good time to stop since I was retiring the end of that year and moving to FL shortly thereafter. Well, I've been grey now for 4 years, but I really got so tired of the unmanageability of my hair, and tired of how the color seemed to make me look "washed out". Since I hadn't heard any more negative reports about dark hair dye, I decided I'd go back and take those extra 10 years off by coloring my hair again. In fact, I just did it again earlier this afternoon. Then I came on here and look what I've found! Boy oh boy, not good. I guess you've helped me make another decision. Time to put the bottle down (hair dye, silly, not that!) Thank you for letting us know that the dangers are real and do still exist. Having lost both parents to different types of cancers, the warning has been heard loud and clear! Thanks, GG!

[Boomer]

Re. this hair dye thing: I have Googled the heck out of it. There is a lot of information out there on the studies.

But I have not Googled those studies as much as I have Googled the HRT studies of 2002 I think it was. There have been some follow-ups to those. And some books written about them.

When I make a decision, I gather as much information as I can stand to gather and then I make the decision and then I hope it's the right one for me.

And JoC,

What a great poem. I don't know how I missed that one. Thank you.

Boomer

[Barefoot]

When I make a decision, I gather as much information as I can stand to gather and then I make the decision and then I hope it's the right one for me.

And JoC,
What a great poem. I don't know how I missed that one. Thank you.
Boomer


Boomer, when you gather your information about hair dye and make a decision, inquiring minds want to know the result. Please keep us posted.

I agree, JoC, great poem! I find it very soothing.

[ConeyIsBabe]

So, here I am sitting in front of my computer... at TOTV.... looking out the French Doors at the leaves falling....... and in a sunbeam shining through the glass - I see many particles of ......... DUST !!! OMG! That's what I'm breathing in ?

Sorry to confess...... I don't ever dust anything :eek: but maybe it's time to start ? ya think? Here's where I need some advice, please........ how, or what is the best tool to use ? I've been seeing on television commercials those telescoping Swiffer dust thingies with disposable pads or do you use a spray with a cloth, ? (Don't tell me you have a "maid".... cuz that's gonna be me :yuck: )

DUSTING 101 tips please ........... :yuck:

[graciegirl]

Glad to change the subject. I just got a new swiffer dust mop for here in TV and although the floor looked O.K., it sure picked up a lot.

Boomer. When you are googling, check JAMA.

[Barefoot]

Dust if you must, but wouldn't it be better
To paint a picture, or write a letter,
Bake a cake, or plant a seed;
Ponder the difference between want and need?

Dust if you must, but there's not much time,
With rivers to swim and mountains to climb;
Music to hear, and books to read;
Friends to cherish and life to lead.

Dust if you must, but the world's out there
With the sun in your eyes, and the wind in your hair;
A flutter of snow, a shower of rain,
This day will not come around again.

Dust if you must, but bear in mind,
Old age will come and it's not kind.
And when you go (and go you must)
You, yourself, will make more dust.

Author Unknown

[Whalen]

Well said, as if I needed more excuses.:1rotfl:

[Shirleevee]

Love my Swiffer products...Love, "dust if you must", more.
Thank you Bare!:a040:

[Just Susan]

Dust if you must, but wouldn't it be better
To paint a picture, or write a letter,
Bake a cake, or plant a seed;
Ponder the difference between want and need?

Dust if you must, but there's not much time,
With rivers to swim and mountains to climb;
Music to hear, and books to read;
Friends to cherish and life to lead.

Dust if you must, but the world's out there
With the sun in your eyes, and the wind in your hair;
A flutter of snow, a shower of rain,
This day will not come around again.

Dust if you must, but bear in mind,
Old age will come and it's not kind.
And when you go (and go you must)
You, yourself, will make more dust.

Author Unknown

'Tis my theme, this poem. Housework is such a bore.
I, like some of my friends, claim that ... "In my house you can eat of my floor" but I also add ... "and you will be full!!" :icon_wink:

[Barefoot]

I'm noticing that when the weather is cool in TV, activity on TOTV really increases. And it sure is cold today. :cold:

Well, it is cold for TV. In Canada, we'd call this weather tropical.

Does anyone know where I can buy an inexpensive twin bed set? I found one on Craig's List, but they're not returning my calls. Nothing at Bargains and Treasures right now.

Do you know of any other good internet sites?

[nONIE]

Bare,
We purchased our King size Bed at 1-2-3 beds on 44l in Leesburg. It was a Serta, extremely comfortable and very inexpensive compared to other furniture and bedding stores.

It cant hurt to give them a call and ask!

[Barefoot]

Good suggestion, 1-2-3 Beds, thanks. I'll try them.

I was supposed to be shopping yesterday for a twin bedroom set (guests coming). But instead I bought a Wii. ;)

Nonie, I will miss going to church with you today at SS.

[nONIE]

Ill miss you too Bare! Pray for me, its sooooo cold and dark up here!!!!:sad:

[Barefoot]

Interesting about weather in TV. When it is in the low 60s, the Dog Park is usually deserted. People stay indoors a lot. Yet if they were at home, in the northern States, they'd consider 60 balmy and be running around loving it.

I can't figure out what kind of clothes to buy. One week it can be 85 degrees and the next week in the 60s, and much colder at night. I guess plenty of shawls would work!

We live in lotus land and it is truly wonderful here.

[Barefoot]

We bought a Wii Console this weekend ... couldn't find Wii Fit. But we have the Sport's CDs which are lots of fun. I didn't realize how uncoordinated I am. Hopefully that will improve with practice.

We can hardly wait to get the Wii Fit!

[Barefoot]

Beady said Coldwater Creek is coming to TV ... Another new store to open in the Fall! I also really like Chico's at SS.

I'm tired of shopping in teenager stores. The above stores offer clothes that actually fit women.

And your favorite store is ______________?

[nONIE]

Beady said Coldwater Creek is coming to TV ... Another new store to open in the Fall! I also really like Chico's at SS.

I'm tired of shopping in teenager stores. The above stores offer clothes that actually fit women.

And your favorite store is ______________?

Bare, I wont even mention it because it is a teenager store, but fortunately they do have bigger sizes. Suits me just fine, Im a teenager in an old ladies body. :1rotfl:

[Barefoot]

Thanks Homeball, I love to get those shopping internet sites. I like Liz Claiborne. So far I'm too repressed to do anything but look at the pictures of clothes. I've come close to ordering from Coldwater Canyon; still I hesitate. But soon, soon.

I'm hoping to do some Christmas shopping on line this year, if I can figure out sites I can trust.

[Whalen]

Thanks Homeball, I love to get those shopping internet sites. I like Liz Claiborne. So far I'm too repressed to do anything but look at the pictures of clothes. I've come close to ordering from Coldwater Canyon; still I hesitate. But soon, soon.

I'm hoping to do some Christmas shopping on line this year, if I can figure out sites I can trust.

I actually posted this site. Got confused, didn't realize I was logged in as Homeball, my other half.
Sorry.

However, I have been ordering from Liz for about 6 years and have been very pleased.
Usually buy sales & clearance and have gotten some really nice buys.

Service is good and they have some really good promotions and sales.

Happy shopping,
Gail:smiley:

[Barefoot]

I actually posted this site. Got confused, didn't realize I was logged in as Homeball, my other half.
Sorry.

However, I have been ordering from Liz for about 6 years and have been very pleased.
Usually buy sales & clearance and have gotten some really nice buys.

Service is good and they have some really good promotions and sales.

Happy shopping,
Gail:smiley:

Do you find that their sizes run "true"? Or do you find them either smaller or more generous?

[Boomer]

Coldwater Creek is my favorite store. But I hate to shop. A couple of years ago, I made a great connection with a woman who works there. I only go in maybe three times a year and I always call first to see when she will be working. I tell her what I am looking for and she has things ready for me to try on. That's how I like to shop. Fast.

I have to show you this top from Coldwater Creek in case you are looking for something to wear under jackets. I have 2 or 3 of these in different colors. The neckline is nice, not too low or too high. The fabric holds its shape. It is not 2 sizes bigger by the end of the day. This is a nice basic to have in the closet. And the touch of lace around the bottom gives it a little pizazz.

http://www.coldwatercreek.com/Products/Product.aspx?productid=37285&ensembleid=43111

Boomer

[Boomer]

This is a morning addition to that little "Ode to Coldwater Creek" that I wrote here last night. A few more things about CC.........

I like to pretend that their sizes are like others, but sometimes I wonder if they could be just a tiny bit bigger. (Not that that's a bad thing, you know.) I also suspect that their mirrors may be designed to make us look skinnier. (Not that that's a bad thing either.) I really don't know if either of these two irresponsible statements I am making here before 7:00 AM has any remote basis in fact. I just know that I feel better about myself after I shop at Coldwater Creek.

CC is definitely not a teenybopper store. Teenybopper stores are even aggravating to my teenybopper granddaughter. She prefers NOT to dress like a, um, how should I say it, uh, hmmmm, -- streetwalker. In fact, she even rants about it sometimes. (We think ranting is a genetic predisposition.) Anyway, teenage girls who want to look stylish but keep it covered up a little have bigger problems shopping than we do. But that's a completely different topic - thread - soapbox - whatever.

Boomer

[Barefoot]

Thanks Boomer. I suspected the CC sizes were "generous" to give us a false sense of being petite again.

[Whalen]

Do you find that their sizes run "true"? Or do you find them either smaller or more generous?


Sizes tend to be "true" to generous, not a bad thing.
Good thing is that you can try them on in the store to get a idea of sizing.

[Barefoot]

Yes, I get the acrylic nails. Full set of french tips. It takes about 40 min. But I'm there longer because I get the pedicure too. Great fun! :laugh:

I've now had artificial nails for over a month (the first time ever). I just love them. For the first time in my life, my nails always look nice.

My new nails are gel and I have french tips. I know that there are also acrylic and solar nails and something called pink and white.

Can anyone explain to me what all those terms mean? I asked them to explain at the Nail Salon but there is a language barrier and I'm not understanding why a person would choose one type over another.

[chelsea24]

Bare! Put those peckers away! Never would have let you get your nails done if I knew you were going to obsess on them! :1rotfl:

p.s. You nails look beautiful. I don't know the difference. I just know the acrylic are cheaper! :shrug:

[Barefoot]

Chels, I have an obsessive need to research everything. I can't buy a fly swatter without researching all the different types and prices.

I drive myself crazy. I'm trying to quit.

[Peachie]

Chels, I have an obsessive need to research everything. I can't buy a fly swatter without researching all the different types and prices.

I drive myself crazy. I'm trying to quit.

Out of curiousity, Barefoot, are you an engineer? ;) I hear they are afflicted with the same qualities. (Or should I say blessed?)

[Barefoot]

Out of curiousity, Barefoot, are you an engineer? ;) I hear they are afflicted with the same qualities. (Or should I say blessed?)

No Peachie, I'm worse than an engineer, I'm a Gemini. :yuck: We have split personalities.

Half of me analyzes everything to death, and the other half is a free spirit who looks on in horror and has no time or patience for that crap. I have constant boxing matches in my head. :boxing2:

I guess that is why I stumble around with a dazed look on my face most of the time. :laugh:

[Just Susan]

Oh dear friend we are going to have so very much fun together. I am ROTFLMAO right now. :1rotfl::a20::1rotfl:
Which is another good thing.

[Barefoot]

I just tried a new Nails place. It opened a month ago. Golf cart accessible. Located beside Bonefish Grill in Buffalo Ridge on 466. I used Cindy, and I think she does a good job. Competition for Hollywood Nails for sure.

Nails and Beyond
3606 Wedgewood Lane
352-753-9222

This time I got pink and white nails. I just started this whole artificial nail thing in October; and I sure do like having nice nails. (Chels thinks I'm suffering from a serious nail obsession. I fear she may be correct.)

Hahaha Chels, I also got nail art on my toes.

Sitting here admiring my nails
Bare

[chelsea24]

Bare! Calling all of Bare's dear friends! We must stop her! We must hold an intervention! I can see her being taken away now screaming "Naillllllsssss!"

:1rotfl: Ooooo, and now a picture on your toesies! (It's best to humor her in times like this.)


pssstttttt..... people. Let's stop her before she pedicures again! The next thing you know she'll be going for a Swiss Bikini Wax and a resounding "Yeoowwwwwwwww" will be heard 'round The Villages! :eek:

[Just Susan]

Oh my goodness, oh my goodness, Chels, she's on the ledge...I'm going to try talking her down...she keeps mumbling something about ..."not only pretty but good for mountain climbing". Geesh she is half way up Katie Belles outer wall.
Help, we need help. Chels and I can not tame this wild woman alone...oh wait, look, Chico's is having their After Christmas Sale...Bare, darling I can see the cutest pink tunic in the window, it will match your nail job, I just know it will. Come on down dear, before someone else buys it.... (shhh I think it's working)

[Barefoot]

Chels, not sure what good a bikini wax would be since I retired my binkini in
1974! People had started complaining. :laugh:

Susan, did I just hear the magic words "Sale at Chico's"? I love that store.
OK, no more nail art, I need to save my $s for Chico!

[Just Susan]

I know Bare that is how I got you down from the roof. I love their sales. Wait til Coldwater Creek gets to TV. We are going to have so much fun....Chargggggggggge:crap2: Ooooohhhh that's right it is a new economy...okay so cashhhhhhhhhhh :yuck:

[chelsea24]

"If you tag it, I'll bag it!" That's my motto! Onto sale-ing GF's! :coolsmiley:

[grandma-annie]

Barefoot, I love your nails.... saw them while we were playing Mah jongg... grandma annie

[ouma1938]

Bare, I'm heartbroken, I can't see your nails. You'll just have to keep doing it until I can get down there. Sorry Chels I know you succeeded in bringing her around and focusing on Chicos and here I go trying to undo all your hard work.

[Barefoot]

Barefoot, I love your nails.... saw them while we were playing Mah jongg... grandma annie

Annie, thank you for the compliment on what? .. On my Nails!!!!!!!!!!! :laugh: Hahaha ... Chels, eat your heart out!
And Annie, I'm sorry you're leaving, hurry back!

Ouma , we will have lots of fun things to do when you arrive like a book club and the dog park and much, much more!

Shopping these days is amazing .. so many bargains. I am always surprised at the low prices in Florida.

[chelsea24]

Bare, I'm heartbroken, I can't see your nails. You'll just have to keep doing it until I can get down there. Sorry Chels I know you succeeded in bringing her around and focusing on Chicos and here I go trying to undo all your hard work.

No fear there Ouma! Bare will keep doing it all right! :loco: Susan! Help! Bare's talking nails again! Big hug to you Ms. Foot! :laugh:

[Just Susan]

Actually, and I am really sorry about this Chels, but, Bare why don't we make an appointment for the works while I am visiting? I have pretty good natural nails, so don't want acrylics, but a manicure/pedicure might be fun.:coolsmiley:

[chelsea24]

Invasion of the Body Snatchers! :eek: POD PEOPLE! I'M SURROUNDED BY POD PEOPLE!

[graciegirl]

Chelsea Marie! Relax.

It is just the Stepford affect. It happens to everyone who moves to TV...eventually.

I am waiting for my boobs to grow.

[nONIE]

OMG! Im so lost in this thread, but did you mention nails? Mine are so short, unmanicured, unpolished and ugly:yuck:

Will I be accepted in TV? will people like me? Im feeling very insecure at the moment!:undecided:

Body snatchers ! Pod people! That movie left a lasting effect on me Im still worried theres a large seed pod under my bed!!!!HELP!!!

[Barefoot]

Actually, and I am really sorry about this Chels, but, Bare why don't we make an appointment for the works while I am visiting? I have pretty good natural nails, so don't want acrylics, but a manicure/pedicure might be fun.:coolsmiley:


I'm thinking a spa day where we could pamper ourselves all day long. :coolsmiley: I've never done that, and it's about time!!

[chelsea24]

I'm thinking a spa day where we could pamper ourselves all day long. :coolsmiley: I've never done that, and it's about time!!

Yes, a spa day Bare, my dear friend. Where you can relax. From what??????
GETTING YOUR NAILS DONE! Hahahaha! :1rotfl:

[Barefoot]

Yes, a spa day Bare, my dear friend. Where you can relax. From what??????
GETTING YOUR NAILS DONE! Hahahaha!

That is funny Chels, you're right. When I worked at IBM and needed it, I never went to a spa.

Now I'm on vacation for the rest of my life, I have to go to a spa and relax. :laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:

[Just Susan]

Taking good care of oneself can be very tiring Chels, all that shopping and exercising and dieting and facials and make-overs and hair-coloring and nip-tucks, very tiring. One needs a Spa day to recover. It's not easy being a trophy wife in Stepford.

Make the reservations Bare.

...and Nonie you are probably one of the most accepted members of TOTV and TV. Goodness girl everyone loves you.


....(okay so the only one I do is shop...but that can be tiring)

[chelsea24]

Hey Bare, any news on the nail front???? We haven't had an update in the last, oh, I'd say, 20 minutes! :1rotfl::popcorn:

[Barefoot]

Chels is poking fun at Barefoot. Again. ;)


Chels is even mocking the fact that Bare took up mahjong just to display her bootiful new artificial nails. :evil6:


But we all know the truth. Chels pretends to jest about Bare's nails. But in actual fact, she is excruciatingly jealous of Bare's pink and whites!


chilout

[Whalen]

Liz Claiborne on line is having a great sale.
Clearance section has lightweight summer/spring clothes at great prices.
Have ordered from them many times and the best part is that the clothes come wrapped in plastic straight from the warehouse.
No need to mess up you nails going through the racks looking for a bargain.
Happy shopping!
:smiley:

http://www.lizclaiborne.com/category/index.jsp?categoryId=3051391

[sschuler1]

Don't let them make fun of you, Bare! I love my pink and whites!!! :coolsmiley:

[Barefoot]

Don't let them make fun of you, Bare! I love my pink and whites!!! :coolsmiley:

Haha Chels, another vote for pink and whites! :coolsmiley:

Whalen, thanks for the Liz Claiborne site, I've put it in my favourites. Maybe when I lose 12 lbs on my January diet, I'll reward myself with some new clothes.

Anyone else starting a January diet? So far I'm just thinking about it, do I ever hate dieting.

[Just Susan]

Count me in...if I don't do something, you will think I am an escaped balloon from the Macy's Day Parade when we arrive in Feb. I am seriously mourning the death of my metabolism. :ohdear::ohdear::ohdear:

[renielarson]

Thank you Whalen. Liz is my favorite brand of clothing and I'm checking out that site from top to bottom.

Bare...I gained 5 pounds over the holidays. It's time I get back into my normal eating pattern and lose that extra weight PLUS about 20 more pounds.

[KathieI]

Lose some for me, Bright. This eating out in TV is killing me,,,, not only in my budget but on my hips!! Should we have a contest? Maybe I'll have some incentive then.

[renielarson]

You got a deal Kathie!

Want to check in with weight loss every Sunday? Incentives are a good way to lose and if we are having to report in every week that might help me. Game?

I'll weigh myself in the morning...:cus:

[KathieI]

Game!!! :yuck::yuck::yuck:
do we have a fainting smiley? whew, wait till I stand on that scale!!!

[Whalen]

Thank you Whalen. Liz is my favorite brand of clothing and I'm checking out that site from top to bottom.

Bare...I gained 5 pounds over the holidays. It's time I get back into my normal eating pattern and lose that extra weight PLUS about 20 more pounds.

My diet starts tomorrow too (20+ the holiday add on) , but don't let this stop the shopping.

Yesterday I ordered from the clearance section:

Terry sweat shiirt
jeans
cargo pants
3 blouses
2 t shirts and
a sweater

Drum roll please.........$109.09:pepper2::pepper2::pepper2:

[Barefoot]

I think we should check in here every Friday with the amount of weight lost that week. Not mentioning what we actually weigh, OMG that would be too scary, but how many pounds we've lost.

And perhaps we should each set a goal of how many pounds we want to lose and a time frame. I'd love to lose 10 lbs in 4 days! But my days of starving myself skinny are past. I think that a pound a week is achievable and will still allow us some meals out.

Anyone know of a good appetite suppressant? And don't say will power or green tea. If you say that, you definitely just don't understand!

[nONIE]

I am actually taking an appetite supressant and fat burner combination.

This was my dirty little secret but what the heck for friends, Ill tell anything.

Its called Anoretix and can only be ordered online. I have had no side effects at all and have been taking them for at least 3 months now. you can find out all about it online. I can tell you one thing for sure, IT WORKS!!!

[KathieI]

Nonie, I'll be right over.... will you share some with your best g/f??? I'm desperate!! I'll give you some Prozac!!!

[nONIE]

mY PLEASURE!! Keep the prozac, Ive got my own! LOL LOL

[Casino]

Nonie,

As for the Anoretix....any jitters????

I have read the articles about this pill and it seems that it is high recommended. How much weight have you lost?

Thanks
Joann

[nONIE]

Joanne P,

Absolutely no jitters at all, in fact no anything! However, I only take half the dosage they recommend per day.

I have not lost alot of weight, cant say a number because I refuse to weigh myself. I know by how my clothes fit. But I definitely have gone down a size.

I dont plan on staying on these pills forever, just a little while longer especially since The holidays were not kind to me in the weight department, but that was my fault.:(

[Barefoot]

I was talking to a woman today who just got a Roomba .. that is the little vacuum cleaner that is like a robot, it cleans by itself. :laugh: She loves her new Roomba and says it works very well.

Now this sounds too good to be true. A vacuum cleaner that cleans by itself and goes back to its home base to be recharged when its battery gets low. How cute it that! I love it.

I definitely want a Roomba. Does anyone out there have a Roomba? I'd love to hear some feedback.

[uujudy]

I was talking to a woman today who just got a Roomba .. that is the little vacuum cleaner that is like a robot, it cleans by itself. :laugh: She loves her new Roomba and says it works very well.

Now this sounds too good to be true. A vacuum cleaner that cleans by itself and goes back to its home base to be recharged when its battery gets low. How cute it that! I love it.

I definitely want a Roomba. Does anyone out there have a Roomba? I'd love to hear some feedback.

Bare, I have a Roomba. It has good points and bad points. First, though, you should know that it is not a vacuum cleaner. It's more like a carpet sweeper. It has a brush that sweeps lint and debis into a little cup, but it doesn't vacuum. It works better on floors than it does on carpets. I have a huge kitchen floor in Utah, and it's wonderful for the kitchen and back hallway. It tends to get stuck on throw rugs, so you have to pick them up before you use it. You also have to make sure your electrical cords for lamps and computers are off the floor, or it can pull the lamp down. When it bumps into something it turns around and goes in another direction. If you have fragile vases and pots on the floor you should protect them. It's a lot louder than I expected it would be. I thought I could turn it on and go to bed and get up to a sparkling clean house. Believe me, you can't sleep while it's working. Rrrrrmmmmmmm, bang, bang, rrrrrrrmmmmmm, bang, bang bang.....

On the other hand, after you have removed your throw rugs, the kitty dishes, looped your computer cord over the chair, lifted your lamp cords off the floor, and moved your bar stools to another room, it works all by itself while you're taking a shower, and it really does go back to the charger and plug itself in.

[SUNNYMARYANN]

I think I am going to enjoy reading your posts. Just this morning I saw my mother in the bathroom mirror and thought it's time to color the hair again.

I hid my bathroom scale way in the back of the closet before Christmas so I could enjoy the butter cookies and fruit cakes. Pulled it out this morning and I didnt gain a thing! So maybe all the bending and stretching and putting decorations up and taking them down did some good. But what I am not revealing is just how much overweight I am. Tomorrow tomorrow I will diet and get on the exercise bike. Tomorrow i will go to the pool. Maybe.

Have you tried online researching on line whether you could oder the Wella product you like? Seems like you can do anything on line now.

Beautiful day in Louisiana but wishing I were in TV.

[Barefoot]

Bare, I have a Roomba. It has good points and bad points. First, though, you should know that it is not a vacuum cleaner. It's more like a carpet sweeper. It has a brush that sweeps lint and debis into a little cup, but it doesn't vacuum. It works better on floors than it does on carpets. I have a huge kitchen floor in Utah, and it's wonderful for the kitchen and back hallway. It tends to get stuck on throw rugs, so you have to pick them up before you use it. You also have to make sure your electrical cords for lamps and computers are off the floor, or it can pull the lamp down. When it bumps into something it turns around and goes in another direction. If you have fragile vases and pots on the floor you should protect them. It's a lot louder than I expected it would be. I thought I could turn it on and go to bed and get up to a sparkling clean house. Believe me, you can't sleep while it's working. Rrrrrmmmmmmm, bang, bang, rrrrrrrmmmmmm, bang, bang bang.....

On the other hand, after you have removed your throw rugs, the kitty dishes, looped your computer cord over the chair, lifted your lamp cords off the floor, and moved your bar stools to another room, it works all by itself while you're taking a shower, and it really does go back to the charger and plug itself in.

UUJudy, thanks for all the great comments. Your post was very descriptive and your comments about the noise the Roomba makes .. very funny.

The Roomba website has about ten different models listed, and a couple of the robots are (supposedly) for pet hair. I'm wondering what model you have. Also, the website said Roombas are programmed to avoid cords, etc. But I didn't believe it.

I'm not sure there is a Roomba in my future after all.

[uujudy]

UUJudy, thanks for all the great comments. Your post was very descriptive and your comments about the noise the Roomba makes .. very funny.

The Roomba website has about ten different models listed, and a couple of the robots are (supposedly) for pet hair. I'm wondering what model you have. Also, the website said Roombas are programmed to avoid cords, etc. But I didn't believe it.

I'm not sure there is a Roomba in my future after all.

I'm not sure what model I have (I left it in Utah). It's about 2 years old, and the battery needs to be replaced. I wondered about buying a new battery ($75) or just getting a new, improved Roomba. The Roomba is programmed to avoid stairs, but I don't know how it would avoid cords. Because it will go underneath furniture and into hidden areas (sofa, tables with tablecloths to the floor) I am very careful about getting the lamp cords out of its way. It came with an accessory to keep it from going into another room, but I never installed it -- I put a barstool blockade in the doorway.

The Roomba has a little spinner brush that sweeps the pet hair out of corners and into its path so the hair can get swept up. Maybe the new pet hair models have a larger spinner or a larger debris container? My container can get filled with cat hair before it's finished sweeping the kitchen. (Gosh, I sound like a slob! I really do try to keep the kitchen floor swept! It's a BIG kitchen. The spinner will pull out things that are just underneath the grill on the refrigerator where cat hair and stray bits of cat chow often hide).

As I said, the Roomba has good points and bad points. It works great on bare floors. If you plan to use it mainly on hard floors, you'll be satisfied with the job it does. It can work on carpet, but it has to work harder so the battery charge doesn't last as long. And since it's not a vacuum it doesn't pull dirt out of the carpet -- it just sweeps lint and crumbs (and cat hair) off the surface of the carpet.

[Barefoot]

I just discovered hair coloring that only takes ten minutes. Called "Perfect10". Life just gets better and better.

[nONIE]

Bare, I tried Perfect 10 and I think it only lasted 10 days before the gray came thru. That must be what they meant by perfect 10!!!

I hope you have better luck then I did.

[chelsea24]

Nonie and Bare! My two girls are perfect 10's anyway! Love you both, chels

Wow, bet you didn't expect that! :laugh:

[Barefoot]

Bare, I tried Perfect 10 and I think it only lasted 10 days before the gray came thru.


I don't have any gray, of course, so I won't have that problem. Haha.

So what is a good type of hair coloring to use? Nonie, weren't you recommending a men's hair color product? I would go to a salon, but it takes too long. Beauticians always say that nothing bought in a drug store works properly. Any recommendations appreciated!

I love hearing about new cosmetics and hair products.

Also, my allergies are really acting up .. what is a good allergy pill?

[islandgal]

I color my hair myself every six weeks and have been doing so for years - for about $6. I buy the color ($4.60) and the developer
(a $6 bottle lasts for about 10 applications) at Sally's.
I was lucky enough to have a stylist tell me what color and developer to buy.

Mix the color and developer, apply to dry hair for 30 minutes, shampoo and that's it. Piece of cake. I just go to a stylist to have my hair cut.
I have never had a problem.
Of course, if you highlight, I don't know how that would work.

[nONIE]

Islandgal,

I have tried that too! Can you tell me what brand color you used? I think because my hair is brown, the cgray shows up much faster, but I wish I could find a color that lasts 6 weeks! Especially in this Florida sun which makes it fade much faster.
Of course soon I will be back in the cold dark North and my color wont fade out as fast. What a trade off!:yuck:

[graciegirl]

I don't have any gray, of course, so I won't have that problem. Haha.

So what is a good type of hair coloring to use? Nonie, weren't you recommending a men's hair color product? I would go to a salon, but it takes too long. Beauticians always say that nothing bought in a drug store works properly. Any recommendations appreciated!

I love hearing about new cosmetics and hair products.

Also, my allergies are really acting up .. what is a good allergy pill?

Barefootie,

I color Helene's hair and I use Nice and Easy (Permanent) that says, "really covers the gray" on the front.

If you drink three glasses of Chivas Regal on the rocks, you will find that your allergies will not bother you. In fact nothing will bother you.

(I had to stop that and now take Claritin)

[KathieI]

Barefootie,

I color Helene's hair and I use Nice and Easy (Permanent) that says, "really covers the gray" on the front.

If you drink three glasses of Chivas Regal on the rocks, you will find that your allergies will not bother you. In fact nothing will bother you.

(I had to stop that and now take Claritin)

GG, a woman after my own heart... nothing better than Chivas!!! :agree:
You all may want to try a shampoo that's specially formulated to enhance the color in between colorings. There's many of them out in the market, I like some of the Redken ones (all Redken products are the best, btw -- since I used to work there!!) The best OTC hair colors are Clairol (for reds) and L'Oreal for lasting ability. But they are getting more and more expensive.

I tried the highlighting kits and they worked good but I love the way my colorist foils my hair. She's really creative and its worth the expense for me. I love pampering myself every once in a while.

[Barefoot]

Barefootie,

I color Helene's hair and I use Nice and Easy (Permanent) that says, "really covers the gray" on the front. If you drink three glasses of Chivas Regal on the rocks, you will find that your allergies will not bother you. In fact nothing will bother you.

OK GG, Nice and Easy hair coloring plus three glasses of Chivas Regal!
I think I can handle that. And I really won't care how it turns out. Wiw, what and where is Sallys?

Has anyone found a product that takes away wrinkles and make you look 20years younger? They all claim to do that! And they use models like Diane Keaton to prove it. Of course she is airbrushed and photographed with complimentary lighting. I bought one of the makeup products that Keaton advertises and it was so greasy I had to throw it away.

I think Sally Fields (on Brothers and Sisters on Sunday nights) looks so great for 64.

Oh, and has anyone discovered a product that actually takes away your appetite? Now that would be a money maker! (I think it is called will power, but I've never actually had any of it).

[nONIE]

Bare,

Sally's is next door - just north of Walmart on 44l. There is a small plaza there with a Dollar Tree and Game stop. That is the only Sally's I know of near The Villages.

Sally's is a beauty supply store that sells many products that you cant find at drug stores. They have a large variety of professional hair products and other stuff.

[Barefoot]

I decided to experiment and use the kids at the Salon Professional Hair Academy (teaching facility) for a hair color. Very inexpensive. Wish me luck.

[chelsea24]

I decided to experiment and use the kids at the Salon Professional Hair Academy (teaching facility) for a hair color. Very inexpensive. Wish me luck.

Good Luck Bare! You'll be bald, but at least you'll have pretty nails! Hahaha!:laugh:

[Whalen]

Sam died. His will provided $30,000 for an elaborate funeral. As the
last guests departed the affair, his wife Sarah turned to her oldest
and dearest friend. "Well, I'm sure Sam would be pleased," she said.

"I'm sure you're right," replied Jody, who lowered her voice and leaned
in close. "How much did this really cost?"

"All of it," said Sarah. "Thirty thousand."

"No!" Jody exclaimed. "I mean, it was very nice, but $30,000?"

Sarah answered, "The funeral was $6,500. I donated $500 to the
synagogue. The whisky, wine and snacks were another $500. The rest
went for the Memorial Stone."

Jody computed quickly. "$22,500 for a Memorial Stone? My God, how big
is it?"

"Two and a half carats." :D

[uujudy]

I decided to experiment and use the kids at the Salon Professional Hair Academy (teaching facility) for a hair color. Very inexpensive. Wish me luck.

Bare, we're dying to know! (dyeing? lol) How did your hair color adventure turn out? What did you have done? What did you ask them to do? Did your hair turn out the way you hoped it would? Do you have any photos you can share? Was it really inexpensive? Inquiring minds want to know.

The last time I had my hair colored I asked for subtle highlights. I hoped for thin little SUBTLE highlights all over sort of like you used to get with a "frosting cap." Remember those? They were like shower caps with tiny holes all over and the stylist pulled your hair through with something like a crochet hook? And remember how much it hurt? But the results were usually worth the pain, at least that's how I remember it. I tried to explain it to my young stylist, but she had never heard of a frosting cap. I didn't want her to USE one, but I wanted results like I used to get with it, so I kept repeating the words "subtle" and "highlights."

When she was finished my entire head was a strange, shimmery copper color (much like an astronaut's face mask) with bright white skunk stripes all over the top! WIDE skunk stripes. Yikes! I've been afraid to have it colored again. I don't know what to ask for. Apparently the definitions of subtle and highlights have changed over the years. Does anybody know what the new terminology is?

[Barefoot]

Bare, we're dying to know! (dyeing? lol) How did your hair color adventure turn out? What did you have done? What did you ask them to do? Did your hair turn out the way you hoped it would? Do you have any photos you can share? Was it really inexpensive? Inquiring minds want to know.

The last time I had my hair colored I asked for subtle highlights. I hoped for thin little SUBTLE highlights all over sort of like you used to get with a "frosting cap." Remember those? They were like shower caps with tiny holes all over and the stylist pulled your hair through with something like a crochet hook? And remember how much it hurt? But the results were usually worth the pain, at least that's how I remember it. I tried to explain it to my young stylist, but she had never heard of a frosting cap. I didn't want her to USE one, but I wanted results like I used to get with it, so I kept repeating the words "subtle" and "highlights."

When she was finished my entire head was a strange, shimmery copper color (much like an astronaut's face mask) with bright white skunk stripes all over the top! WIDE skunk stripes. Yikes! I've been afraid to have it colored again. I don't know what to ask for. Apparently the definitions of subtle and highlights have changed over the years. Does anybody know what the new terminology is?


Great Story UU Judy! At least you would stand out in a crowd!! I think most beauticians do "their own thing" regardless of what you request.

I have a sick dog that I can't leave; so I colored my hair at home and used Perfect 10, which only takes 10 minutes. Sadly, if I use a light brown colour my hair turns coal black. And then I'm forced to use my special trick. Put Head and Shoulders on your hair, cover with saran wrap, and it sucks the colour out of your hair.

Of course, then you're back to Square One. There are some downfalls to home coloring.

Next time I'm gonna try the Salon Academy. Apparently they only charge $20 for a hair colour.

[uujudy]

Bare, thanks for the tip! If I had known your special trick I could have used it to suck the shimmery copper color out of my hair. I'll remember it for the next time! (And there's always a next time, isn't there? lol)

I saw on the Today Show that there's a new hair color in a pen. It has a fine point and you can use it to draw highlights on your hair. People are also using it to dye their eyebrows. It sounds great, but (of course) I didn't write down the name.

I'm so sorry your dog is sick. :sad: Hope he's feeling better soon.

[KathieI]

Bare, so sorry to hear about your dog. I hope everything turns out okay. If I can do anything, please let me know.

UU, there are over the counter hair coloring kits that do frosting. I used them a few times and they were great because you can put in as many highlights as you want and position them where you want. Its not hard and it lasts a while. I think the L'oreal or Clairol ones are the best. The new kids are trained only to use foils not the caps any more so they don't get the concept of less is better???

[Barefoot]

I saw on the Today Show that there's a new hair color in a pen. It has a fine point and you can use it to draw highlights on your hair. People are also using it to dye their eyebrows. It sounds great, but (of course) I didn't write down the name.

I'm so sorry your dog is sick. :sad: Hope he's feeling better soon.

Hey UU Judy, If you find out more information about hair color in a pen, please let us know! Sounds like my cup of tea, fast and easy peasy.

My doggie is very sick, it is his time to cross the Rainbow Bridge. I'm just spending a few quiet days with him first. Thanks for your concern.

Kathie, thanks to you also. I know you're a fellow dog lover. It is a sad time, but part of pet ownership.

[schotzyb]

Hey UU Judy, If you find out more information about hair color in a pen, please let us know! Sounds like my cup of tea, fast and easy peasy.

My doggie is very sick, it is his time to cross the Rainbow Bridge. I'm just spending a few quiet days with him first. Thanks for your concern.

Kathie, thanks to you also. I know you're a fellow dog lover. It is a sad time, but part of pet ownership.

So sorry to hear about your dog. Which one is it? It is a part of being a pet owner but it never gets any easier, if anything, it gets harder. If you need anything just yell.

[Boomer]

Barefoot,

I just wanted to say that I am so sorry to hear about your dog. My dog showed up at our back door 15 years ago. Her name is Annie because she was an orphan. But now she is a princess. And she has been a princess since Day 1 with us. But she is growing oh so old. I understand exactly what you are feeling. I know how hard this is for you. Please know that Annie and I send warm, kind thoughts out to you and yours.

Boomer

[KathieI]

Hey UU Judy, If you find out more information about hair color in a pen, please let us know! Sounds like my cup of tea, fast and easy peasy.

My doggie is very sick, it is his time to cross the Rainbow Bridge. I'm just spending a few quiet days with him first. Thanks for your concern.

Kathie, thanks to you also. I know you're a fellow dog lover. It is a sad time, but part of pet ownership.

Bare, I am soooo sorry, I do know how hard this time is. Can I do anything for you? Do you want any company? I'm pretty good, I cry a lot but I can be good support. Let me know please. I'm here for you.

[Barefoot]

I really hadn't planned to talk about Brutus on TOTV. Or anywhere. It just happened. "Girl Talk" is the friendliest place on TOTV that I know. And you are all so kind with your comments. As dog owners, I know you understand completely what I'm experiencing.

It is so hard to make a decision when a dog's quality of life just isn't there any more. That is what I'm struggling with. I have to put on my big girl panties and make the right decision.

Brutus has a brain tumour and started having seizures on Sunday. He is on medication to control the seizures, but of course the brain tumour continues to grow. And the medication has some very nasty side effects. I have to face the fact that Brutus is not enjoying life any more.

But he is still eating and glad to see if I leave and return. Fireboy isn't back in The Villages for three weeks. Of course I want to keep Brutus alive. At times I can convince myself that it isn't time for Brutus to cross the Rainbow Bridge.

But I don't want to be selfish. It is all about whether Brutus can still get some enjoyment from life. I owe it to him to do the right thing. He depends on me. It is hard.

[nONIE]

Bare,

you are such a kind compassionate person, and from my experience, not at all selfish. I know you will make the right decision when the time comes. You will know its time and so will Brutus. Sending you prayers for strength.

[Boomer]

I really hadn't planned to talk about Brutus on TOTV. Or anywhere. It just happened. "Girl Talk" is the friendliest place on TOTV that I know. And you are all so kind with your comments. As dog owners, I know you understand completely what I'm experiencing.

It is so hard to make a decision when a dog's quality of life just isn't there any more. That is what I'm struggling with. I have to put on my big girl panties and make the right decision.

Brutus has a brain tumour and started having seizures on Sunday. He is on medication to control the seizures, but of course the brain tumour continues to grow. And the medication has some very nasty side effects. I have to face the fact that Brutus is not enjoying life any more.

But he is still eating and glad to see if I leave and return. Fireboy isn't back in The Villages for three weeks. Of course I want to keep Brutus alive. At times I can convince myself that it isn't time for Brutus to cross the Rainbow Bridge.

But I don't want to be selfish. It is all about whether Brutus can still get some enjoyment from life. I owe it to him to do the right thing. He depends on me. It is hard.

Barefoot,

I am going to share something with you here that may help. But, up front, I must say to you that if you choose to listen to this, you will cry. I did. But it helped to clarify some things for me, and with the hope that it may help you, too, I am sending it along, as a cyberfriend.

First the backstory:

Yesterday, as I was driving home from the landscaper's place, I was listening to NPR like I always do in the car. The show was Fresh Air and the interview was with a veterinarian who has written a book called Speaking for Spot.

I missed the first part of the show, but I tuned in just before the vet discussed the very issue you are facing. And she addressed it beautifully. She speaks not only as a vet, she also tells us about her experience with her own dogs. And she gives suggestions about how to know when. And I listened. And I cried, just a little bit, tearing up you know. But she answered some things for me.

I have been through this 6 times in my life, and will probably have to face number 7, fairly soon, maybe. Annie is old as I said. And she goes off alone to sleep during the day instead of napping in the rooms where I am. There are other changes, too. I see them. But today she sniffed butts with the neighbors' beagle and seemed to enjoy it. And she looks out the windows sometimes to see what's going on in her territory. She cannot hear anything, but her eyes are still pretty good I think. So even though I know her hip hurts in spite of the medicine she takes, she does have some fun here and there still. But she is old, and growing older fast it seems.

I had planned when I heard this NPR show yesterday to link it into TOTV in the Pets Forum because there are so many dog lovers here, and I thought it might be helpful to someone.

That was before I read your earlier post. When I saw that one, I thought about linking it then. But I was concerned it would seem like it was just too much. Then we left for a while. But when I returned home just now, I looked in and saw your recent post where you share more about what you are facing at this very moment.

And, Barefoot, after reading what you just wrote, I want to offer you this link to listen to only if you feel you can. You will find the part where she speaks of when the time comes. You will cry. I know. I listened though. And I learned some things that will help me when and if we have to decide for Annie.

Barefoot, I offer you this link in the spirit of one dog lover to another. But it will not be easy to listen to. But this vet is one kind and wonderful lady. Hearing her helped me get a little more clarity on the sad thing we sometimes have to do for one of our dearest and very best friends.

If you feel that you are up to it and want to hear from one who knows well about the Rainbow Bridge, just click on "Listen Now." But please understand that I do not mean to be intrusive in any way. It is just that when I saw your last post, I felt I needed to at least offer something that had helped me, on the chance it could help you, too. The part I am talking about is later in the show. I missed the first part. I heard only the part about making the final decision. I think you can skip to that part if you want to listen to it.

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=102105836

Take care, Barefoot. I thought a long time about whether I should send this or not. It is hard. I know. And I understand if you do not want to hear it.

Boomer

Addendum: Barefoot, I just went back into the link and realized that the first part is about cancer in dogs. I did not listen to it, just went long enough to hear what it was about. That part could be particularly difficult for you and I just wanted to make sure I let you know about what was there. I do not want to do anything to make you feel worse.

[Peazoup]

Hi Bare,
Just a little note to you. I am so sorry. And, let me add...could a dog have had a better life? I'm around the corner if you need anything. God bless.

[mom2five]

Bare

I am so sorry to hear about Brutus. I will be thinking of you.

[uujudy]

Oh Bare, I am so sorry to hear that your Brutus has a brain tumor. Please know that we're all here for you, and if you need us for anything just let us know. Sending loving thoughts your way.

[Barefoot]

I want to thank you all for your concern and kind comments. Boomer gave me a link to a very helpful radio program, hopefully she'll post it in the pet forum.

Thanks to Kathie, Judy, Schotzy and Nonie, all pet lovers who understand the pain. And Peazoup and Mom2five, I appreciate your offers of help.

My vet does have a Mobile Vet Service and will come to my house to euthanize Brutus when I decide it is time. I just need to spend some quiet time with him now, before I have to say goodbye.

[Whalen]

So, so sorry, not much else to say.
He'll let you know when it's time.

[islandgal]

Bare -
I am hurting for you. I know how much your precious Brutus means to you.
It is so terribly difficult to lose the unconditional love our pets give us.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

[Karen83]

Bare,

I am so sorry to hear about Brutus. We have lost 2 beloved dogs and our dear Tucker is going on 10 and I am in tears this morning just thinking of what you are going through.

I wish there were words to "make it all better", but of course we all know there are not.

Brutus has been so very fortunate to have loving owners like you and Fireboy.

Karen

[nONIE]

Bare, If you want someone with you when the time comes, please call.

[graciegirl]

( I sent this to Bare and she asked me to post it here and to let you know of Brutus' passing. She will post later, but said that all of your kind thoughts and prayers have meant so much to her and Fireboy and that your kindness has comforted them)



I just returned from my art class at the College and I pass right by where Bare lives when I go down Belvedere Boulevard. She was in my thoughts and I was feeling sad.

I looked up and saw a rainbow right over the area where Bare lives. I am not a person into signs and portents but somehow I knew that It was Brutus telling me that he was alright.

My dearest Bare, that was the first rainbow that I have seen in TV and the timing was very .....spiritual for me. It comforted me and I hope it will comfort you a little. I am thinking of you right now and will continue to think of you. I wish I could take the pain away.



GracieGirl

[katezbox]

:o Yes! I want you all for sisters! I was an only child. Always wanted a sister and now I have so many. Thank you barefoot for starting this forum. Now we need to get onto more subjects! Love you you all. You're purrrrr-fect! :-*

Me too Chels - I am late getting to this forum - so am reading it all at once. Kind of like watching a whole season of Sex and the City in one sitting!

Thanks Barefoot - this is great.

PS - another reason to buy the giant size EVOO :bowdown:

[katezbox]

( I sent this to Bare and she asked me to post it here and to let you know of Brutus' passing. She will post later, but said that all of your kind thoughts and prayers have meant so much to her and Fireboy and that your kindness has comforted them)



I just returned from my art class at the College and I pass right by where Bare lives when I go down Belvedere Boulevard. She was in my thoughts and I was feeling sad.

I looked up and saw a rainbow right over the area where Bare lives. I am not a person into signs and portents but somehow I knew that It was Brutus telling me that he was alright.

My dearest Bare, that was the first rainbow that I have seen in TV and the timing was very .....spiritual for me. It comforted me and I hope it will comfort you a little. I am thinking of you right now and will continue to think of you. I wish I could take the pain away.



GracieGirl

Gracie,

What an amazing thing. I have to agree with you.

Barefoot - my condolences on Brutus. Every time I lose a pet, I say it will be the last and then... someone wonderful and furry enters my life and enriches it beyond compare.

Bare - I also owe you an apology... I have been a TOTVer since late last year and a poster for a bit, but only found this thread today. So when I responded to a post by Chels - from over a year ago - had my years mixed up - I never dreamt it would be the last post - and right in the middle of everyone's comments about Brutus.

A semi-new sistah hope to be

Kate

[graciegirl]

Kate. You are so kind and dear. I would love to be your sistah.

[Barefoot]

I love this thread also .. I always envied the girls on Sex in The City. And now I'm living it! Well, perhaps not the sex part .... but the friendship part for sure.

Thanks for your kind thoughts about Brutus, of course I miss him dreadfully, but I also know it gets easier with time. And although I say "never again" to getting another dog, in my heart I know I'll always want to be surrounded by animals.

And now on to more cheerful topics.

Bathing suit shopping. Well, perhaps not that cheerful a topic. I don't understand why men have bathing suits like boxer shorts that go down to their knees. And women, who have cellulite, have bathing suits with bikini bottoms. Is this a consipiracy?

[katezbox]

Dear Sistahs,

One I FINALLY get there, I will ask my cuter half to go play golf or some such thing, and have y'all over for Cosmos on the lanai. If I don't have furniture it may be one of those BYOC (bring your own chair) parties.:MOJE_whot:

[KathieI]

Sounds good to me Kate, and then we'll have a big group

http://www.millan.net/minimations/smileys/grouphugg.gif (http://www.millan.net)


I did the same thing, had boxes all over the house (about 150 to be exact) and the place was a dizasta but had all the sistah's over for a coffee meet... Loads of fun. Count me in, I hope... http://www.millan.net/minimations/smileys/begging.gif (http://www.millan.net)

[katezbox]

Sounds good to me Kate, and then we'll have a big group

http://www.millan.net/minimations/smileys/grouphugg.gif (http://www.millan.net)


I did the same thing, had boxes all over the house (about 150 to be exact) and the place was a dizasta but had all the sistah's over for a coffee meet... Loads of fun. Count me in, I hope... http://www.millan.net/minimations/smileys/begging.gif (http://www.millan.net)

Kath,

It would not be a party without you!

K

[Barefoot]

Cosmos on the lanai .... sounds like a plan! :beer3:

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I would like to know .....

Has anyone found a good bathing suit store in TV? (By that I mean a store that sells bathing suits that makes you look 20 lbs thinner). :evil6:

[graciegirl]

Dear Sistahs,

One I FINALLY get there, I will ask my cuter half to go play golf or some such thing, and have y'all over for Cosmos on the lanai. If I don't have furniture it may be one of those BYOC (bring your own chair) parties.:MOJE_whot:

I did the same Kate, when we were barely unpacked. It was even worse, people cheerfully brought their own coffee cup and ate the donuts out of the Publix box. The BEST, best, best, BEST thing here in TV is the people. I am so glad you are gonna be one of the bunch,Kate. You fit right in!

[katezbox]

Hi Gracie,

What a lovely thing to say. We are officially less than a month now, so the excitement is building.

Barefoot... I think the best way to find a suit that makes you look slimmer is to try the catalogs - especially Lands End. The suits come with a "protection" strip and you can try them on in the relative comfort of you own home. I hate trying on suits in stores - between the florescent lights and the sales people trying to be helpful.

The suits that make you look thinner also seem to be heavier - something has to keep my pooch under control. So I just say the H * * L with it and go for comfort,

Kate

[Barefoot]

Hi Gracie,


Barefoot... I think the best way to find a suit that makes you look slimmer is to try the catalogs - especially Lands End. Kate

Does Lands End have a website? I've never heard of it. And bathing suits usually can't be returned. So how does that work if you're ordering from a catalogue?

Thanks Kate!

[Boomer]

Bare, we're dying to know! (dyeing? lol) How did your hair color adventure turn out? What did you have done? What did you ask them to do? Did your hair turn out the way you hoped it would? Do you have any photos you can share? Was it really inexpensive? Inquiring minds want to know.

The last time I had my hair colored I asked for subtle highlights. I hoped for thin little SUBTLE highlights all over sort of like you used to get with a "frosting cap." Remember those? They were like shower caps with tiny holes all over and the stylist pulled your hair through with something like a crochet hook? And remember how much it hurt? But the results were usually worth the pain, at least that's how I remember it. I tried to explain it to my young stylist, but she had never heard of a frosting cap. I didn't want her to USE one, but I wanted results like I used to get with it, so I kept repeating the words "subtle" and "highlights."

When she was finished my entire head was a strange, shimmery copper color (much like an astronaut's face mask) with bright white skunk stripes all over the top! WIDE skunk stripes. Yikes! I've been afraid to have it colored again. I don't know what to ask for. Apparently the definitions of subtle and highlights have changed over the years. Does anybody know what the new terminology is?

JudyJudyJudy,

How well I remember that cap. And how well I know the horrors of a botched dye-job. Back in the days of that plastic cap plus crochet hook, I ended up with a badly done "frosting." I tried to cover those streaks with brown. Not a good plan. I turned my hair olive green.

Subtle highlights these days are called "spotlights" in my neck of the woods. I think sometimes spotlights are just in front though. Make sure how that translates. But something tells me that the one who got a hold of you did not have a clue about much of anything.

Later on in the thread, you said that you saw a color pen on television. I hope we can track that down. And I hope it comes in darker colors, too.

Here's why......

My hair grows really fast. I cannot get by much more than a month before those white roots start to glare. I am white right on top and even though the rest of the color still looks fine, if I let that white top get too long, from a distance it looks like Friar Tuck's haircut. I think his haircut was called a tonsure. Anyway, from a distance, that white top starts to look like it is scalp. Hence, the Friar Tuck haircut (or hair shave) look.

So you can bet I am there with my life savings money, just turning it over to my hairdresser. I am extremely loyal to my hairdresser. She saved me from pink hair years ago when my former hairdresser could not seem to figure out that it was time to change from semi-permanent to permanent color. She is one heck of a chemist, knows color like nobody I have ever seen. But she is close to my age and I fear she will retire. I have told her that I will stalk her once a month if she dares to retire. We always have such a good time, too, while she is coloring my hair. We can talk about hormones and such. She is not one of those young ones wearing those 5-inch high-heeled shoes while standing on her feet all day.

Ironically, when this thread started about a year ago, I think the first discussion was about hair color. I was going on and on about Wella and could I find Wella in TV. Wella is the only one that will cover my while roots.

She uses Wella on the roots and I get spotlights every three months or so, sometimes I get highlights, always subtle though. She also uses something she calls "clear." I think it is a Goldwell product. It goes on last and what it does is it brings back the shine. (I am tellin' ya, it is a piece of work.)

So this gets pretty expensive because my hair grows kind of fast and sometimes I would like to be able to just do something to the roots with a Crayola or something like that, only better, when those roots first come in. Not only to save some money, but if I am away from home and need my roots done, whatever would I do? I have had too many bad dye jobs over the years. Green. Pink. And a few others in between. Not up to taking a chance again.

So anyway, Judy, I hope this pen comes in a color to help me get those roots on top and stretch the time in between those hairdresser appointments. I don't know if I can really make it work right though. A couple of times I have actually had people say that they did not think my hair was dyed. That is the best compliment you can get on a dye-job as far as I am concerned. So I will probably continue to pay through the nose to get the expertise. But I want to learn more about that pen, just in case.

Boomer

[KathieI]

Bare, here's the link. They have great stuff. About returning bathing suits? I'm not sure but a quick phone all to cust serv will answer that. Hope this helps.


http://www.landsend.com/ix/womens-clothing/index.html?tab=2&seq=1&page=1&pageSize=12&store=le

[Boomer]

Does Lands End have a website? I've never heard of it. And bathing suits usually can't be returned. So how does that work if you're ordering from a catalogue?

Thanks Kate!

Barefoot,

I was just going on and on about my roots here and when I sent it to post I looked back and saw your post so here I am again.

Kate is right. Lands End is great. And yes you can return bathing suits. And they come in "long" torso (read "more stretch" between the lines there) I have been ordering the same black bathing suit from them for more than a hundred years now. I stockpile them so that when the chlorine eats one, I have another one ready. I think it is called the "tugless tank" or something like that. They have an amazing selection of bathing suits.

(And btw, I have always said "bathing suits." But when Chicago son-in-law came into the family, he thought that was weird and that we should call them swimming suits. :shrug: But I do not pay any attention to what he says. He also thought Cincinnati Skyline Chili was weird and now he is hooked on it. HAH!!!)

Boomer

[sschuler1]

That is funny Boomer! We say bathing suits here in Michigan too, but if you think about it, swimming suits does make more sense. When you are using a public pool you really hope that people aren't going there to bathe.

[Barefoot]

I just checked out the Lands End site .. they have 203 bathing suits. A plethora! I wonder if the sizes are "true"??

Before every house was equipped with running water, (shudder), perhaps the term "bathing suit" was quite accurate.

[Boomer]

That is funny Boomer! We say bathing suits here in Michigan too, but if you think about it, swimming suits does make more sense. When you are using a public pool you really hope that people aren't going there to bathe.

You know, though, SS, now that I think about it a little bit. Is it called the "Sports Illustrated Swimsuit issue"? You don't suppose my SIL, when he tried to correct us, was operating under the influence of such a thing do you? :shrug:

Boomer

[triciajo]

Barefoot, I have ordered my bathing suits from Lands End for the last 5 years. The sizes are true and the quality is very good. Just wish I got to use them more in Michigan!

[Boomer]

Barefoot,

I tend to be a dinosaur when it comes to trying to shop online. Actually I find it to be slow and in the case of all those bathing suit choices, maybe a little overwhelming. I like to just flip through a catalogue I can hold in my hands. And go back later easily. (I really must be a dinosaur.) I just took a look at the Lands End catalogue I just got and it has a big section on bathing suits. If you don't mind getting catalogues in the mail, you might want to call and have them send you one.

Boomer

[triciajo]

I agree. Look in the book first, then check the one you like online. They show back views too.

[katezbox]

Hi Ladies,

It seems some of my sistuhs have also used Lands End. I have tried sometimes buying a couple of styles in a couple of sizes, then returning the ones you don't like.

Because they have that privacy strip on the bottom, they let you return them. I have also found their operators and on-line chat folks to be very knowledgeable about the products. So they can tell you if that Tugless Tank that Boomer likes fits true ti size. Even when I was a size 6 (back when I met Mr. Katezbox a mere 8 years ago), I still took a size larger in a suit. :shrug:

I also really like that they have a lot of the two piece tankini styles. I am really short waisted, but have long legs to they fit me better especially now that I am a bit fluffier. And don't worry about the "-ini" at the end - these cover up what needs covering!

We New Englanders also call them bathing suits.

Kate

[uujudy]

JudyJudyJudy,


Later on in the thread, you said that you saw a color pen on television. I hope we can track that down. And I hope it comes in darker colors, too.

. . .
So anyway, Judy, I hope this pen comes in a color to help me get those roots on top and stretch the time in between those hairdresser appointments. I don't know if I can really make it work right though. A couple of times I have actually had people say that they did not think my hair was dyed. That is the best compliment you can get on a dye-job as far as I am concerned. So I will probably continue to pay through the nose to get the expertise. But I want to learn more about that pen, just in case.

Boomer

OK Bare & Boomer, I've been searching and googling for this product for days, and this is all I could find: http://www.quicktint.net/what_they_said.html
This product doesn't look like a hair dye; it looks more like a cover-up -- like mascara for the hair (hairscara?).

I thought the product they had on the Today show was actual hair color in a pen, but it was early in the morning and I was still on my first cup of coffee. The product was one of the featured new beauty "must-haves" for spring, and the Today Show folks were very excited about it. Good luck finding anything about it at the Today Show website! I should keep a pencil and paper handy so I can take notes while watching tv. Oh man, I'm turning into my mil. :laugh:
Forgetfully yours,
Judy

[katezbox]

Google is our friend...


I found a product called the "Tween Time Instant Haircolor Touch-Up Stick". It is by Roux and available on Amazon in a variety of delightfully un-gray colors for $6.95.

I have found that most links folks post on TOTV lately, just redirect back to the thread. So just go to www.amazon.com and seach on "tween time."

Kate

PS - due to our upcoming move (yeah:2excited:) I have to go nearly 8 weeks - i'm gonna but me some of this stuff and see if it works.

[katezbox]

Google is our friend...


I found a product called the "Tween Time Instant Haircolor Touch-Up Stick". It is by Roux and available on Amazon in a variety of delightfully un-gray colors for $6.95.

I have found that most links folks post on TOTV lately, just redirect back to the thread. So just go to www.amazon.com and seach on "tween time."

Kate

PS - due to our upcoming move (yeah:2excited:) I have to go nearly 8 weeks - i'm gonna but me some of this stuff and see if it works.

GULP - the shipping is almost as much as the stick... maybe I'll try to find it locally.:shrug:

[Boomer]

Judy and Kate,

Thanks for the research. This whole thing with hair color can sure get to be an aggravation sometimes. But I am not yet up to trying to make the transition.

I got an email just yesterday from a longtime friend who spent the winter going gray. She has now cut her long hair off as short as possible. She said it is like one of those things we used to call a "pixie" cut.

Her husband has been away on one of those trips guys go on so they can male bond and fart whenever they want to and all that stuff. She said she has warned him that her hair is so short now that when he returns he may think an old gray-haired man has moved into their house. I can't tell if she is about to chicken-out and throw herself on the mercy of Miss Clairol or not.

Nora Ephron's book I Feel Bad About My Neck talks about this very issue, along with so many other issues that we face as we age. She does it with humor, of course. And you have to love that title.

Boomer

[Whalen]

and all that stuff.
I am currently in need of a good manicure and pedicure. Will soon need a hair cut and a touch up, preferably a salon that uses wella products.
Any recommendations that will not break the bank?
Thanks

[Barefoot]

If you want Pink and Whites, I am the "go to" girl. I had my first set in October and have never looked back. :coolsmiley:

Please don't listen to Chels .. she only has the very boring acrylics. :shrug:

Re bathing suits .. I think it takes a lot of courage to shop for bathing suits on line. I've been looking around this week. None at Bealls, Bear Dance, TJ Maxx, other shops at LSL. :undecided: I did find some possiblilties today at Kohls. Will investigate again tomorrow.

[chelsea24]

Witch! Bare thought I was asleep! Talking behind my back! I have beautiful pink and whites compared to Bare's weedy little nubs! :rant-rave:

(Whalen, don't think we're serious. Bare and I are best friends.) :girlneener:


whisper: Hollywood Nails.

[LELANDJANE]

Where do you get pink and whites in tv? I'm coming down tomorrow and am in desperate need

[Barefoot]

Where do you get pink and whites in tv? I'm coming down tomorrow and am in desperate need

Please PM me and I'll give you my recommendation. I'm going on Tuesday for new Pink and Whites.

And I can also give you the name of Chel's pedicure guy! I have to admit, he does a great leg massage.

[LELANDJANE]

I don't know how to PM! Sorry

[chelsea24]

Hollywood Nails for manicure and pedicure Le! You'll love it there. Right on 466 in the row of shops in front of Wal-Mart. :eclipsee_gold_cup: Ask for Timmy for the pedicure. He's wonnnnnnnnnnnnnderful!

[Barefoot]

Where do you get pink and whites in tv? I'm coming down tomorrow and am in desperate need

I have used Hollywood Nails (753-4134) as recommended by Chels. Timmy is good for pedicures.

However ... for my cherished Pink and Whites, I prefer "Nails and Beyond". It is located beside Bonefish Grill on CR 466 (west of Southern Trace Plaza). 753-9222 .. ask for Cindy.

[LELANDJANE]

Thanks,

I'm about to leave for tv and will try for the pink and whites tomorrow.
Have a great weekend!

[Barefoot]

I just used the Salon Professional Academy for a hair color. I could have done it at home in ten minutes by using "Perfect 10"! But I thought I'd give the Academy a try.

It took them 2 1/2 hours to turn my hair coal black. Which would be just fine, if I hadn't requested light brown. :cus:

Never, never again. And if you see me, I'll be wearing a hat for a while.

[KathieI]

Oh Bare, that's so awful. There are some shampoos that will strip some of that color out for you without hurting the condition of your hair, I'll have to think about which ones. But don't redo the color for a few days - that's what I used to hear at Redken. Wonder why they were too stupid to realize the color was not what you wanted.??? Thanks for the heads up, I'll never go there now.

You won't need to wear a hat, you'll still look so cute. Hope to see you on Friday at the lunch. Lots of our friends will be there! Surprise, surprise!!

[nONIE]

Bare,

It seems alot of the colors come out much darker then they are supposed to. I always go one shade lighter then the color I want and it comes out perfect . the problem is that it fades so quickly in the Florida sun, How do you prevent that????


Just sit in the sun a few days, I guarantee it will lighten up about 3 shades very quickly! The other thing is washing your hair in Dawn Dish liquid. Its a little harsh but a good conditioner should do the trick!

[Barefoot]

I'm on my way out the door to buy Dawn Dish Detergent. Thanks Nonie. I'll never joke about doilies again.

Kathie, if you think of the shampoo, it may do a kinder job than Dawn Detergent! I'm wearing baseball hats for now and avoiding anyone I know.

I'm leaving TV on Saturday for six months. Surely by the time I return I won't look like Morticia any more. Is there ever a lot of stuff to do at the last minute, arrrrrg.

[Barefoot]

I'll never forget the time I decided to have my hair bleached blonde as a teenager. Having red in my hair the professional bleach job came out a bright, bright bronze. I wore a babuska for days to school until I could get into another salon to tone it done.

This was one of my most embarrassing moments of youth.

When I was in my 20s, I had dark hair down to my waist which I regularly ironed. I had it bleached white blonde. It all broke off so I only had one inch of hair left.

Ah, the things we did when we were young. (And now I'm old, I still keep doing them :cus: ).

[KathieI]

I remember at 13 using straight first-aid peroxide on my hair on the top only and winding up with ORANGE HAIR!! OMG, I told mom it happened at the pool from the chlorine... she didn't buy that lie. Thank goodness I wised up, or did I????????

[JeanneBeannie]

I have been up since 4 a.m. :icon_bored: to get a head start on my outside work, since this is supposed to be the first warmest day in 8 months! :yuck:. I found your site, great idea Barefoot! I've been reading all your posts since day one and really enjoyed it! My doggies kept looking at me like I was crazy when I would bust out with laughter lol :a20:. May I join? My name is Jeanne, single Mom of a wonderful 31 yr. old son and live in Upstate NY., recently retired and my sister suggested The Villages to me, as she knows people that live there and love it. Long story short lol...I am hooked! :coolsmiley:. My house is on the market, I have it priced to sell :(. Not sad about selling lol, sad that I will have to take a loss if I want to sell and move to TV....from what I can tell it will be well worth it!! :pepper2: Great site for girl talk :beer3:.

[Boomer]

I have been up since 4 a.m. :icon_bored: to get a head start on my outside work, since this is supposed to be the first warmest day in 8 months! :yuck:. I found your site, great idea Barefoot! I've been reading all your posts since day one and really enjoyed it! My doggies kept looking at me like I was crazy when I would bust out with laughter lol :a20:. May I join? My name is Jeanne, single Mom of a wonderful 31 yr. old son and live in Upstate NY., recently retired and my sister suggested The Villages to me, as she knows people that live there and love it. Long story short lol...I am hooked! :coolsmiley:. My house is on the market, I have it priced to sell :(. Not sad about selling lol, sad that I will have to take a loss if I want to sell and move to TV....from what I can tell it will be well worth it!! :pepper2: Great site for girl talk :beer3:.

Good Morning JeanneBeannie,

Welcome. I have always loved this thread that Barefoot started more than a year ago I think. (My computer is really slow this morning or I would look back at the date of the first post.) Anyway, where else but with Girl Talk could we parade our hair color issues and people would understand perfectly and try to help. And all those other things, too. And the topics just go from one to the other and all over the place and everybody in this thread likes it that way and gets it all just fine.

I am not in TV at this point. We are thinking of a small second home there maybe. We were there for a month in 2007 and were not quite ready. We will return this summer or fall for a long rental and another look. Meanwhile, I am taking golf lessons again. I took them a few years ago but I need major help and will never be good at it. I am really good though at going out to lunch after. But there is so much to do in TV that golf is not required.

So good luck on your house sale and your new adventure.

Boomer

[katezbox]

I love your screen name! This is such a fun thread.

Boomer, I will gladly golf with you this summer. I love to play, but will never be good. I just love the courses and how beautiful it is outside. Plus you can drink beer to improve your chances of hitting the ball in the right direction.

I am also quite good at lunch - I wish I were better at golf and less good at lunch.

C'est la vie.

Kate

[sschuler1]

Welcome Jeanne! The more the merrier! Keeps the topics interesting!!:wave:

[KathieI]

Jeanne, welcome to girl talk. You'll love it in the villages. Good luck with selling your home. I hope you move into Heavenly Hadley, we already have about 5 single women on my street and we are all good friends. You'll have a great time with us. Keep us posted on your progress. Sell, sell, sell!!!!

[nONIE]

A great big welcome to you Jeanne!

Where in N.Y. state do you live????

[JeanneBeannie]

How wonderful you all are!! Thank you so much for your very warm welcome! :mademyday:. No wonder everyone cant wait to return or move there!! :coolsmiley:. Boomer thank you, I took golf lessons once, I could hit the ball but could never get it in the air lol! I'm much better at lunch too! Thank you Kate, my friends call me Jeanne Beannie, I guess cause I am so silly (or nuts lol) :shrug:. Thanks Sshuler for the welcome too! And Nonie...I live in Cobleskill are we near each other? And thank you Kathie for the nice welcome....you will laugh if I can explain this right. Every night I go to bed with all these villages running thru my head, where am I to look? :shrug:, and everytime I kept telling myself that I need to check out "Heavenly Hadley". So cool that there are other single women there too! It must have been a premonition sp? lol. Are there any houses there for sale? I look forward to meeting all of you!! Thanks again! :pepper2:

[Barefoot]

my friends call me Jeanne Beannie, I guess cause I am so silly (or nuts lol) :shrug:.

JeanneBeannie, we love silliness in TV. :bowdown: You will fit right in and you will just love it here, I promise you that.

By the way, I said in an earlier post that Head & Shoulders would strip color from your hair if you are "overdyed" like I am right now. Nope, it doesn't strip color any more. I think people must have complained to Head & Shoulders. And they must have added a "color guard" to their shampoo. :yuck:

So today I'm using Dawn Dish Detergent as suggested by Nonie. I don't want to arrive in Canada tomorrow looking like Morticia.

[JeanneBeannie]

Excellent idea starting this forum....I think its great! Thanks for your welcome and assurance that I will love it. I am sure I will, especially with all you great gals! From reading all the old posts....yep you are all silly too lol lol, I love it! :coolsmiley:. I feel for you regarding your hair, so sorry, thats the pits! I died my hair for the first time (and last lol) and it came out black! My son called me Morticia for weeks!! :ohdear:. Have a good trip home, and have fun with Lolli...so adorable! Maybe I will be there by the time you get back to TV :pepper2:.

[KathieI]

JeanneBeannie, we love silliness in TV. :bowdown: You will fit right in and you will just love it here, I promise you that.

By the way, I said in an earlier post that Head & Shoulders would strip color from your hair if you are "overdyed" like I am right now. Nope, it doesn't strip color any more. I think people must have complained to Head & Shoulders. And they must have added a "color guard" to their shampoo. :yuck:

So today I'm using Dawn Dish Detergent as suggested by Nonie. I don't want to arrive in Canada tomorrow looking like Morticia.

Barefoot, tomorrow?? OH MY, my kisses to you for a safe journey. We'll miss you here but you'll be on totv more often cause there's nothing to do in Canada, LOL.

Yes your right, most of the shampoos that used to strip hair color have been either discontinued or reforumulated. The best used to be Flex by Revlon or Hair Cleansing Cream by Redken, but I don't believe they exist anymore.

Before you try Dawn, go in the pool, the chlorine will strip the color for sure. Let us know the outcome.

Jeanne Beannie, yes there are a few houses in Hadley still available but not many. Let me know if you want me to look at any for you. Get down here, we need another nut!!

[nONIE]

Jeanne, ANOTHER NUT!!! You dont know how happy that makes me. Everyone is so serious here in the Northeast. I get to act like the idiot I am in TV, I guess thats why I love it so much. I can be me and still be accepted.What a wonderful feeling that is.

Jeanne, I think you live about 2 hours N.E of me, practicaly neighbors!

Hey you know what? I just had a thought. I am always looking for company either driving or flying down to T.V. If your ever interested in making the drive with me let me know. You are more then welcome to stay with me too!

My hubs doesnt come down to TV as much as I do. Cant you see us 2 nuts driving down I -95 hell bent for TV? ::loco::l:loco::l

[JeanneBeannie]

Thank you Kathie, how kind that is of you to offer to look at places for me! Wow....after I saw that I searched online for places in Hadley! :coolsmiley:. I got interrupted by my realtor tho lol, she stopped by and I told her to SELL THIS HOUSE :evil6:. I told her I was moving to TV, at first she didnt realize how serious I was lol...but she does now! She even took my TV dvd home to look at it lol.
Nonie....what can I say? You are just too much (in a wonderful way)! :eclipsee_gold_cup:. When my realtor was here we were talking about me making arrangements for me to fly down and check it out, I hadnt checked that out yet, its so overwhelming, with the house for sale, my doggies etc. :mornincoffee:, then I get your sweet message! I would love to travel down there with you, how fun would that be?????!? Lol lol two nuts!! :MOJE_whot:. That is a very nice offer, and is truly appreciated. Like I said...I have been incognito for a month or so cause this is a big step for me....but after hearing how sweet you ladies are...there isnt a doubt in my mind that TV is where I want to be! :pepper2:

[Shirleevee]

Kathie, Nonie & JB,

On your way down 95, please stop in Staten Island and pick me up lololol

[JeanneBeannie]

That would be just sooooo much fun Shirlee!!! :pepper2:
How cool would that be lol lol lol!! :coolsmiley:

Jeanne :2excited:

[Barefoot]

Bare,

It seems alot of the colors come out much darker then they are supposed to. The other thing is washing your hair in Dawn Dish liquid. Its a little harsh but a good conditioner should do the trick!

OK, I put Dawn Dish liquid on my head for 30 minutes and then washed it off. My hair was even darker than before! Arrrg. :yuck: This does NOT work.

I'm leaving today for Canada for six months. So I'll just wear a baseball cap for a while.
I'd sit in the sun (as suggested) but we don't have any sunshine in Canada.:cryin2::cryin2::cryin2::cryin2::cryin2:

[JeanneBeannie]

Have a safe trip back to Canada. Are you going to fly? Is Lolli going to fly too? My sister fly's her doggies, I would be so nervous. But she said they do just fine.
I'm so sorry about your hair, I soooooo understand cause like I said it happened to me too. Wish I had some ideas for you, I just kept washing and washing lol. I wonder if Donna might have some ideas for you since she has a hair salon? Good luck to you and have a good trip. :beer3:

[Boomer]

Hi Barefoot,

I have been hoping that the Dawn would work. I sure wish it had. I know how you feel. When I had mahogany, purple, pink, whatever hair it was awful. I looked like some kind of pathetic middle-aged punk rocker. And I had to go to work with my hair like that for a few days. That was in 2001. The place where I had been going for years had not figured out that I had too much white hair under there to keep using semi-permanent color. I even gave her a shot at fixing it, but she still did not figure it out. So we broke up, after a lot of years together.

What fixed it is that I found the hairdresser that I still have. She had to strip the color out totally. That process turned my hair kind of the color of yellowish cellophane. Then she went back in to return color. First she used Goldwell which did not cover. Then she she hit it with Wella which covered. So you have to get it out and then put it back. Quite a process. My hair must be tough. I was in her chair for hours and we became buddies. I am still intensely loyal to her.

Was this some kind of school where you went? If so, geez! Where in the heck were the teachers?

I know that black is pretty tough to deal with when this kind of thing happens. You might have to get a really cute, really short haircut and then just grow it out. Or if you cannot stand to do this, find the best, most experienced hairdresser you can find and give that hairdresser your life savings. That's what I had to do.

Oh Barefoot. I have been there. More than once. Also had green hair one time long ago. But I did that to myself. I will have to tell you all about that some time (unless I already have).

I wish you the best. Please keep us posted.

Boomer

[Barefoot]

Have a safe trip back to Canada. Are you going to fly? Is Lolli going to fly too? My sister fly's her doggies, I would be so nervous. But she said they do just fine.
I'm so sorry about your hair, I soooooo understand cause like I said it happened to me too. Wish I had some ideas for you, I just kept washing and washing lol. I wonder if Donna might have some ideas for you since she has a hair salon? Good luck to you and have a good trip. :beer3:


JB, I am flying with my ten pound dog (Biggins) with me in the cabin. I would never put a dog in cargo. I've heard too many horror stories. :yuck:

Fireboy is driving with Lolli, Snert (the 17 year old cat) and they are towing a motorcycle. Good luck to him. It is a 26 hour drive.

Boomer, thanks for the note on hair colour. I've decided to ignore my black hair .. in three weeks it will fade I know. Hats are my friend.

And by the way, I am very grateful for the information and support you gave me when I had to have Brutus euthanized. Thanks again.

[Boomer]

Barefoot,

You are quite welcome. I can relate, as you know.

Spring and blue sky have finally arrived in Ohio and I am not passing the computer as often as on those dreary days of winter. In fact, right now I am going outside with my brand new pair of Felco2 pruners to chop the heads off my Knockout roses. Actually, I am taking them back to less than a foot from the ground. So that's more than just their heads I guess. I turn into the Red Queen when I get my pruners in hand. But I digress...

Anyway, did I miss something? Who is the beautiful creature in your new avatar?

Boomer

[JeanneBeannie]

Guess what? My sister just sent me an email, and she dyed her hair with Clairol and she said it came out red, purple and orange!! And she said the same thing that you did lol....that she looked like a punk rocker! Oh...but the point of me telling you this is lol (sorry I tend to yack on and on lol) :blahblahblah:. She had to go to a professional today, cost her $200, and they told her that she cant color over highlights and sometimes happens when trying to cover gray. She had hair down to her waist, but had to cut it to her ears!! :22yikes:

[nONIE]

Wouldnt it be wonderful if totally bald came into style for women?? Then all we would have to worry about is what polish to use to make it shine!:sigh:

As Bare would say, easy peasy!

[nONIE]

OK, I put Dawn Dish liquid on my head for 30 minutes and then washed it off. My hair was even darker than before! Arrrg. :yuck: This does NOT work.

I'm leaving today for Canada for six months. So I'll just wear a baseball cap for a while.
I'd sit in the sun (as suggested) but we don't have any sunshine in Canada.:cryin2::cryin2::cryin2::cryin2::cryin2:

Oh Bare, Im so sorry the Dawn did not work! It did work for me a while back!

What kind of dye did they use on you? It sounds like the kind of stuff Im looking for that wont fade away in the sunshine. Geeezzzzz! Well one thing for sure is I have seen you in a baseball cap and you look adorable, but if the sun happens to come out in Canada, take the cap off and bask in it, hopefully that will help! Safe journeys for you & Fireboy.

[JeanneBeannie]

Wouldnt it be wonderful if totally bald came into style for women?? Then all we would have to worry about is what polish to use to make it shine!:sigh:

As Bare would say, easy peasy!


Love it! We could call ourselves "The Bald Babies Club"! :beer3:
Listen to me lol....I am talking like I already live there lol. I warned you I was silly a.k.a. nuts lol. :shrug:

[nONIE]

Thats good Jeanne! I like that "the bald babies"

Dont worry about being too silly, Your just fuel for my fire, and were gonna have fun when were both in TV!! I promise!:a040: